Describe the first time you had sex?

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How did it feel? Did it hurt? Was it pleasurable? Were you nervous about taking your clothes off in front the opposite gender? What did you guys do exactly?

RebeccaSJ · Accepted Answer

I was 25. It was my birthday. I'd been seeing my boyfriend for about a year. I didn't start out intending to have sex, but I must admit that I had thought about it. I had wanted him for a while, but I was raised to wait for marriage. Still, on this particular day my desire for him was especially strong.

My boyfriend said he had a very special birthday present for me, so we went to his house. There he carried out a well executed seduction. I was more than a bit reluctant, but I was in love with him, so eventually his gentle persistence won me over. He was kind, sweet, romantic, gentle, and persistent and respectful of my feelings and eventually my resistance fell away. I couldn't resist anymore.

He had mentioned to me a few times that he had an urge to make love to me, but that he respected my feelings enough not to pursue it. I had felt the urge too, but I had always managed not to succumb to it. Somehow, this day felt different, though I didn't realize why.

He started to make small, subtle advances and I barely noticed. Or maybe I didn't want to notice. The wet kisses passed unnoticed. He mentioned again that he had been thinking a lot about making love to me lately. Gradually, the advances got more direct and forward.

Somewhere along the line, I started to say no and it came out OK. That's when I knew it was time. I was surprised, but I knew I was ready, due to his persistence. So I gave in. I was scared, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I actually found myself looking forward to it. I was overwhelmed by the sheer pleasure and the romantic moment.

I sent him out of the room, then I stripped my way up the stairs, leaving a boot at the foot of the stairs, another boot a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps after that, my pantyhose a step up from there, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties hanging on the doorknob of the bedroom.

I waited completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies and climbed on the bed next to me. I was tingling. After a little foreplay, I took his underpants off. Then we curled up and gave each other oral simultaneously. We did that for about half an hour.

Then I rolled over on my back and he went inside. We had intercourse for quite a long time. He was very good, and he told me he enjoyed it too. I had two or three orgasms and he came too. It was excellent! He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as a girl's first time can be.

Afterwards, I felt a mix of emotions: sadness, exhilaration, excitement, disappointment, deep romance, nervousness, peace, a bit of regret, but also happiness, satisfaction, and a myriad of other feelings. It was all something of a jumble.

It was a wonderful first experience, very romantic and tender. He was patient and he was very good. I felt like part of me had just died, but I also felt like I had just started an exciting new adventure, one I would enjoy many times afterward. What a great birthday present!

_lightness_ · Accepted Answer

The first time I had sex was with my current boyfriend who I've been with for over a year (and that's REALLY weird for me too. I used to hook up, without having sex, with lots of guys and never have committed relationships).

We were both drunk at my house, I'd just had a bunch of friends over and he and I went upstairs to my room and started making out. I had wanted to lose my virginity for a while, so I thought this would be the perfect time. I wasn't dating him yet, we had gone out on one date and fooled around a little once, but we were still kind of strangers to each other.

After we were making out for a while I asked him if he had a condom. He asked me why and I told him 'So I don't get pregnant, idiot!' then he was very sweet and asked if I was sure I wanted to have sex with him (he didn't know it was my first time) and I said yes, so he pulled on his (blueberry flavored haha) condom and I remember thinking that him putting his d*ck inside me didn't feel as weird as I would have thought. Then I don't remember much else about the actual sex because I was pretty drunk. I think it hurt a little bit and I don't remember enjoying it enormously. I had just lost a lot of weight and was pretty skinny so I felt all right being naked in front of him, I felt really tiny next to him.

The thing that made it awesome though was that afterward we stayed up all night and talked and listened to my records and discovered that we both had a love for Queen and Led Zeppelin. He even got me to cuddle a little bit which is something I don't really do.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The first time I had sex was also when I found out I was allergic to latex. We went for a few minutes and I let him finish, but it wasn't enjoyable at all. When he stopped and asked if I was alright I told him no and he said that it hurts for all women the first time. But I knew better.

So the first time I had sex I ended up in the hospital taking benadryl and crying because of the itching and burning and pain.

Before that moment, there was no hesitation or nervousness. We'd been together a while already and we both just kind of mutually decided it was time. It was spur of the moment but it was actually really nice, and would've been something really nice to remember if we'd had a non-latex condom, lol.

kholland65 · Accepted Answer

It obviously felt good, but its more the mental aspect in my opinion. An orgasm is an orgasm. The only difference, feeling wise, is the warmness of being in a girl as opposed to your hand.

I was nervous but mostly about being able to last long enough. I had already mentally prepared myself for it a bit so I was ready. Plus we had previously had a few heavy make out sessions that almost lead to sex, so it was like I had already been to the top of the mountain, I just had to jump off.

I wasn't nervous really about taking my clothes since it partially was just the natural progression of things. It wasn't like we were just sitting there staring at each other and said, let's have sex, and dropped our pants. We were making out heavily and one by one pieces of clothing started to come off, so we were both partially eased into being nude in front of each other. Plus quite frankly, you start getting so turned on that you can't wait to take your clothes off. Obviously her being naked too helps with the nervousness since you're both in the same boat.

All in all, my first time went alright. I didn't put on the most epic performance ever seen but it went fine. I probably lasted about 15min, went through about 3 positions, a little oral and touching both ways. I basically just emulated things I had seen in p*rn (to a realistic degree of course). After that it all seemed so easy. Having sex was like kissing, not that it became bad or unimportant, it just didn't make me as nervous. We both got some comfortable with things like nudity that I didn't mind just getting naked and changing in front her. I mean, when you have sex, you can't really top that.

Sex is one of those things that is mostly mental (yes coming from a guy). People who have never had sex usually psyche themselves out. Its like riding a roller coaster, you just grit your teeth and do it and once its done, you realize how fun it was and how you were making a big deal out of nothing. More importantly you want to go for a ride again, and again, and again.

TheDarkNoodle · Answer

I was super nervous and self conscious, I'm pretty sure he didn't even get to see boobs. He was real sweet about it though. Took a couple of tries but by the second attempt it was great and we are still together two years later :)

1000111001 · Answer

Caution... Buzzkill... Rape

Anonymous · Answer

My first time was actually a pretty good experience looking back. My first time was with my ex who has been my one and only partner since. He was from New York which was like an hour from me so it was kind of long distance. He came up to see me at college and he had a nice romantic weekend together went to the beach out to eat and drinking with my friends. The last night he was there we had sex it was just a good experience he was nice and tender and sweet.

Anonymous · Answer

it was AMAZINGGG .. it didn't hurt because I lost my hymen while masturbating so yeah ..

its was the best time ever he was the love of life (still is.. we've been together for 2 years now) , I was nervous ofc about the whole idea but it all went smoothly .. he took my clothes off while kissing so I didn't even have the time be nervous about this part ..

i wish I can go back to that day it was the best day of my life !

Anonymous · Answer

well I never had sex before but the first time I masturbated felt euphoric I never looked back since lol

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