Guy has a constant erection around me, so easily?

[Anonymous]

the guy I am seeing is always hard around me! yesterday we were just sitting together and all he did was kiss me for one second on the stairs and felt my boob and butt over my clothes for a second. and I saw an erection and he constantly has one around me. he is an experienced guy...i didn't think experienced guys get hard so easily? is he just very attracted to me? he certainly can't keep his hands off me, ever.

[MrOracle]

When a guy is attracted to you, it's pretty normal if touching you gets him aroused. He's probably walking around half-hard most of the time thinking about you, and then he kisses or touches you? BOIIIIING!

That's pretty normal, especially for guys your age, who are in their sexual peak years. Sure, he might be able to control it more at this age, but he probably doesn't WANT to, and as long as it's only when he's around you, why WOULD he want to?

There are girls here who post that NOTHING they do can get their man aroused, and they feel completely rejected and inadequate, even though it isn't their fault. You should be happy; you have a much easier and understandable situation to deal with. Fun too!

[Asker]

he's 30

[MrOracle]

And you're a young hottie. Why wouldn't he be hard all the time? LOL. The point is: it's normal, and you'd HATE it if it was the opposite.

[LJHam]

MrOracle is RIGHT! Some of us have (more aptly now - had) the opposite problem. Had trouble feeling like a desirable woman. That is until a nice young 28yo came along. Hehe Don't question your gift.

[David2410]

I can't speak for him but I know that I am that way with my current girlfriend and it is because I find her so freaking sexy that I can't help it. He is either like me or he is just a real horndog that gets like that around anywoman he is banging. You may have to ask him if he is always like this or is it just you.

[Asker]

we haven't had sex yet

[Yurfavnia]

I mean my boyfriend is always aroud me and never gets hard. But when we are together alone he always is. Why is this? I really want to know. 😫

[LJHam]

He's YOUNG! That's what happens during teens & 20s. It might stop happening so much as he gets older. MIGHT.

[Asker]

he's 30.

[LJHam]

Ah, then he's probably really excited that he's a got a young gf.

[baliguy11]

we get hard easily

[7gnat]

Wow aren't you a lucky girl. He is obviously diggin you and he is 30 and doing well "down there". Take advantage of it. Some girls do not have guys that are that crazy about them or are not as "healthy" :)

[7gnat]

Yes we get the "point" (yes pun intended) Not sure if we need an erection update for each flow of blood into his massive penis but if it bothers you so much maybe you should date a guy in his late 60's?

[YankeePoint]

He is paying you a compliment! Be nice, and give him a hand or blow job occasionally.

[Trixter286]

I think it's a little strange to get turned on that easily, but a guy can't help getting an erection.

[cherryripe]

hey there i have a 57 year old man i'm seeing, i'm 40 he is full of life he is like that every time he kisses me or hugs me he is hard all the time. i fell awesome around him. he tells me i make him extra hard i like that as i know i keep him happy.

[Anonymous]

Boners happens a LOT. Usually you try to hide it because you're out in public but when you're with your girl then it doesn't matter. A boner isn't much of an accomplishment but it's clear he's attracted to you and probably daydreaming of what he'd do to you in bed.

[Asker]

yeah it just seems like he always has one with me and I thought it takes a bit of making out to even start one but he seems to get one just from touching me at all

[Opinion Owner]

Take it as a compliment anyways. Experienced or not you're hot enough to get him riled up and wanting you even by the little bit of touching or kissing you did ;)