Can short guys be good in bed?

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I have only dated guys that are 6'2 and above. Never really even bothered to looks his way if shorter than 5'10. But lately there is this guy who is 5'3. He is the sweetest person on this planet and its just amazing how much he cares for me. I've never had that before. So I thought of giving him a chanse. But I'm worried I won't get ytoo turned on when we get to bed. Because I'm used to such big guys. And by bihg I mean tall musculus etc. He is musxulus too but not tthat tall witch makes him look smaller.

So. Can short guys be good in bed too? Ladies hit me up with everything you have to say about this ;)

Myself I'm 5'3 too but its really unusual for me to date a guy my own hight. Feels weird. Like his not manly enough or something (stupid I know but it is what it is)

Sorry about my poor English.

Thank you for any input.

Much love <3<3

Answer 1

TheAnswerer | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexual Health topic.

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I don't see how being shorter could potentially reduce a guy's performance in bed.

Our performance depends on many things: Mood, stamina, confidence, experience, etc. but not height.

Anyway, I know this girl who used to have a silly principle of not dating anyone younger than her.

She rejected the same guy twice because of that. Then she finally gave in, and they have been together for 2 years. (Then they broke up.)

Anyways, the reason why I mentioned this is to exemplify that sometimes, we can let go of some of our principles. Especially when they are related to physical characteristics.

The important thing is not the guy's height, or age, or weight, or any other physical trait. The important thing is that you are happy with the guy.

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Answer 2

Anonymous

if you cared for him, size wouldn't be an issue

leave the guy if you don't take him seriously

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I do take him seriously and I do care for him. I guess you haven't been in my shoes before. Thanks anyway
TheAnswerer

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He took it as penis size, never mind him.
Opinion Owner

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nope, size can be height as well

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Asker

I do take him seriously and I do care for him. I guess you haven't been in my shoes before. Thanks anyway

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TheAnswerer

He took it as penis size, never mind him.

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Opinion Owner

nope, size can be height as well

Answer 6

heatherlu

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Height makes no difference.

I've dated guys from about 5'4 to about 6'4. And honestly, I'm pretty sure the height didn't have much effect in the bedroom, except with the tallest of the lot who seem to have a few problems with positioning - because of the height difference.

Your problem however, seems to be not about can he be good in bed, but are you attracted to him. If the answer is no, then I'm guessing that no matter how much you like him, or how nice he is, it isn't going to work out for you. Physical attraction is an important thing, and if you can't take him seriously in bed because of his height, it won't be good.

Give the guy a chance, he might be the small package good things come in.

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Ahh I feel like you understand me. lol. Thank you, beautiful.

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Asker

Ahh I feel like you understand me. lol. Thank you, beautiful.

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peace-love-couture

Yoda

My mom was just telling me that short guys are perverts because lack of options leads them to be perverts lol but I told her to stop cause it's not always true

But, I don't think it has any correlation with whether he is a good and selfless lover. Some guys are selfish while others are selfless and willing to please their partner first and foremost.

It's like asking if tall guys can be bad in bed. The answer is yes, but height has nothing to do with it

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Hahahaha, thanks for the info from your mom LOL

I see your point tho and I do agree. But I think my question here is more about my attraction towards him. I seem to have a hard time getting turned on whatsoever by shorter/smaller guys. I have only had 6'2 + tall, wide shoulder big arms and chest muscles etc etc. He has that too but he's short wich makes him seem smaller hence do I have a hard time geting turned on by him looks wise. I don't know if you understand my situation tho :-/
peace-love-couture

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No, I totally understand and attraction IS a big part of sex. If you aren't attracted to him in any way, shape or form, then it's best to not even try. However, if you're still questioning it, then give it a try. If you feel nothing, then you have your answer

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Asker

Hahahaha, thanks for the info from your mom LOL

I see your point tho and I do agree. But I think my question here is more about my attraction towards him. I seem to have a hard time getting turned on whatsoever by shorter/smaller guys. I have only had 6'2 + tall, wide shoulder big arms and chest muscles etc etc. He has that too but he's short wich makes him seem smaller hence do I have a hard time geting turned on by him looks wise. I don't know if you understand my situation tho :-/

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peace-love-couture

No, I totally understand and attraction IS a big part of sex. If you aren't attracted to him in any way, shape or form, then it's best to not even try. However, if you're still questioning it, then give it a try. If you feel nothing, then you have your answer

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Blue_eyed_beauty

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Lol umm I'm pretty sure a persons height has nothing to do with how good they are in bed. My boyfriend is 5'4" and amazing. Also, a guys height has nothing to do with being manly or not.

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He is much more of a man than any guy I have ever known. What I meant here is as in a sexual term for my personal cravings. I don't know if you know what I mean.:-/
Blue_eyed_beauty

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No, but I do know that height makes no difference during sex.
gettinthroughthepain

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you look awfully farmiliar beauty did you used to have an account on here a while ago? or am I crazy? (sorry if I am)
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Blue_eyed_beauty

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Haha yeah I did awhile ago.

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Asker

He is much more of a man than any guy I have ever known. What I meant here is as in a sexual term for my personal cravings. I don't know if you know what I mean.:-/

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Blue_eyed_beauty

No, but I do know that height makes no difference during sex.

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gettinthroughthepain

you look awfully farmiliar beauty did you used to have an account on here a while ago? or am I crazy? (sorry if I am)

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Blue_eyed_beauty

Haha yeah I did awhile ago.

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noisychicken

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Well you won't know until you try really I always thought it had to do more with his 'size' and girth, and libido. I myself have been with two women and they complimented me on my libido and I'm only 5'7"

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I guess I have a hard time getting attracted to shorter/smaller guys. Wich sucks
noisychicken

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Well can't say that I blame you, women have a subconscious way of picking out certain traits they find attractive so as to procure more genetically favorable offspring since women only have so many eggs and therefore are more selective than males, who produce our gametes daily until our testes give out which drives to be a lot less choosy when it comes to selecting genetic traits.

Sorry if it sounds long winded, but that's what I get for being a science major.
Asker

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No that sounds reasonable. I understand what you mean and I do honestly recognize myself in your tekst. It is true

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Asker

I guess I have a hard time getting attracted to shorter/smaller guys. Wich sucks

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noisychicken

Well can't say that I blame you, women have a subconscious way of picking out certain traits they find attractive so as to procure more genetically favorable offspring since women only have so many eggs and therefore are more selective than males, who produce our gametes daily until our testes give out which drives to be a lot less choosy when it comes to selecting genetic traits.

Sorry if it sounds long winded, but that's what I get for being a science major.

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Asker

No that sounds reasonable. I understand what you mean and I do honestly recognize myself in your tekst. It is true

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Anonymous

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=ZVFD1Tfb_Jc

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This question has NOTHING to do with penis size, idiot.
Opinion Owner

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Even though some girls say it is the motion in the ocean that counts blah blah blah it does count and surely your short friend has a very small "buddy" :)
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Nop he has big feet adn ehm so I think his "buddy" is good enogh. This question is more about that I have a h tim gettng attracted to shorter guys because I'm used to date 6'2 ft+ and really muscular guys I guess
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Opinion Owner

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Nah I bet he is small :P-he may still have uses though
justme20

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lmao sorry but feet and hands have NOTHING to do with size. sorry to break it to you
Asker

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Well whatever. point being that its not his d!ck size I'm thinking about here. For f***s sane.
Opinion Owner

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It should be :(:(:(:(:(
TheAnswerer

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He is a fast reader. He misinterpreted the title and didn't even read the rest of the question.

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Asker

This question has NOTHING to do with penis size, idiot.

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Opinion Owner

Even though some girls say it is the motion in the ocean that counts blah blah blah it does count and surely your short friend has a very small "buddy" :)

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Asker

Nop he has big feet adn ehm so I think his "buddy" is good enogh. This question is more about that I have a h tim gettng attracted to shorter guys because I'm used to date 6'2 ft+ and really muscular guys I guess

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Opinion Owner

Nah I bet he is small :P-he may still have uses though

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justme20

lmao sorry but feet and hands have NOTHING to do with size. sorry to break it to you

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Asker

Well whatever. point being that its not his d!ck size I'm thinking about here. For f***s sane.

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Opinion Owner

It should be :(:(:(:(:(

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TheAnswerer

He is a fast reader. He misinterpreted the title and didn't even read the rest of the question.

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goflipaburger | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexual Health topic.

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only one way to find out :)

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Fml

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Prof_Don | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexual Health topic.

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First off, stop being so judgmental on the guy because of his height.

Second...height isn't related to sexual skill.

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Answer 31

Anonymous

Retarded question is retarded. Obviously it depends on the guy, it has nothing to do with height.

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I agree, it really is a retarded question.

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Asker

I agree, it really is a retarded question.

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Anonymous

i'm 5'9, I've been with a 5'6 guy before, he was great in bed

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Anonymous

You will be sad when you see what is down "below"

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Thanks for not answering the question.
Opinion Owner

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:) anytime
Asker

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Eff you, Mr! :-p
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Opinion Owner

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:) awww

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Asker

Thanks for not answering the question.

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Opinion Owner

:) anytime

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Asker

Eff you, Mr! :-p

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Opinion Owner

:) awww

Answer 39

Anonymous

i'm also "musxulus".

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Lol well thank you for poiting that out ;)
Opinion Owner

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;)

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Asker

Lol well thank you for poiting that out ;)

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Opinion Owner

;)

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Anonymous

they sure can

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