What do you like in a lap dance?

my boyfriend want me to give him a lap dance/ strip tease. I know I want it to end in sex but I have no idea how to get there.Any tips/moves/personal experiences are appreciated. Even if she wasn't giving you an actual lap dance what are some sexy things she did that I can do? thanks:)


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  • Since I'm a former strip club addict you have asked me the right question lmao. Your biggest asset is confidence, if you act like (and believe) you're the hottest thing this guy has ever seen you will be the hottest thing he has seen. So be confident, don't be thinking of that mole you hate or the cellulite you might have in a certain position, he isn't looking at that sh*t lol. Always smile, move your body (hard to describe so you'll have to watch some lap dance movies), breath on his neck when you're face to face on him as you grind your thigh and knee over his balls lol. Sit on him facing him and rub your boobs across his face and rock your hips back and forth dry humping him. Then turn around and sit on his lap reverse cow girl and lean backwards so your back is on his tummy and chest then you put an arm behind his head and again breath on his neck and rock your hips on him dry humping. basically a lap dance is wiggling your butt cheeks and p**** on his pubic area. You don't want him to come though since a lap dance is a tease so when you sense he is getting really tense and hard switch it up and get yourself off his lap stand on the couch so your p**** is at his head height and rub it in his face so he gets high on your smell. After a minute of that go back to grinding on his lap and repeat. Of course for a proper lap dance he should be sitting in the middle of a couch with his hands at his sides not allowed to touch you.


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What Guys Said 3

  • Partial nudity.

  • seat him in a hard chair and spread his knees wide open and snuggle up real close facing away from him, now bend slightly at the waist and show him some skin, while swiveling your hips slowly lower yourself onto his lap putting just enough of your weight on his crotch to feel him getting excited...bing-OH..hahaha

  • lots of booty shaking..


What Girls Said 1

  • Are you going to have songs playing? I would try 'Skin - by Rihanna'. There's bound to be some songs out there you'll like.

    It may help to create an alter ego for something like this. xD

    Practice on your own, feel the music (by this, I mean.. Go with the tempo)

    Go slow, take your clothes (or your lingerie off very slowly...) Piece by piece.. Wear a necklace or gloves? You can try to incorporate that in the dance.

    The lap dance isn't just limited too, on his lap..

    Smile, give him a sultry look.. Feel yourself.. (Don't stay in one place for too long or move around too much where you're making him dizzy)

    Roll your hips, move to the music, grind your ass on him real gently, don't let him touch you (well, maybe once).. It's all about you touching him, teasing him.. Get real close to him. Then, you whisper something 'dirty' in his ear.. As do, just hovering your fingers above his skin.

    Play with the distance between you and him for a bit.. Let him touch you somewhere for a good 5 seconds (a deep touch, you know?) then move away.

    You can always get him up after you're done with giving him a lap dance and unzip his pants.. Go in for the dive. Tell him to give your sugar walls some lovin'.