Do girls like to give oral sex?

OK, I am looking for an honest answer here girls. What I really want to know is if you actually like giving oral sex for yourself. I don't mean that you like it because he likes it, or you like what it does to him, or anything like that. Do you actually like it? And if so, why? Let me tell you what I mean, so you can answer it better. I am a guy, and I LOVE to give oral sex to girls. Now it is true that I love what oral sex does to a woman. I love how it makes her feel, how she moans lightly and tenses up, I love how her fingers run through my hair, and then dig in when it's good. HOWEVER, I also love the act itself, independent of how it makes her feel. I love everything about a woman's labia and vagina. I think it's the most beautiful thing in the world. I love how it feels and tastes. I like to caress the outside of her labia with my fingers, blowing softly on her clit, teasing her until her hips are moving with anticipation. I love to look at it as I gently rub her with my fingers, moving her wetness up to her clit. I love how she looks, all swollen with desire and glistening. I love to kiss it first, gently, and then slowly lick her labia and clit, and teasingly bite them. I suck her clit between my lips and flick it with my tongue. I suck it harder, then release it and swirl my tongue around her clit. As I am doing this, my fingers find her wet vagina. I slowly penetrate her and pump her softly as I lick faster and faster with my tongue. She is usually arching her back by this point, panting, and moaning uncontrollably, then she shudders and climaxes. And of course then I make love to her, and she wants it harder and harder, as I have already brought her to an incredible level of desire and arousal. She gets the deepest and most intense orgasms when I start with good oral sex. THIS IS WHAT I MEAN. I obviously love giving oral, because I love doing it. It turns me on. I crave it. Do you women actually like to give oral for yourselves? Do you see an erection and get excited about sucking on it? Do you crave it? Or is it something you would be fine without doing? My girlfriend doesn't really understand why I love to give her oral. She likes it, but doesn't understand it, and giving oral to me is disgusting to her. On the other hand, the other serious long term relationship of my life was with a girl that loved all kinds of sex. She love giving and getting oral. Honestly, she was not good at oral at all, but she liked doing it, and that made all the difference. I didn't care whether she was good at it, I just liked that she was excited to do it. We were each others early sexual experiences (college romance), so we learned from each and made up in eagerness what we lacked in experience. She liked to swallow too, she thought it was exciting, the idea of swallowing my ***. She thought it was personal and intimate too. I agreed. Watching her as she looked me in the eyes and swallowed was deeply personal, I loved it. So, what say you ladies?
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  • well, unlike the other I actually LOVE to do it too. there is nothing like having a guy quiver and breathe heavily while I'm sucking it. I love to do it to get better and better at it. I once did it for 50 minutes as every time he said he was about to finish.. id stop for a little bit... I just wanted to keep sucking and sucking. the next time I sucked him he never said anything and lasted a minute and a half lol! he said it was incredible when I would literally suck the come out of him I didn't just stop.

    theres just something about me being able to do wonders with my mouth.. I wouldn't say I'm the best at it, but I've been told I'm pretty good. I could probably do it everynight if my mouth didn't get sore. its odd I know, but I like it... I like gagging when he pushes my head down and I can feel it halfway down my throat... my ex used to go crazy over that id do it wfor a while and he'd arch his back and gasp 'omg!'. made me smile :P

    and I actually like the taste of cum. not all girls are the same.. some like it and some dont.

    • Wow! Will you marry me!

    • haha! sure :)

    • Hey, since you said you like gagging on it a little, maybe you can answer my other question about dominance during sex?

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  • Do you actually like it? And if so, why?

    Yes because it turns me on too!

    >I love everything about a woman's labia and vagina.

    I feel the same way about the penis.

    Do you women actually like to give oral for yourselves?

    Yes.

    Do you see an erection and get excited about sucking on it?

    I think this is exactly why I love giving. I see an erection and it's exciting.

    Do you crave it?

    Yes

    Or is it something you would be fine without doing?

    I would feel curious why he wouldn't want me to do it.

    I love oral. I think a hard penis is sexy. At the same time, I can only do it to someone I have some emotional connection with.

    • Thank you for the detail and honest answer. Exactly what I was hoping to learn.

  • how could she possibly be bad at it? lol

    ANYWAYS lol It's something I do enjoy and it's a must. lol. I like his reaction and the way he feels and the way it makes mi feel. so it's enjoyed by all. hahah.

    Johnny boy knows he's evil because he doesn't want any women to do it because he doesn't care for them to. hahha.

    • PMSL! So..Johnny Boy is Evil? Well..I would let you try...however..I would succeed on you!..<3<3<3=D

    • PSH. DOUBT THAT =P

    • She was "bad" in the sense that she didn't really know how to do it. She would just suck, but not move her mouth much, or use her hands. We had no idea what we were doing, and it was fun and intimate to learn together. She usually just stroked me until I got close, then went back to sucking until I came. Like I said, I didn't care. I loved her and it was fun. Her excitement to do it and swallow it was much more important than any technique. It was a coming of age thing.

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  • In my experience, some women love it and others simply hate it. It's all in their mind!

    As for me, I partly agree with you about giving oral.

    The vagi*a (or the pen*s, for that matter) is about the most ugliest part of a human being. Crinkled and wrinkled, and a mess of hair and flesh... some of it loosely hanging.

    Yet, I'd give oral willingly to my partner because I know it pleases women enormously, and that is a turn-on in itself. On the other hand, I also like receiving oral, and some women simply won't give it, as they see it as something too "dirty".

  • My Ex wife was a little like that. She really enjoyed me giving her oral. but would only at best ever give three seconds or oral back. But I think her mother had a BIG part in her being a prude post marriage. as she enjoyed most things other than oral pre the day then only on sundays I kid you not.

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  • I am a big fan, though I understand the difference you make between his pleasure and my own. I think that a lot of women don't feel that they have control when performing oral, so they can't get off on it. I read Jack's Blowjob Lessons for technique and it completely changed the way I felt about giving BJs - now it's one of THE BIGGEST turn ons in the world.

  • Sorry I don't like it and I don't want to do it.

    First, it's hard. you can try to suck a big banana in your mouth deep to your throat. Do you feel comfortable? Not at all!

    Second, it's rather boring when you suck it during the time...

    So, My answer is NO, I don't like it and I don't enjoy it.

    But I am selfish, I like my man give me oral sex.

    • PMSL ! You and I would get along...on that...anyway...<3<3<3=D btw...would you mind if your man wanted your pee?

    • huh? wired

    • why is wired? just as I told you, you can try by yourself noting a banana, but just try hard to fit in your mouth to the throat, you will gag

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  • I like it sometimes, for all those reasons. just not every time!

    • I enjoy doing it with the guy I am with.

  • i love to give oral sex and for some similar reasons it gives me intimacy and makes me feel aroused to give... cum is more about doing something intimate rather than swallowing cum for the sake of swallowing... everyman love it that's for sure when you do that for him... if i;m in my micro mini skirt and i'm asked to do that i'd definitely be into it because i know he's aroused by me and there's not much wrong with that.

    • Hi, are u legitimately a woman or are u a man on a sock account? Just wondering

    • @ThickGooeyCum because i like to give oral... no sock account

    • Yes but were u born a woman? Not trying to be pushy I’m trying to learn more about women who enjoy performing oral sex

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  • I love knowing that I'm sexually pleasing my man. I love hearing him moan and tell me how much he enjoys it. However, do I love doing it in and of itself? No. I don't hate it, but doing it isn't a huge turn on sexually for me.
    What I love is when he goes down on me. Freak, a big reason why I give them in the first place is so he's obligated to return the favor. haha

    • I'd never feel obliged. I absolutely love the reaction I get back from going down on a woman. I'd not expect head because I gave. I don't expect a leg over either just because I'm playing around. At times I stop my partner playing and happily just play with her body before going down. I do agree the reaction makes up for doing it though. When she pushes on my head while I'm down is great. Only concentrate on pleasing these days rather than empty my sack so to speak.

  • I for one am not a big fan of giving my husband oral. I've done it, but I hate the end result of having his finish ending up in my mouth or throat! Now on the other hand, I LOVE receiving oral. I got a little wet reading your description of how you give it. My husband is also a lover of giving oral. It's easy for him to forgo receiving it knowing that he will get to enjoy giving it to me. Sometimes we throw in a little denial to extend his heightened sense of arousal.

  • I feel like my experiences are similar to lolthatsawkward in her answer. These days, I get really turned on when I give my man a blow job... it's just so not seeing lose himself to me and be under my spell.

    To be honest, I actually haven't always felt like this though. When I was new to the BJ game (lol!) in my teens I certainly wasn't turned on and was nervous the whole time. From a combination of talking to a very experienced girlfriend, the tips I got here http://badgirlsbible.com/how-to-give-a-blowjob and finally meeting a guy who made me feel comfortable everything slowly got easier.

    Now I look forward to teasing my man of what he's about to experience later and of course the act itself. I'm naturally submissive, but nothing feels more powerful giving him great oral sex :)

  • I like oral but only if he like doesn't have a jungle..

  • Only if the guy is black :)

    • 😂😂😂😂

  • I can't believe u actually censored cum after describing giving head :)

  • I hate it. I have jaw issues. I also have a tilted uterus, so if it is big, my jaw will do the work. Although, it's the easiest and cleanest sex.

  • Nope

  • I do.

  • I dont crave it

    But i do like it

    I like how my boyfriend's cock looks

    I like playing with it, i like feeling how it gets hard

    For me its a control turn on thing too a bit

    Love to make him cum

  • i honestly love giving head

    • @sav2001 why you love it? You only suck bfs?

  • First thing, your description on giving head to your girlfriend ----- OMG! That's one lucky girl.
    Second thing, hypothetically speaking, if you found a girl who gave tribute to a cock like you do a vagina... a couple weekends of that treatment and you could die a happy man with no regrets.

    I also thought I'd throw in another pearl (at least it is to me). Sometimes oral sex, even the ecstatic way administered by you, is sometimes a little too intense for a girl when she may like a little more 'warm up' like gentle fondling through her panties while making out or even cuddling. Sometimes orgasms, while terrific, are no substitute for affection and intimacy.

    • You got that right, Kathy! The guy might be a maestro at giving a girl head but for me, and a lot of girls I know, giving a girl pleasure is just part of the game. You have to give him kudos though for being so enthusiastic and sincere on his oral skills. If there was a Hall of Fame for the skill I'm sure his girlfriend or GF's will be the first to nominate him.

  • I love it

  • Oh yes

  • Some do others don't.

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