Holding penis or balls before sleeping?

Question

guys would you find it weird if your girlfriend wanted to just hold your penis or balls in her hand while you were cuddled up ready to fall asleep.  Nothing really sexual. I just always want to. I like the feel of my boyfriend penis and balls. some light stroking and cupping. I don't want to "turn him on" or anything. I still want to just go to sleep. Is it weird or considered a "tease" or as if I'm trying to be dominant or controlling? Because that's not at all what I'm intending. How would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to do this?

prince181 · Accepted Answer

I think that would be a lovely way to fall asleep together.

As a guy, I think in the early stages I would find it difficult not to be turned on by it and be hoping for sex, but as the two people grow in their relationship and become more understanding of each other, I think it would be a very special time of bonding. A way to fall asleep in the right frame of mind.

When I go to bed with my wife every night I cannot help but get an erection. Every night we spoon together, with my stiff penis pushed up against her ass. That action in itself rarely leads to sex, but we both feel happy in that position without it having to go further. I've asked her if she finds the stiffness annoying or distracting and she said no, in fact she found it comforting in a way.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I just want to say you are AWESOME! I wish I could find a girl as comfortable and attracted to my penis as you. It would do wonders for my self esteem as a guy if a girl just wanted to hold me lol. Really it's because I think all vagina are beautiful in their own way and like a work of art almost but most girls do not feel that way about a guy's penis and just act like it's a thing they deal with because it feels good but they aren't really attracted to it.

I would love if a girl wanted to hold me at night lol. Sometimes it would turn me on and I might have to try for sex or excuse myself to masturbate really fast but overall it would be nice to just be held at night lol. If you want to do this to a guy I strongly encourage you to do it.

Katie1964 · Accepted Answer

My husband loves for me to do this. I started doing it at his request, but really liked it so I do it all the time.

He rarely wears clothes when we are at home so I get to do it while we watch TV in the evenings and when we are going to bed. We both find it very comforting and intimate, not sexual, dominant or controlling. Most nights I will fall asleep with his package in my hand.

If he does "rise to the occasion" I will always finish what I started. I imagine that if you do it, he will see how pleasurable it is and happily go along.

EquineJewel · Accepted Answer

I do this and he looooves it. If he is very awake though he will expect a little something on the side ;)

TurbulentDan12 · Answer

It's really hard not to consider that a sexual thing...no pun intended

sa230e · Answer

For some reason, I quite like this idea.

Lakeburn · Answer

If we were in a sexual relationship, it would be awesome.  If we weren't having sex, it would piss me off to no end.

BeerME · Answer

I'd be fine with it if we could have sex first. Otherwise I'm not sure I'd be able to get any sleep.

kheserthorpe · Answer

I'd looove it

slugger · Answer

marry me

beinghelpful · Answer

not strange at all.  Kind of nice, actually.  I usually like to fall asleep holding one of my wife's t*ts, so I guess I understand.

thatkidfromcanadia · Answer

My girlfriend plays with my penis before bed and once fell asleep holding it, it was amazing.

jojobrooks · Answer

I feel like this is the best way ever to fall asleep! You Rock!

tzdc21 · Answer

If you're wanting not to turn him on, then don't do it. He's more than likely gonna get hard. At the very least, if you're gonna do it, understand he's gonna get turned on, and then give him a HJ or a BJ to quickly save him from getting blue balled.

NonchalantBro · Answer

That would be swell.

G_GTom · Answer

As long as she didn't have a knife in the other hand, I'm fine with it.

Angelo75 · Answer

Just explain it to him and do whatever lets u feel more comforting. He'll probably let u. Just be gentle to the balls.

todtoy · Answer

I would enjoy it. I think it would be better after sex that way I'd be more relaxed & ready for sleep anyway. Never had that done but I do like the Idea. I don't think your being a tease it sounds like you enjoy it & you want to do it so if he likes it what's weird about that.

unsungzero · Answer

I wouldn't interpret that as cuddling rather more a sexual thing. So I would think you're trying to get me hard or something, not cuddle.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Id be fine with it if my fiance did that to me before she went to bed. I like to cup one her cheeks when we sleep.There's nothing wrong with being intimate and cuddling with your lover.