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Why does my dildo feel better than my boyfriend

sex with my boyfriend feels great but with the dildo I felt a different sensation that I can't exactly pinpoint. He used a dildo on me for the first time and I got a sensation that I've never felt with a man. My boyfriend is bigger than the dildo so its not about size. And it vibrates but that wasn't even what felt so good it was something about how the trusting felt. The dildo curves upward and my boyfriend is kind of straight. He was trusting it in me very fast and I've never had a vaginal orgasm but I felt like I might be able to with that. During sex my boyfriend is able to trust fast too and it feels awesome but like I said the feeling is just different. I never used the dildo again; and while I love clitoral orgasms I want to have new experiences with my boyfriend. Can anyone help me understand this better and give me advice on how to have this with my boyfriend because id like to have vaginal orgasms with him.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe because you control the speed and direction of motion and can adjust in real time for what you want and your boyfriend can't read your mind. Try communicating more with your boyfriend, if you want faster or slower tell him, even if it changes every minute lol. Also don't be afraid to grab his penis and put it in at a certain angle and then tell him you like it that way. Also realize pleasing yourself and sex are two different things. I can give myself amazing orgasms better than any girl can if I want because only I know what I need but it's still great in a different way having a girl give me an orgasm and watching her reaction. Appreciate sex as a separate activity from masturbating. Sex is when you want to make the other person happy and you enjoy both of you having orgasms. Masturbating is your own personal alone time where you focus just on you alone and do whatever feels best for you alone. Don't feel guilty about how your alone time feels compared to time with your sex partner, just enjoy both for what they are in the moment.

    • thank you

    • No problem ; ) If anything else to do with your question and my answer comes up don't be embarrassed to ask. I like answering for some reason lol.

  • Toys are researched and developed to give better and better pleasure, the male penis hasn't had the RnD for a long time. You can control the toy a lot more, angle speed depth and then add different sensations such as vibration or texture so you soon have the perfect feel.

    You may never fully create the feeling but like others have said, try experimenting with position and angle during sex. The curve makes a big difference so maybe in missionary have a pillow under your bum.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You said the dildo curves upward. It is making better contact and putting more pressure on your G spot and that is the difference you are feeling. If your boyfriend doesn't mind, add it in to your lovemaking and let him use it on you first and then finish you off with his d***.

    • thanks, ill try that

  • May be your boyfriend need a tuition on it. Or tell him for making a practice with cocking that are available in stores like colorsandtoys

  • Obviously you're in control of your dildo and you're doing it the way you like. Maybe you're hitting a certain spot your boyfiend isn't.

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  • Try a **** ring. It vibrates his d*** and if your riding you can almost position yourself for it to stimulate your clit.

    • tried it, he didn't really like the vibrating on his shaft and I couldn't really feel the effects of it, couldn't get it to stay on my clit

  • cause you put it wher you like it Teach him :)

  • Your dildo must be hitting your G spot. You said your dikdo curved up and your boyfriend is straight. Your G-spot, or the part of the vagina that is the most sensitive. It's on the front wall, and your dildo's curve is most likely able to reach it where as your boyfriend can't

  • Try a lot of positions until he hits the spot the dildo was hitting.

  • lol because size does not matter, its what you do with it!

  • Maybe because it's easier to orgasm through masturbation? I orgasm muchhhh faster with my vibrator too.

  • Bit of a crazy idea, but why don't you try using a penis sheath on your guy? There are loads of different types and perhaps one will give you that extra feeling you are looking for?
    Alternatively, you could us a small dildo and try inserting it at the same time as his cock?

  • Probablly doing a better job of hitting your g-spot

  • Dildo reach those spots where you get high sensation. As you describe I think you gspot is too sensitive so tell you boyfriend to use those positions where he can penetrate gspot well also tell him finger you special concentrate on gspot.

  • A good dildo stays firm for hours giving constant relief in like a guy's penis. I've had 25 rings on my balls and had them ridden before, that's an intense feeling

  • it is faster than your bf

  • Because dildo is always standby, large, hard and strong. LOL

    Have you ever tried this kind of thrusting dildo?

  • Cuz your dildo cares for making you cum

  • Try with your BF in your ass with your dildo in you. That feels great and he won't get jealous. Trust me ;)

    • You might want to try different positions too so that he can hit your G spot better

    • Hey message me babe

  • If you had better communication with your bf in the bedroom and learnt how to stimulate your clit properly at the same time, there wouldn't be a problem.

  • If its curved, it might be hitting your gspot better

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