Sexual Health
+1 y

My boyfriend won't stop finishing in my mouth, what should I tell him?

I enjoy giving my boyfriend head and the first time I did I let him finish in my mouth. I did not like it when he did so I told him no more. Now when I give him head he still does it with out telling me he is about to. He always uses excuses like, I had no way to pull out cause I was sitting down or I did not realize I was that close, one time he told me I should know he was about to cum. I want to keep giving him head cause it makes me feel sexy to him and it turns me on watching him in pleasure. I have tried letting him finish a little in my mouth and then the rest on my boobs or somewhere but I just can't bring myself to let him finish all they way. How do I get him to stop?
0 0

Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell him he either pulls out or you never go back down.

    That said, speaking from my own experiences on the receiving end, it is by FAR the best way to come. I don't know if its the added pressure of the girl sucking, or the tongue, or what but for me its like two or three times better than ANY other way to go. So every now and then see if you can see your way clear to do it, so you're not condemning him

    I'm told you eventually develop a taste for it, and apparently it's much easier if you just swallow it as it comes rather than holding it in your mouth.

    • thanks Ill keep that in mind and maybe give it another try. I want him to feel the best

    • Yeah, I'm not saying you should force yourself to do it or anything, but if I had to give up that way of coming entirely, that would be REALLY disappointing, and would probably eventually cause some resentment sooner or later.

  • If this person that you're talking about is a mature adult then he should respect your wishes. Also, a guy should always know when he's about to ejaculate. Really though, you shouldn't need to ask such a silly question on here when the answer is obvious. There is no secret to convincing a guy to stop cumming in your mouth. All you should have to do is ask unless this guy has no respect for you which would mean that you have an entirely different problem.

Most Helpful Girl

  • stop giving head. OBVIOUSLY. If he's not going to be rational,& respectful. as befits a human being. teach him behavior modification, like Pavlovs Dog. He should associate disrespecting your agreement, with NOT getting the Bone, & nothing else. Direct association.

    • If you need to resort to something as belittling as this then this "man" likely isn't worth being with in the first place. Treat your boyfriend like an adult, If he isn't one then find someone who is. No need to take an immature and disrespectful ingrate and "behavior modify" him into something you can tolerate.

    • maybe she likes the sex. lol you're concerned about her belittling him, he's repeatedly not listened. yes, she can dump him, but as I said maybe she likes the sex. its not for us to decide. if someone won't act like an adult, its technically impossible to treat them like one. anyways if he's not listening why would she want sex. its not a game, its just unappealing. its reasonable to stop, until they resume reasonable behavior. tho, me, yeah, id be out of there the first time he dismissed it.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Girls, do you have sex drive?
I just want to get fucked! How to get a guy to approach you/notice you at a party?
Are you mentally ill or mentally healthy, and is it difficult or easy for you to orgasm during masturbation?
If a guy told you he could cum farther than he can pee, what would be your reaction?

What Girls & Guys Said

0 4

  • umm simple...warn him not to do it and if he does, don't give him head for a while...that'll teach him

  • you just need to be upfront with him. If he does not respect your wishes than he needs to realize that you could always leave him. I accidently came in a girl mouth when she was giving me head. I appolgized for to her for hours.

  • I learned the hard way top means stop! I was doing the same thing until one day I came and I thought she swallowed it until she gave me a big open mouth kiss.

  • Just pull your mouth off when he starts to shoot. You should also be able to tell when he's about to blow because his d!ck will get really hard. Mine gets super rigid just as I'm about to blow and the head expands. So that should be an indicator.

    • Oh, also monitor his balls. Mine pull up a fair bit and the scrotal sac tightens as I'm getting ready to cum.

    • If you're up for figuring out a way to pleasure him while avoiding the unpleasantness of having come in your mouth, you could see if you can learn to deep throat. If his d!ck is in your throat when he cums, it'll all go past your tongue so you won't taste it or really have any in your mouth.

Latest Questions

New positions in bed?
Can a man have sexual intercourse with a woman he doesn't like?
Ever fantasized about a teacher?
What do you think of the eternal celibate chastity and the eternal singlehood of nuns?
Home >  Sexual Health  > My boyfriend won't stop finishing in my mouth, what should I tell him?