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When guys get off quick what does that mean.....there are many "suspicions"?

Guys...the boyfriend and I have had sex cut wayyy down. He is a very sexual man or at least was in the beginning and now we are lucky it is once every two weeks. He has excuses such as "too tired, getting old, just doesn't want to, wants me to come on to him"...Granted we will be having child, but come on...this is insane. To be honest, I don't feel like even getting undressed for bed. When we do have sex, it is quick. He comes in less than a minute, sometimes such a small amount it is unnoticeable. When a guy gets off quick what does it mean?
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  • Please, stop...my one and only wife left me for some of the same crazy 'suspicions" ...you are digging a grave for your marriage by all of this second guessing...See a counselor...you are 36-45 This "Ain't" the place to ask that kind of advice...

    The people here want to know about penis size and labia size...not life questions

    • Stop what? Asking guys what it means when they do something that us girls don't know? GAG is the place that this question is to be asked. I don't need to explain myself. Sorry your wife left you but if guys didn't give girls a reason to question and were upfront and honest about stuff then we wouldn't have to guess.

  • It's inconclusive. The small amount of come might imply that he'd come recently. And yet, if that were the case, he definitely wouldn't come within 60 seconds.

    Talk to him.

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  • Cumming fast is often associated with not much semen. Longer build = more volume.

    infrequent sex can lead to worse performance.

    Bad performance can lead to avoiding sex.

    But there may be other factors.

    Time to talk.

  • It means he is jerkin it v having sex with you. If you are prego, some guys get weird about having sex. I know your hormones are bouncing off the wall, as well as your insecurities. He may view you as the sacred vessel, may not want to obligate you, etc. He's finishing quickly because you haven't been having sex a lot and he's no longer used to you. If anything, at least him finishing quickly should show he's not cheating on you! Hang in there, the baby thing is a long process. Good luck

    • He almost always hard before he can get his pants off. Passed couple times I really have to work to get him going. Its weird like neither of us are interestrf.

    • Honestly, he may not. I wasn't once my ex was prego. Had nothing to do with her and everything with the situation. Be open and talk about it. Resentment escalates quickly in these types of situations

    • Theres just no interest. Last time it just felt like we both just did it to just shut the other one up or to please them. He didn't last but 30 seconds and I was disappointed. He says ...oops I wanted it tolast longer and that was it...nofun. To be honest, we normally sleep naked...ifeel no desire.

  • Maybe hee has lost interest in you in a physical way

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