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This guy keeps asking me to have sex with him, what to do?

So, this was my previous question about the same thing link

first he was just trying to convince me to do that with a relatively high money offer and I said no. But even that way he keeps coming after me and flirting with me.

He got my number (because he was my friend's friend, and my friend gave it to him)

And now I don't know what to do about it because he's really cute and funny when not trying to get on my pants but I don't want to do anything with him, neither being rude.



If looks matter for anything link link so... he's not even bad looking or anything but I'm not a piece of meat!

So, how can I make him forget about it or leave it without being rude?
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  • I will play both sides of the court maybe it will help you decide.

    Reflecting on why you should:

    - Money is useful

    - He is good looking

    - Might help you get over your ex (not guranteed)

    Reflecting on why you shoudn't:

    - He is giving you his word, there is no gurante he will pay

    - He might be abusive and possessive durring the sex and afterward (he is already treating you like property by "buying" you).

    - He seems to have a rubbish personality, just the fact he think money can buy people.

    - He overall seems dodgy (where is his money coming from)

    - You will likely regret it and remeber it for the rest of your life. Not today, but several years down the line you will view the sum of money as insignificant and you will never be able to erase the fact you slept with a dude for money.

    - He wears a pink tank top and a fendora... what a douche bag

    • guess the *why I shouldn't* wins :|

    • LOL just look at it as a good story to tell your grand children :P

      I had a similar one link

      anyway about getting rid of the guy, just make sure you tell other people about him. Most people don't like these kind of people, and he will get exiled from your group.

    • Lmfao at the pink tank top remark! I'm sorry but dude looks hella retarded in that pic. If I saw a guy wearing that I would just bust up laughing and not even think twice about sleeping with him.

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  • It's kind of sad that he's offering you money...

    The reason he keeps perusing you is because you're giving him signals that perhaps not all hope is lost. With a guy that would be willing to PAY YOU.. you'll really have to send STRONG signals that you are not interested. Don't even smile at him. The smallest things will give him hope.

    Or you could find a boyfriend or say you're interested in someone else and just tell him you're taken... But really you should almost always just be straight up honest with guys like this.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's up to you.. just know that if you accept money for sex it IS prostitution by definition. Kindof sad that he has so little game that he has to attempt to pay women to sleep with him... you'd think someone who was good looking wouldn't have a problem. He probably has an STD, a micropenis, or just wants to get you into a compromising position so he can use you as he wishes (aka freaky f***ery and butt sex..). He doesn't sound like a very nice or trustworthy guy to be proposing prostitution to you instead of courting you and showing you respect like a regular person. It will probably get around what you've done if you consent. How I judge situations - if you meet the love of your life, and you can't tell them about what youve done in the past, it's probably not worth it. Could you tell your future husband that you prostituted yourself? If so then go for it.

  • Wow what a doucher. Who cares if he looks okay, you don't offer a girl money to sleep with you like some common whore. I'd tell him to get bent, he completely disrespected you and it seems you don't even realize it. So why even care about being rude to him? Tell him there are plenty of prostitutes and escort services out there if he's that desperate. It'll make him feel like an ass for treating you like a prostitute.

    • Agreed^

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  • If you have decided that you do not want his sexual attention on you, have a serious talk with him.

    Explain to him that you have no sexual intentions regarding him, and you never will have. (Even though this may not be true, the certainty of "never" can help him understand you better.) Tell him that his advances are annoying you, and you would like him to not mention anything that hints a sexual desire, ever again.

    Be firm about it. Don't talk to him until he starts behaving.

  • just tell him to leave you alone period

  • I'm pretty sure I can get him laid for 500 euro.

    • ...but is the girl you will get him, as super-cute as the QA?

    • For 500 euro? That's like 700 bucks ...

  • if you have friends in common, absolutely do not do it.

    you're just going to have to be rude. He's mistaking your politeness for interest.

    • Hmm.for ONCE I agree with you...and as a fellow Iowegian..o.O

  • Ya know...only you can decide how much patience you have..I am a very impatient man...yet I can show that other side...there comes a time...and I think this description is way past that where & when it is entirely acceptable to whisper "get bent"...or more likely you should scream "F*** Off & Die A$$hole Son Of A B*tch...I hope I have helped you...(:(:(:

  • I understand that you don't want to sleep with him because the way he was throwing money at you as a proposition.

    Im curious... before he propositioned money, why is it that you don't want to actually date him?

    • I don't think he's interested in *dating*, that's why.

    • Well, then sadly he's just another "cute and funny"...douchebag. Leave him be, don't answer his calls. Go find a "cute and funny" guy that isn't a douche! :)

  • Do not do it. Tell him to leave you alone, he sounds like a douche.

  • Well... Its a lot of money. And are you sure that he have that kind of money? It sounds weird. But if you don't like the guy at all. Stay way from him.

    • Don't know if he does, but I know he has a nice job.

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