Can a girl LEARN how to squirt, or does she have to be born with the ability?

I really wish I could squirt, but I've had no luck. I was wondering if anyone had any tricks for me to learn? Whether it's by myself or with my boyfriend's help. And if any girls on this site do squirt, what does it feel like?
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  • Every girl can squirt whoever says other wise are amautures. Its mostly mental because your pc muscles clamp up when you get that peeing sensation. You have to relax your mind and body. Lubrication also helps you don't need to buy anything crazy a simple water based lubricate will do. Then the trick is while first slowly rubbing your clit to where you feel stimulation start penetrating if you're doing it yourself use your middle finger and thumb to to rub your clit a small toy works better. I preffer a glass dong in a j shaped to hit your G-spot. When with your boyfriend lay flat, have him use either just his middle finger or pointer and middle making the "come here" motion while the other hand is on your abdomen to help relax your muscles. When all else fails a small vibrator on the clitorios almost forces you to feel that sensation.

    • Thank you! :-)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Usually women squirt from being fisted and clitoral stimulation. Your upper vaginal wall will become swollen with fluid and it takes pressure and stimulation to achieve squirting. Once you have squirted for a while it becomes easier and controllable. You will know the sensation and when it is going to happen. If you are tight and can't take a fist try a fat dildo. Use it for 20-30 minutes rubbing it against your upper wall where your G spot is ( If you don't know where that is I will be happy to help you find it) You don't have to jack hammer it just nice firm pressure to stimulate the area. After 20-30 minutes rub your clit to orgasm while popping the dildo in and out of you in an upward prying motion and see if you are able to squirt. I have learned how to do this to a woman using my hand. It is hot.

    • Goodness. You're like the squirting doctor lol thanks for the tips

  • every girl has the ability unless there is something specific going on like a disease or mutation. generally speaking, not squirting is down to psychology not physiology. pee before hand and as you're about to cum, don't contract anything. apparently, when girls come and they hold it in, the squirt happens but it diverts back up another path

    • Alright thanks, good to know. I usually tense up when I come but I'll try to relax and let it go.

    • perfect. let everything flow and don't be afraid if you think you might pee...it's not pee

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  • Have you tried sticking one of two fingers inside and curling them up towards your belly button doing a stroking "come here" motion... there should be a slightly rougher area

    • Yes I have, that's the G spot :-)

    • haha OK, you should be aiming to try to rub against your g spot till you feel a "build up" it'd be likely to feel like you need to pee but try to relax and let go. it should happen from there :)

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  • every girl can do it.