Why do black men like anal sex so much?

My boyfriend who I just moved together with is black and way older than me, and he loves it. I don't know if this an age thing or a black thing, but he just likes to do it. I let him do it to me quite often because I like to make him happy, but his penis is so big that sometimes is very uncomfortable when he goes really hard. Most of the time I enjoy it tho, but I'm curious why black men like it so much.
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  • For better than the last 15 years I have exclusivelly only dated and f*cked black men and I don't recall any of them being all that interested in giving the anal thing a try. I am totally against it and wouldn't try if they asked, but can only remember once or twice ever having a guy mention it.

    I also don't think it is a race generated thing to want to do. It is a preference that a guy or girl of about any race could desire.

  • I'm pretty sure its not an age thing or a "black thing" as you so inappropriately put it, I'm pretty sure its something your boyfriends likes. endo story. Why does it have to be a black thing or an age thing, its something he likes. I mean how many black men have you been with intimately that qualifies you to make this statement? hahahah it only sounds like you've been with one soo...this question is a tad silly

  • Everyone has preferences, fetishes, and dislikes/likes and I don't think you can generalize so many people. He probably just happens to be one of those guys who are into it.

    • I have to disagree with you on this and side with the person presenting the question... Perhaps it's because I utilized a skill taught in elementary school often referred to as, reading comprehension skills. It was obvious, at least for me, that the poster didn't literally mean ALL black people. How I interpreted the question was that comparatively speaking, black men (more so than men of other ethnicities), generally like or even prefer anal sex in larger numbers than men of other races... and I'd have to agree with this. Sure, its absurd and uneducated to suggest that all black men like anal sex, but I do not believe that was the implication being made. However, if a picture speaks a thousand words, then video must speak a million. In all porn, there is a vastly larger percentage of black men performing anal sex than other races. You can't claim that "porn doesn't count because they're being paid", because of they don't like it, they won't do it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • A lot of black guys are on the "down low", which is part of the reason why black men are far more likely to have HIV/AIDS. Google "down low black men" for more details. A fair number of men like anal sex period, but part of being black means there's a higher chance culturally that your guy is actually bi.

    • My guy is very straight, it can't get straighter than that.

    • That may be the case in your instance, but not others.

  • Lol your so sure your man is strait, You haven't got a clue.
    Most men are bisexual any race or gender. I wouldn't be supprised if he was on the downlow. I bet you 80% chance he has done somthing with a man somtime in his life.

    Its always the straitest men who are the dl

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  • I knew I was really black.

  • I'm black and I wouldn't say that I love it. It has nothing to do with race. However, like most guys I will do it if it's requested.

    • I don't request it.

  • Pretty certain that it's not exclusive to black men.

    • Black men like anal sex the same as other man do. Many people ask this question but is a false myth all men may like anal doesn't matter te race

  • Maybe because black guys seem to prefer 'ass' a lot more than white guys

    so I guess anal is just an extension of that

    • My butt is quite small because I'm slim, but he says he likes it that way.

  • I've never done anal with anyone before, what does it feel like?

    • It hurts at first, then it can be uncomfortable, but I enjoy the being overpowered side of it, I just love to be submissive, it's a girl thing.

  • How big are we talking here? Be careful with your butt hole.

  • I wouldn't say it's just black men... but don't know, maybe it's just his thing.

  • I don't think this is a "black thing". I just think this is something he enjoys. I'm black & I know plenty of black guys & majority of them don't like anal sex & won't even try it because they consider it "gay". So as this being a "black thing" I don't believe it is. This is just your partners preference because I've been with a white guys some of them enjoy anal over vaginal.