Girls have you ever been boob bandit done to you?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and his friends are always commenting on my boobs about how big they are and perky. We are all close friends so it does not bother me when they talk about it because I think of it as just a joke. Sometimes his friends puts their hands up to my boobs and pretends like they're going to grab them but they never do cause they are just playing and I know they are. Well last night my boyfriend had some friends over for his birthday for poker night and I was wearing a cute little tube top for him because he likes when I dress sexy and so I thought I would for his birthday, my boyfriend came up behind me and pulled my top and strapless bra down to my waist when I had my hands full of Glass drinks. All the guys yelled-boob bandit and cheered their beer bottles. It was quite embarrassing, I know the guys look at my boobs all the time but they had never seen them bare before. I tried to cover them up the best I could until I could put the drinks down and pull my top back up. We all kind of laughed and carried on with the night. My boyfriend continued to boob bandit me in front of his friends about four or five more times and finally I just had to go put a T-shirt on. I did not really get mad at my boyfriend because it was his birthday and I let him have his fun but I don't want him to do it anymore. Girls have you ever had your boyfriend or a friend try to pull your top down in front of other guys or in a public place? I didn't really know what boob bandit was until I googled it.

[UncertainSteps]

Uh no, absolutely not. I have had close male friends be verbally flirty with me, but none of them have ever crossed the boundaries and tried to touch me...real or fake. I also have never had a boyfriend humiliate me in public in such a degrading manner. I can take a joke and love to make jokes, but they've always been respectful of my body. I think it's great that you like to dress sexy for your guy (because every girl wants to be wanted by her guy), but he never should have ripped down your top and fondled you in front of friends. It's completely disrespectful and you have every right to tell him to not do it again. I doubt you would think very highly of a stranger doing this to you, so why would it be okay for someone who is supposed to love, respect and cherish you? I think it shows all of the opposite.

[Shameneyes]

My mother always taught me if any guy friend plays around and puts their hands on my chest like that to knock them out (>.>) That is not okay even if you are all friends. Your body is "your temple", so they need to respect it and I am not saying that in a religious. It is the only body you have so don't let it be on stage for a bunch of horny guys like that :L Just because it is his birthday doesn't give him the excuse to be an ass to you. If I were you I would find someone that respects even when they are drunk. Not a cool situation at all.

[cazza3]

Extremely disrespectful. What kind of guy likes his friends commenting on his girlfriends breasts, pretending to grab them and then pulls down her top for them all to have a look, several times? An a**hole. To answer if any guy has ever done this to me-no. My s.o wouldn't even dream of it and wouldn't like it if one of his friends did it to their girlfriend either.

[Pelios]

Never I don't think guys like it when other guys looks at their girlfriends' private parts at least that's what my boyfriend told me. I would of left when he first did it I wouldn't care if it's his birthday it's called self respect.

[arashmenalagha]

People here have a problem with this sort of thing, because they think it's demeaning or disrespectful. They'll tell you they wouldn't like it. Because that's just how they are.

They're ready to break up because of this sort of thing. Kinda sad that they would just wait for "something" to happen. lol

[Wesdaman21]

Don't think it was cool of him to do that, what guy wants his boys to see his girls titts?!?! That's weird. I would never I don't want my homeys lusting over my chick talk to him about it and tell him you didn't like it

[Spirit156]

I don't know but things sure starting to get nice out there

Boob bandit was it? Out here we are still stuck with the nipple twister but this sounds more intresting

[KrisPW]

I've had it done in various ways, and I'll admit that its fun for me, but once you told him to stop it should stop, no ifs and or buts.

[bDizzie]

you should have thrown the drinks you were carrying in his face

[rakayln]

Never had it done and would kill if someone did it to me. That is very disrespectful and degrading and I certainly wouldn't put up with it

[arashmenalagha]

that's very masculine of you.

[rakayln]

Uuum OK lol

[Grond21]

No, it's just that she respects herself. Stop trying to shame her.

[jennhottie17]

never had a guy do it, but me and my gfs do it to each other all the time in front of guys. its funny to see the guys reactions.

[simpleguy2010]

You should break-up with him, he has no respect for you, in future he can ask you to have sex with his friends, please kick him.

[zachg]

Why are you still with him? He seems like a massive dbag. That's a d*** move whether its his birthday or not, you should kicked him in the balls

[TheBattMan]

Yeah, punch him in the face next time he does it.

[Anonymous]

What kind of boyfriend does this? It's completely stupid and I'm surprised you didn't slap him til his face was red.

[Anonymous]

That's f***ed up... If my boyfriend did that I would break up with him without hesitation.

[arashmenalagha]

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