Oral Sex Issue: How not to throw up while giving oral sex?

Question

Its been more than a month we are together and we just love spending time together except for the fact that we fight and we mostly fight over sex. Yes, I have -mutual I hope- feelings to a man that I share a ridiculous sex life with. And though I didn't have any trouble in many of my relationships, with this guy I can't do oral sex. Neither he gives me enough pleasure nor I can give him good oral sex, and I am up for any advices to make things better,

krazzyfour36 · Accepted Answer

Try taking bath together before sex.. this helps psychologically that our partner is neat and clean.. try adding chocolate cream/paste to the parts of him you are gonna taste and make him do try the same..

if after everything nothing works then stop using your mouths and instead have your hands work.. and if you can't live without oral sex.. you need to teach him or leave him! All the best!

kheserthorpe · Accepted Answer

Don't put it down your throat, just make a tube with your hands with your mouth at the end so his head is popping in and out of your mouth.

Work on getting one technique that works. You can try to learn to deep throat later.

As for him giving you pleasure ... I don't know what he's doing or what you're feeling, but tell him what works.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't put it so deeply in your mouth.  Use your hands for most of the work... just be sure to get it wet with your mouth.  You can use your tongue to stimulate all parts before getting to the in-and-out part.  Also, they make flavored lubes that actually taste decent.  Experiment until you find one you like.  The warming ones generally taste like crap though, so steer clear.

tripichick · Accepted Answer

Focus on the shaft ~~ lightly licking and caressing it. Do that for about a half hour while your nug kicks in. Leave the sensitive head alone until the last second.

ChloeF · Accepted Answer

Read a book called Jack's Blowjob Lessons - it will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know. Seriously.

astutefl · Answer

You 2 need to communicate more.  When he goes down on you, don't criticize, but when he hits a good area, or does something that feels good, def moan loader, or say, oh yeah, right there,...keep doing that.  Help him help you.  When you go down on him, ask him what feels good, ask him to tell you what he likes.