Girls would would you think of a boyfriend if you found this?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so I have never had a girlfriend, but I'm just curious to see how girls would react/think. I have read questions on here about girls finding there boyfriend's p*rn or walking in on him watching it,etc. Also answers from girls on what they think about it, some hate it, some do not mind and some want to watch it together. I do not watch p*rn though and never have. I really have no interest in watching two naked people do it. I mean on YouTube I have watched the videos were it shows the opening parts were they make out and meet and start taking clothes off, but after that point I would not want to see more anyway, my interest is done. Some of the stuff I like to watch is like this: link link link link link link link link link link So, what would you think? Would it be any different to finding p*rn? Better? Worse?

[samhradh_leannan]

For me, that wouldn't be very different from finding p*rn, because it clearly serves a similar (if not identical) purpose and the focus is still on other girls. To me, even though the content of those videos is significantly less sexual than actual p*rn, intentionally watching a video for the purpose of seeing a girl's skirt fly up or the camera zoom in on her chest still seems like watching p*rn to me. In fact, since those videos feature "real" girls, it's more personal in a way and could even be harder for some girlfriends to handle.

I don't mind if my boyfriend watches those videos OR p*rn- it's completely normal- but I have to admit I wouldn't be overjoyed at coming across the evidence. I don't have a problem with the fact of p*rn and I understand that it's normal to watch it while in a relationship, but I still prefer to keep it a private individual thing, unless my boyfriend and I agree to consciously incorporate it into our relationship. I personally see that as a respectful and considerate thing to do.

[Asker]

The girls in p*rn are real to, the only difference is it's a job. I agree it should be a private individual thing, but I was just wondering what reactions would be.

[samhradh_leannan]

I understand that they are real people, but that's exactly what I mean- they ARE doing it as a job. They're acting, not representing themselves as private individuals. I know that some of the videos in your links did involve acting, but some were more real-life.

[Asker]

So does the real life make it worse then?

[samhradh_leannan]

Not necessarily, but it could play a role for some girls.

[Asker]

So it really comes down to the girl? Some girls have no problem with it and some do.

[samhradh_leannan]

Yes, that's absolutely correct.

[3v3lAngel]

It's a little better because its not nearly as raunchy but the girls that hate p*rn hate it because there are "other women" involved. Some of us require complete devotion and some of us give that same devotion to our partners. Another issue is that a lot of p*rn stars portray artificial flawlessness while you're average girlfriend (even the 9/10s) are highly insecure. Basically, how offended would you be if you and your metaphorical girlfriend walked by a gym and she stopped to gawk at the hotties in their little shorts, working out. Even through the glass, its an insult to your partner.

[Asker]

So, even though the girls in the videos are not artificial flawless p*rnstars, but real women. It would still offend some girls, since the guy is still looking at other girls.

[jpinka]

if I found p*rn I would watch it, read it, and look at it and when I got the tingles id be ripping his pants off.

[Asker]

So, you would watch your guys stuff?

[jpinka]

heck yea! I enjoy p*rn. watch it all the time.

[Asker]

What do you think of my stuff, the non p*rn stuff?

[carguydc]

That stuff is pretty tame. Some of those I wouldn't even think twice about watching at work. If a girl had a problem with that stuff, I'd venture to say she had some major insecurity issues. My girlfriend has seen a picture of me holding a naked Jenna Haze (actual real p*rn star) in my lap and she thinks it's great. It really depends on the girl.

[Asker]

I have to ask, how did you end up with a naked p*rn star in your lap?

[carguydc]

Funny story, I had never been to a strip club before, and my roommate at the time saw that Jenna Haze was coming to a local strip joint and he suggested we go (I had no girlfriend at the time). Finally I conceded and we went. After Jenna Haze performed, she was in the back and you could meet her for $10 or $35 to meet with a pic, so I said what the hell. We talked for a minute, and then she got on my lap and someone snapped a pic. She wrote me message on the picture I dare not repeat and then signed it.

[Asker]

Cool story.

[EverythingReal]

I don't care what he jacks off to in his free time, as long as he's not meeting up or sexting other girls.

[Anonymous]

i wouldn't mind finding p*rn on his computer... I mean, I think it's really unrealistic to think a guy doesn't watch p*rn :/

[Asker]

What do you think about the stuff I watch?