How to deal with being horny?

I am always so so so so horny, I masturbate around six times a day. I'm single and I'm a virgin and not ready for sex yet, so is their any other ways I can cope with being this horny? I'm 17 if that makes any difference.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • get stressed out. I'm a virgin myself and I had this horrible job that stressed me out. now I understand how some people can not want to have sex... did you just start masturbating? I remember when I first started (20 years old then, 22 years old now, wow) that I did it all the time and felt really guilty about it because I was doing it so much (or at least I thought it was too much). then after a while, after getting over the guilt and figuring out what I liked and didn't like, the amount I had my "alone time" went down and I learned how to deal with my horniness without going and having sex. each person is different.

    • No I started when I was 11 lol, and now I'm 17

    • Lol, k, just get stressed out then XD

    • Don't stress yourself out on purpose. Stress isn't healthy, and there is nothing wrong with masturbating, just keep doing it yourself, the healthy way :-D

  • Masturbation results in a cycle of lust. The best way is to start minimizing the time you spend masturbating. Tell yourself "I'll resist just this one time" once a day for a week, then more the next week, etc. Eventually, you will get to the point where you will just embrace those urges and then deal with them through physical activity, prayer, etc. Keep your mind off of it.

    Look at NoFap/Your Brain on Porn if you really want to see what quitting masturbation can do for you

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, a good way to cope with horniness is to masturbate as much as you can. I have read about girls that masturbate 10, 12 even more times a day to deal with their horniness. There is nothing wrong with lots of masturbation each day so enjoy masturbating all you want.

  • IME, more masturbation and more sex leads to even more horniness. It's kind of a positive reinforcement loop--the more you do it, the more it feels good, the more you think about it, the more you want to do it again.

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  • Not that I know of. What is wrong with how you are dealing with it now?

    • There isn't anything wrong with it, I was just wondering if their was other ways.

  • Looks like you're coping just fine.

  • I have no idea how to help as I suffer the same way and there is never lasting relief from it!

  • Be mine sweety

  • take a cold shower?