Can guys get turned on from sublte rubbing while dancing?

like when your upper bodies/hips are rubbing against each other?

2. and is it possible for you guys to get emotionally close to a girl through dancing close with her for a while?

you know the kind of close dance where your cheeks touch and she has her hand on your chest or shoulder, and she moves her hips and slightly her upper body.

like this just much closer:

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Most Helpful Guys

  • YES 150% to question 1. As far as question 2 is concerned it has a lot to do with how she responds to his flirting and how more comfortable she seems to get being herself while they stare at each other while semi or formally flirting. Then a man highly considers emotional potential with the women when they first meet but in truth a man ONLY allows himself to get emotional once foreplay or sex as occured. Before that is just mental desire and interest manifesting itself. This is a good and constant fact but accurate most of the time.

  • Yes we get turned on by subtle rubbing and grinding, but so do you when you feel his boner :P .

    If it's just a dance, I would not get emotionally attached, but I would get sexually aroused which could seem like emotional attachment.

    I never really danced like that though, most times when I danced with girls there was no air between us and my hands had a mind of their own, caressing and touching all.

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  • Guys don't get emotionally attached as easily as women. Heck, they can BS an entire year long relationship just for sex, if they wanted to. It's much easier for them to get physically turned on than emotionally.

    • hmm ok

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  • 1. Yes

    2. Yes but the other way round. Unlike women, who get emotionally attached in this scenario, men get aroused sexually when it comes to this BUT if they are already emotionally attached to the woman they are dancing with then apart from point one the emotional bonding increases

  • I do this with friends too, not necessarily guys. You get the occasional boner but she's gotta be REAL good.

    It could be emotional. The way you described it seems to make it both sensual and emotional.

    I just clicked the picture and realized it wasn't the dirty dancing I imagined you meant haha!

  • I'm going to say yes but I've always had to ask a girl to dance first so I already at least had a crush on them before hand.

    • Don't tell us you only danced with the girls you had a crush on.

    • you only danced with girls you had a crush on? whoa I just asked every girl I knew a little hahaha. I was such a whore.

    • about 80% of the time I only asked girls I had a crush on and 20% of the time I asked girls I thought were pretty

  • it's a turn on when I put her on my shoulders, hold onto her legs, and bounce her up and down to the beat. have you ridden on a guy's shoulders? what do you think?

  • This is just guessing since I've never danced like this seriously(because I cant:D)

    Turned on for sure, emotionally attached not so much

  • LOL! Sure!...oh and "yes"...(:(:(:

  • Absolutely positive concerning sexual arousal, emotional attachment is far less certain. I remember getting a hadron when colliding with a girl I had absolutely no emotional bond with or emotional interest in, neither before nor after. Nevertheless, years later she's still a sweet memory.

  • Yeah. If you can feel his hard on against you and you're rubbing against it, then you're definitely turning him on. And as nice as it is when she has her hand on my chest, it's even better if I have mine on hers! :P