My boyfriend has been ignoring me for the past 5 days... after I told him he gave ME an STD?

Yes, so pretty much I went to see my doc for a check up and found out I had an std after receiving a call from my pap smear swab results. I met up with my and told him the same day I found out. He seemed clueless and couldn't remember the last time he got checked for stis/stds.( before we met) He didn't argue with me nor deny it. He seemed shocked and calm the whole time. (He's the only man I've had unprotected sex with) anyways, so the next day I go back to my doc and got treated. Thankfully it was a curable std. I texted him to inform him I got that taken care of. And he didn't reply back to me. So I thought hmm OK. Maybe he needs time. 2days later... Nothing. I texted him again and still no response! Its been 5days now & I haven't heard from him at all! I love this guy to death & he knows it. But why is he IGNORING ME? (MEN YOUR OPINIONS AS WELL PLEASE!)
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Thanks everyone that took the time to read my post and give an input! I appreciate it! As for how things turned... We broke up. He left me alone at my lowest point when this was something we both were experiencing. His man pride, guilt, whatever doesn't justify ending all contact with someone that loves you. Anyways... Love really does blind you sometimes.. but things happen for a reason. Bright side to this?... I'm glad All I got from him was a CURABLE std and didn't end up pregnant.
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  • He should be in touch with you, that to at this point of time when you are at risk! Otherwise he is worthless of this relationship! He is not speaking to you because of the blame you made on him! just think who initiated that sexual act! also, if he has given you the STD then of course he too suffers the same. So you need to sympathetic about him as well. So instead of just texting which is some what rude you should have called him . Now, just do not worry. It is up to him to realize the situation and respond to you. You just wait for sometime and he is sure to come back to you. :)

  • This guys pride has probably taken a massive hit or he feels as if you feel he has cheaten on you or knows you know he has cheaten on you, or he feels you have cheated on him, but you really need to get in touch and say things like you expressed, let him know that its not a big deal, and that you need to talk to clear the air, and that your not angry unless he has cheated on you, this way you can make it easy for him to approach you, but if he still stays away, I would take it as a guilty concious, good luck,x

Most Helpful Girls

  • He is your boyfriend and all you do is send him a text? Maybe you should try the old fashioned way and call him. Could be several reasons like he is not getting your text message, I know my phone gets queer once in a while and I receive someone's message about a week after it was sent. He also might be embarrassed about what you said, especially if he actually gave you something and he was oblivious of it himself. Your sure it was an STD and not a yeast infection or something of that nature? Gyno actually said it was from sex?

  • Why don't you try to call him or go over to his place? Sometimes text can get lost..cause I sometimes don't get all the text messages that my friends send me and whatnot.

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  • Ugh!! Sorry about this. Not the greatest reaction when you need some comfort and support. When you guys are all patched up, get him to use a penis health creme that contains Vitamin E and shea butter... this will moisturize and make his penis skin smooth as silk... leading to easier entry, less irritation and better sex. I use one and it makes all the difference in the world. You can get one online. Hope this helps.

  • It's possible he fears that you're gonna give him a sh*t storm about this std you got and hasn't mustered up the balls to confront you. If you let him know you're not mad, I would think he'd be more likely to respond. He may feel very guilty about this.

  • he might not have said it but maybe he thinks you cheated on him and got the std that way.

    or he cheated on you(how he got the std) and is feeling guilty about it.