So, I had sex with my sister's close friend. And now I need help..

[Anonymous]

I had met this girl once prior to the other night when we had sex. About 4 months ago, we met at a bar, and she was very into me. Started dancing on me, touching, making out with me, etc. But, she would say things like, "OMG! Your sister is going to be so angry at me!" and then walk away to go find my sister only to eventually come back and dance with me more. I was convinced we were going to sleep together that night but we didn't. Fast forward to the other night - at a birthday party at a bar we run into each other again. She is ALL over me again. In front of my sister this time, doesn't really care, keeps telling my sister they are going to be sister in laws, etc. I end up driving a few people home and this girl jumps into the car. I drop my sister off, one other person, and then we go back to my house. However, she didn't want my sister to know we were having sex, so we had sex in my car outside my house. It was uncomfortable being it was in the car and she was on top the entire time so there wasn't much variety, but she enjoyed it. I am inexperienced, but we had sex for an hour and a half before I came (nerves, uncomfortable, IDK). So, I am pretty confident I did all right, LOL. Anyways, I had sent her a single text about her forgetting something in my car, she replied and then there has been no contact. TBH, I am not interested in dating anyone at the moment, but want to keep sleeping with this girl. However, the entire situation with my sister makes it awkward and my sister isn't fond of it. At one point my sister walked over and saw us making out and said "Roxanne, you are one of my best friends, I tell you everything - I wouldn't want you guys to get together and then break up" So, I don't even know how to pursue a fvck buddy relationship with this girl. I live with my sister so it's not like we can easily do it behind her back.

[indian_empress_91]

Just don't have sex at your house. Simple.

But if your sister's thoughts of you or your relationship with her is important, I think there a lot of girls out there you can be FWB with. This girl sounds like trouble to me, she can cause trouble for you and your sister. I think if the girl ends up wanting more from the friends with benefits then you say no to her , it will make things awkward for you , your sister and that girl. But she can't be a good friend if she doesn't have the common sense to not ask you sister if she can pursue you, or the smarts to know if you want to date her or just f*** her. I think you need to talk to that girl and tell her straight up that you are attracted to her but all things could ever be between you both is just physical no emotions, if she says no well that's good you won't ruin her friendship with her sister, if she says OK to what you said , then go to your sister and tell her what do you think of you and your friend hooking up. If she disagrees and you respect her and the relationship you have with your sister then I think it's best to just not fool around with that girl anymore. THERE ARE SO MANY G.I.R.L.S. OUT THERE =)

[ashlynmariex]

Don't have sex in your house, and just keep it casual keep her as a friend and talk to her like it's the norm, but also flirt with her at the same time and try to make out with her and you know put moves in lol

[Sorryfurries]

Easy fix you had sex with one now have sex with both at the same time and she'll feel better about it... Maybe. If you were to have sex with your sister then she would probably feel different about you... I'm not saying in a good way though.

Never mind I didn't think about how to get her to have sex.

[Anonymous]

You should talk to both! First with the girl and later with your sis! Sound like she wants that too...