What are good sex positions for fat people?

I'm on the smaller side about 3 1/2 to 4 inches depending on how horny I am. I'm a virgin but I wanna know ahead of time which positions are best so I can do the humping not her.since I have this small problem. What are good sex positions for an overweight guy with small penis?
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  • Uh... Do you have a really big gut? The only issues as I can see them are if you have a really big gut. Like, missionary, you'd be unable to get it in, doggystyle, it'd be difficult, etc. But you'd have to have a REALLY big gut, I used to be somewhat overweight and I had a big gut, I mean most of that weight was in my gut, and I have a small d***, too, and I never had any problem getting it in...

    Anyway, try like, she's lying on the bed and you're standing up. So, you're automatically kinda with a lot of free space. That's the way you used to f*** in french brothels, too, it used to be real popular, that position. Uh...

    I actually don't know what I'm talking about. Sorry. But you shouldn't REALLY experience problems, unless you're really really big. If you are, the kind of girl who likes really really big guys is probably used to being with really really big guys. Some girls automatically go 'ew' and think they'd only ever take a skinny or muscular dude, and some girls are alright with everybody, and then some girls *really* have it for really big guys, and those girls are kind of outside the norm, as such, deviant, and deviants tend to be more enthusiastic about it anyway. So she'll have been with a bunch of really big dudes. So, if you are that big, unless SHE'S a virgin, she'll know all about which positions you can do, you get me?

    • Im not that big I think lol I'm like a size 42 pants and about 260lbs I'm still self consious though because I have pretty big thighs nd a lot of fat around my groin...so like if I have a boner and I sit down it doesn't s doesn't even stick out from between my thighs if I point it straight up that gets me really sad because I want to be able to have agirl sit on my lap facing me while we f***

    • Aaaahhh... Groin fat! I didn't even think. I see... Get a reclining chair! Roll back a bit, you'll still be sitting but you'll be able to push yourself out, comfortable, and she can sit on your lap, facing you.

    • What if u dont have a reclining chair what another better way

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  • I'm a big guy 5'11 400 pounds and I've been with all type of women no complaints. my advice is to licky before you sticky. once you get good at 4 play you'll learn to stop giving fore play right before she comes and then that's when you take her in the missionary. trust me. most important is communicating with her and showing her that you really want it to be good to her.

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  • My guy is a big guy and not greatly endowed but our sex is amazing. At his biggest he has been 380 and smallest 290. Truthfully his stomach has gotten in the way but he lifts it up and kinda puts in on my butt during doggie style. I'm ok with that! Get your partner to put a pillow under her butt during missionary. It raises her pelvis and allows you to go deeper. I have found at his biggest being on top is a challenge but it can be done. If she has strong enough legs, have her get on top in a squatting position. That's always a fun on!

    Sex is all about being comfortable with your partner. Our first time together was a little awkward due to his nervousness, but hegot past that very quickly when he could tell I was excited. Another position that is good is to have you stand/kneel (depending on the height of your bed), have her lay with her butt slightly off the bed. This is good and you can get the thrust power you want.
    Our sex is some of the best and most passionate. Always make sure she gets what she needs before you. ;-)

  • My fiance is a big guy and his size is about the same as yours but sex with him is absolutely amazing. I get what you mean about her sitting on your lap etc and it's possible if you sit in something that leans back a bit. Also it can be complicated at first. But once you get to know each other more sexually it becomes easier and better. Also make sure her needs are important too because your size deff won't matter if you can take care of her amazingly in other ways

  • First off I am a big girl, I'm with a big guy who isn't well endowed. It can be difficult. However we have the best lovemaking ever. Size isn't everything. I do suggest learning to be good at foreplay. I personally like missionary or doggystyle. He likes it when I'm on top. If she loves you it won't matter but it's awesome you want to please her!

    Have her put her legs over your shoulders and you will still penetrate deep.

    • How do you manage to be on top. I am also a big girl with a big guy and I can figure out how to work that out

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  • Laying down guy on top from behind works well. for guys that are bigger around or taller than the girl.

  • My guys is a big guys he's 320lbs. About the same size as u he even has groin fat and big thighs. We do doggie all the time it's awesome best ever. You can lay on the floor with a pillow under ur head and her on top it makes it stick out further and feel deeper. Good luck. It's always awkward at first.

  • Adding a question to this question I am 4"10 & guy is about 6ft more or less with some weight on him & I am tiny everywhere... he couldn't stay erect is it possible he felt uncomfortable because of my size? What do any of you recommend I do for comfort? & what position do you recommend?

  • I'm small in size next to my man & he's around your weight also & we have some REALLY good sex, especially when I'm on top because he hold my thighs & helps me thrust faster while he humps me at the same time. I cum so fast! Dogystyle is also good if she can arch her back good because it makes it a closer access to the vagina & also the fact that you're pushing yourself closer to her... There's really no problem if she's an active person. Good luck (:

  • Why don't you just get her to kneel on a bed, while you stand, and take her from behind? In my experience, a number of women too enjoy this position... (i) it makes them feel dominated (ii) it bangs them on their clit...

  • Have you thought of missionary, spooning, and doggy style? Sex can also come without penile thrusts; think oral, 69, fingering, using dildos, vibrators, and any other sex toy.

    • But I want penile thrusts...i won't feel like a man unless I can do that..wont my big thighs ad the girls butt get in the way during doggystyle? IREALLY want to be able to work with what I got I I don't wanna use vibrator...im down with oral though lol

    • I'm a real big dude 6'1/380lbs and I understand your concerns. Wasn't blessed with a huge dick either. If she is smaller and you bigger, you'll be fine. The problem I've encountered is when we both are big, but only with like doggy style or any position that takes a bit of angling and special manuvers. Most bigger girls along with u being bigger in gut and smaller down there causes an angle mishap for doggy. But everything else usually works just fine. Also Like The Ladies responded, Take Care Of her. If u r good at oral and u can get her off before u even get into trying different positions, it won't even matter cause in the back of her mind she is still on an organic high from that tongue lashing you just gave her