Viraj
Yes, I have done this so many times. I have a (only one) girlfriend whom I will marry after 3yrs. We meet once in a year for 3-4 days. She s 1000miles away from my state. Can't even see her if I am upset/sad/happy/emotional/moody/sexy mood etc. I can only call and spoke to her. So we share everything over the phone. Virtual sex also happens sometimes to vent out the sexual feel. Eg. I ask her to remove her dresses and ask her to do some naughty touches etc (all over the phone). If I get into sexy mood, I seek permission from her to masturbate. She takes me thru the process by asking me to remove my dress one by one and giving kisses etc.
What we are doing is mutual. Am very much guilty (lost peace many days) about this. I don't know what were are doing is right or wrong. Even she doesn't know. We both are not loving for time pass. True love. We both are dream about our wonderful future together.
Girls/Guys, Please tel me what we are doing is right/wrong. Am very much confused about this. Please help me out in getting rid of this confusions.
What do we do when we meet? - Just share hugs and kisses and few physical touches. Not sex!
I don't think that having phone sex is very right. It seems to me that you just get horny and use each other to satisfy this horny urge. Your relationship seems to be based on lust rather then actual love.
Dude, there is nothing wrong with phone sex. Talking on the phone is probably the only contact you have with the woman you love and if you're going to use it to masturbate that is totally natural. What would have been wrong was to have sex with a prostitute or some other stranger.
Yes I do, and I have no problem with it. I would much rather masturbate to a girl at school than some fake whore on p*rn .
Most of the time I will see a hot girl at school and have the urge to jack off to the image I have of her in my head.
As for if she is innocent, it just depends. There are some girls that are innocent, cute, and beautiful, but don't have those amazing hot bodies. For example, there is this girl in my English class that I am crazy about. She is really outgoing, kind, cute, smart, and has an amazing body. She is kind if on the short side and has an amazing butt. I couldn't stop looking or thinking about her the whole class. She was wearing jeans that really showed off her amazing butt, and she has a really cute face. The second I got home today I masturbated to her.
I had a stalker back in high school who would touch my hair and masturbate while sitting behind me in class, even though I was "innocent" as you say. (looking back I should have told an adult, but naive kids will be naive kids. I just thought he was gross, I never thought potentially dangerous. )
at least nothing bad happened to me, now all I can do is look back and realize what an idiot I was. Haha
Creepy!
That is sick
Omg wow ugh
My answer would be yes... I think it's normal for them to do that. if they love the girl, or just like her. if they think she's hot.. they will do that. like even if they have a girlfriend and they see another girl, it's human nature.
My friend told me he does this all the time with his girlfriend. Now, we are close but TMI.. I don't think I would want to know if my boyfriend did this.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!There's a girl that I see once or twice a month. I like this girl but we're just friends and she has a boyfriend.
So sometimes when I'm "in the mood" *lol*, I think about her. She's not a slut but she's not 100% "innocent" either.
Hope that helps.
Yeah, the innocent factor is the main reason I think. Because its like an accomplishment if you do hook up with her. At the same time, I care a lot about a certain girl and although we have great sex, I feel weird masturbating to her.
Yes I would and do masturbate thinking about the women I really like.
i you want me to paint what my mental picture is when I am doing this let me know.
Haha sorry to drag this up but id like to know what your mental picture is-ive always wondered.
Lol I don't mean I wander about you personally haha wen I read my comment back it sounds like that lol I just mean in general because there's this guy I know likes me so was just wandering if he thought about me.
I normally thing about her and I doing sexual things together, Whatever my mood may be, say the next time it happens it could be about giving/receiving oral.......You get the picture. hope this helps
I admit I actually have done this in the past, and it wasn't dependent on what kind of girl she was, as long as I liked her.
Yes, Yes, and YES.
I actually currently masturbate to a girl I like, but she knows I do, and she says it turns her on.
why not go to the next level. :P
I do but usually it will take a few more days to get used to if they are innocent type. I'm considered a very romantic gentleman & I masturbate often to the thought of the girl I like.
& I usually look at pictures.
& I usually look at pictures. I think that when a guy masturbates to a girl he likes it increases his fondness of her.
I almost exclusively jack off to girls I know.
Yes I do masturbate to a girl that I like yes I do this if she is "innocent"
I don't usually come to girls I know. I have tried it before, using Facebook and looking up pics of them, and sure I can get hard by jerking it, but I cannot seem to jizz to them. Like I feel ashamed by doing it. I have done it one time tho, I actually spoke to this girl about masturbating, like she is really sexual, we are just friends, not Boyfriend Gf, and we would look at porn together and have fun times competing to see who could come first, or who could come the most in one night, believe me never take a bet with a girl about masturbating, she pulled off 3 orgasms in an hour, and I had 2 in like 3 hours. Well I started talking to her what she would think if I cummed to pics of her, and she said it would be cool, she would take it as a complement and wanted to know how much I jizzed and how good it felt doing it to her, well it wasn't as good as I thought it would be lol.
yes I believe that any guy would :o
every one of my friends do lol
not even one of em does not jack off
which is sad and kinda scary in a way
i know that if you just like than yes. but if you love someone it is really hard I don't know why but it is
I know the feeling totally. Haven't done it in almost 2 weeks. Have a deeply crush on a girl. I feel some kind of guilty if I do it. Have stayed away from porn/hentai for a good while now. I hope after my exams I can ask her out and maybe start something.
Yes and no. I love my girlfriend with all my heart, and no one can please me more than her, but when I guy's masturbate they usually watch/read/listen to, porn, and can imagine themselves in the scenario they are watching. I truly believe innocence has nothing to do with it.
So you would do this sometimes with the girl you like in mind and sometimes with a porn girl in mind?
I see the dilemma here and I have never been in a relationship to tell you what's wrong or right for me, but I can only tell you this, if you have a crush on someone you can't get yourself to do it. At least it's like that for me. I can't get myself to masturbate. Because then I would feel guilty about it and that I am doing something really wrong. Though the girl I like have no awareness of this, deep inside me I feel guiltiness. I guess it's not like that for everybody and this goes from person to person. :)
hi... I did it a few times but I felt like I did something wrong. see I thought I liked her more than 'just that' and when I did it I felt bad because it made me feel like I considered her a 'slut or something'. the truth was that it was just a fantasy. I really liked her still. but big problem... things didn't work out too well so I'm trying to get over her. I don't want to masturbate with her in mind but I found myself doing it a couple times... is this wrong? I have deep feeling it is... btw I'm a gentleman not a sicko... like many guys we have fantasies that we don't really act upon in real life.
If I were you I would try to start something with her.
I know it's hard and I am in the same case as you, but that's the way too go, bro. Unless you don't progress it from crush to a relationship with her, you will always stay at that stage.
Oh yea, all the time. I like the connection of actually liking them. and innocence has nothing to do with it in my imagination lol
Nope I can't masterbate to girl I like. If it is love it is quite hard to masterbate even while watching porn. Sometimes I feel something is wrong with me but I've read an article which says everything is fine and it mentioned some thing about love effect. It said that you just can't concentrate on masterbation when it is true love.
To be honest, I masturbate over this girl I met just over a year ago. I find her to be the world's most beautiful person; inner and outer. I get an erection, close my eyes, and start imagining us in a sexual nature
Sure. Why, does it bother you to be someone's masturbation fantasy? lol
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