Is sex a good birthday gift?

[Anonymous]

I can't buy him anything so I guess sex is the next best thing ;) I'd love to make him happy for his birthday. He can just sit back and enjoy the ride (literally) (;

[Anonymous]

Not a good idea! I'd suggest maybe making him dinner! After all your really not spending a whole lot more. You could make him a card. For every year old he is put down a reason (ex/he's 18put down 18 reasons), or do one reason for every letter of the alphabet! Leave notes all over for him to find through out his day or even the week! You could do your own date nightstand home! Dinner made by you, dessert, watch his favorite movie, a backrub then maybe have sex!

[pinkflower]

no, dont!

just give him something that he was looking for for long time that till now he couldn't get it.

or buy a dvd or cd that he wanted to hv? or maybe buy the cd music with his taste of music?:)

or maybe you can cook something special for him?that he likes?

anyway, everything that you will give to him, he will appriciate it..

good luck!

[TheUglyOne]

Good suggestions here!

[courtney06]

Yea I understand where you're getting, but sex is part of the relationship just like hugging, kissing, talking, etc.

[Anonymous]

Not exactly sex... but it could be if you make it into a 'special relaxation for him' experience...

For most guys, sex is hard work.

If you give him 30 to 60 minutes of massage, followed by a lot of stimulation (with him having to do no work) and a happy ending, I'm sure he would find it very different from normal "sex" ... and surely see it as a present. I would!

[Longshot]

I would say no to sex as a gift -- sex is part of the ongoing relationship. If you don't have money then do 3 things: 1) Make him a card. 2) Make him dinner (ask him to bring wine) and 3) Make sure you have a dinner candle.

If dinner goes well and you're both in the mood, sex can follow.

[TheUglyOne]

No. Sex should be part and parcel of the relationship. You should have sex with him because you desire and lust for him, and he likewise. Sex should not be a gift you dole out because your partner has been a good boy'girl.

[madiocre]

giving him sex for his b'day is like making him dinner then eating half of it yourself... no don't do it.

[GAG1989]

Birthday sex is usually implied. So he'll probably just think it's any normal birthday. Why don't you make him something...gifts from the heart, are a good start (lame, I know, it's all I could think of right now)

[beastman88]

no its a terrible idea...

[zolly9999]

Its my favorite birthday gift... it has more value then money...

[Anonymous]

i gave my husband a threesome for his 25th birthday. it was a lot of fun and he siad it was better then any gift I could have bought him haha. then the next week he bought himself a new boat so it is what it is..

[E_Stone]

you're an awfully generous wife! Glad that it worked out well, though the new boat he bought himself sounds like a bit much

[pwrwgn]

A threesome? That's the gift that keeps on giving. lol

[Anonymous]

nope...never