Under what circumstance would a single guy turn down sex?

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So guys... how often have you turned down sex offered to you...by a girl you know and why?Girls have you ever asked for FWB's and been knocked back?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Lots of good reasons on this list, but one needs to be added:

- The girl is crazy or damaged.

I had an office job about 8 years ago and we were being outsourced, and so they had sent people from the outsourcing company for us to train. One of the girls quickly became infatuated with me, and made it clear that she was "available." She was pretty good-looking too, and had a nice body. A lot of guys would have jumped at the chance to have sex with her.

But... in the few conversations I had with her, I learned that she had had a bad, abusive relationship, and had a miscarriage, was dying to get pregnant again, and was very emotionally confused. She was super-clingy and needy, and was the type of girl who would be calling every 15 minutes, and would be jealous and insecure the entire time. Even the fact that she was going back home (3000 miles away) in 8 weeks didn't make it worth it; she would have made my life hell for at least that long.

I'm sure the sex would have been great (the crazy ones are usually great in bed), but the price would have been WAY TOO HIGH.

HandsomeRaj · Accepted Answer

1. If his mind is too preoccupied

2. If he is too worn out / tired

3. He is gay

4. When he's going through too much stress (and sex is not his stress buster)

5. If he were suffering from premature ejaculations and he knows it (so rather not do it than make a mess of a fantasty kind of stuff)

6. If he's not in a mood (I'd do that)

7. Has erectile dysfunction

8. Doesn't have a place

9. Stuck up with work and can't do anything about it

10. Doesn't like the girl much (is too choosy etc) / doesn't have the hots for her

11. etc

archer86 · Answer

The ONLY time I ever turned down free sex was because they were underaged. Plain and simple. No p**** is worth twenty years in prison. None.

Other than that, I'm not one to turn down women for the fact that I don't get many offers in the first place. There are a few exceptions to this such as the following:

She's married.

She's a relative.

She's obviously underaged.

She's an undercover cop.

She's one nasty ass street whore.

She is heavier than I am(this is not a rule, I've banged a buffalo before...heheh).

She's clearly on drugs.

She's old enough to be my mother.

Other than that, please offer sex with me. I promise to be good. I'll even cook breakfast in the morning!

sexyasianboi26 · Answer

If I have work the following day, or if I overdosed in caffeine (this leads to malfunctioning erections), or if I didn't prepare.

Im a man, and I like to plan sex rather than just jump to it. Most of these kids these days just jump into the action lol.

From where I come from, words need to be spoken, areas of the bodies need to be caressed or touched, before foreplay, and before sex.

SmoothOperator1980 · Answer

I'm not hating on anyone, but in complete honesty maybe he's having sexually preference issues. I cannot fathom turning down sex. Never. Nope. Just doesn't happen...unless...There's a nasty rumor about her, or maybe she has some funky BO. Like I said I'm not hating, but that is really the only possibility I can think of.

TrailOfTears · Answer

Sex is not something I would do lightly. I might be in the mood like you would never believe but its an automatic "No" unless we got really close on a personal level.

Boris9397 · Answer

Very simple: If she isn't attractive

justincider · Answer

Lots of reasons.  Every once in a while you are actually busy.  90% of the time you will change your plans for sex, b ut sometimes you just cant.  Sometimes you feel the friends with benefits girl getting too clingy, so it makes it awkward.  And every so often, we regret the sex.  You are in the middle of it and you look down and realize she just isn't that hot.  We make excuses from that point on...

Konnour · Answer

In a circumstance of lacking attraction?

Malcom_Reynolds · Answer

I can only say I've ever done it once, that was because it was a girl that I didn't know and kinda creeped me out. It's also one of the only times it's ever been offered.

dirtydee · Answer

actually like her as a friend or see her kinda like a sister. no actual physical attraction

Anonymous · Answer

Right now I'm kinda desperate so I wouldn't  but believe it or not I have long time ago, I was interested in  meeting a special girl who  and she had to be good looking enough, I rejected opportunities But assuming I had a girlfriend, I would reject sex from her if  I was tired from work

Anonymous · Answer

I've turned down sex (both while single and not) for the following reasons:

* A brief in retaining virginity (old-fashioned but still true for some) till marriage.

* Already in a relationship with someone else.

* Feeling very obliged and grateful to your current partner (for treating you well).

* Most important: a lack of belief in "free" sex.

* Unwillingness to go into temporary, short-term sex which goes nowhere.

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys just don't want to f*** hos.

Anonymous · Answer

- gay - doesn't want to have sex with that particular person - to not jeopardize friendship - can't be bothered - too caught up in other things - waiting for a partner or marriage

Under what circumstance would a single guy turn down sex?

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