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40s-50s white men with 20s Asian wives. Is it real relationship? Sexual? Economic slavery?
JMJ1983 Xper 3
Has anyone else noticed of late the sudden influx of mid 40s to late 50s white men having having wives in their 20s from 3rd World Asian countries such as Philippines, Vietnam, Indonesia, Cambodia and to a certain extent places such as Malaysia, India and China. Anyone know why this is the case of late? Many of these women aren't exactly lookers and in their own country most likely their own men won't touch them with a 10ft barge pole or in some cases they'd say "Haha that guy looks as if he is dating my maid" Why do you think so many of these men (many of whom were previously married) go for such women? I can understand the need to marry them for administrative reasons but surely there can't be much romantic feelings between these couples for a relationship to be real? If it is purely sexual, I'm guessing there are far easier partners these days especially with the internet and there surely must be a lot less bureaucratic hassle finding someone from the country rather than all the way from Asia? I'm wondering, could it by any chance be a case of economic slavery? Many of these girls somehow or rather the moment they have their permits and permission to work they find themselves jobs, many as nurses, nursing assistants or some even in fairly decent corporate or retail positions, end of the day they will get a job even in today's difficult economic climate. Recently I was speaking to one such women, she is 26 from Philippines and works as a nursing assistant as well as a masseur while her 48 year old husband sat on his behind at home since he got laid off from his job. I can understand it if it was a recent thing but he got laid off in 2009 and hardly does anything to find a job. She was telling me she isn't the only Filippina in town to be in the same boat and she mentioned all over America there are plenty of Caucasian men married to Asian women where the women goes out to work while the men stayed home or did mundane stuff at home. I recently also took a Singapore - London - NYC flight and the flight was full, I was rather surprised there were loads of such couples on the flight, I got talking to one couple that was sitting next to me, they were a 50 something British bloke with an early 30s Malaysian woman, I spoke to her a bit in Mandarin and found out she used to be the housewife but now worked as a store manager while the husband used to be a supervisor at a car factory but no longer worked at all but became a househusband. I jokingly told her seems as if colonial times were back then, she said it was nothing unusual. Wondering, what everyone thought on this? Why has this become so widespread? Also don't these men feel ashamed they are living off a woman, especially one that is far younger than them and presumably from a country that provided them with far less educational opportunities.
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