Lol it might just be time to nut up or shut up. Just go all out. Plan a romantic date, get him back to somewhere quiet, dark, and alone, and just be naughty as hell. Make some pushes. Tell him you need him and what you want. I don't know a guy alive that wouldn't be way too horny to deny that. He will thank you later ;)
0 0 0 0Yeah. Stop lying to him. I know in theory you'd like to be fine with no sex, but you're not.
Is he waiting because he's not sure enough about the relationship, or because he's not ready to have sex at his age, period, or because he's worried about pregnancy?0 1 0 0He's worried that he's not going to be good enough. Plus, he has severe anxiety, and it kicks in when he has sensory overload... it happens nearly every time we even make out, so he's nervous that it will get even worse when we get to the real thing.
Avoiding it will make it worse. If that's the case, he needs to slloooooowwwwly move forward. Tell him to get a grip. He's going to suck. The sooner he starts sucking on a regular basis, the closer he'll be to be getting good. But tell him the good news is you're so damn horny and so attracted to him that a few seconds of sex sounds -amazing- right now.
Haha all of that stuff is actually exactly what I keep telling him.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Related Questions
What Girls & Guys Said
1 3Ever think of just seducing him? A little alcohol, maybe, a little mood music..presto, you're both happy!
0 0 0 0Put your hand on his zipper/crotch and see what he does...if he is having trouble relaxing then maybe apply some (but not too much) alcohol?
0 1 0 2He has no trouble getting turned on haha. It just seems like every time we make plans for him to come over to my apartment for the night, something comes up and he either isn't able to stay the night (so he doesn't want to do anything big) or he can't come over at all. The only time he's at all ready to do anything, is on nights that I have work the next morning, so nothing can happen.
That is not normal...an animal in rut focuses only on sex...maybe schedule a night for him to stay? but that is intimidating to males and will pressure him..spontaneous is much better...at least for most males...o.O
Get a different guy.
0 0 0 2Sounds like you need to molest him and take control. Get him so turned out and comfortable it doesn't matter. Start off with blow jobs. Tell him to shut up and lay there.
1 1 1 0Great!
Most Helpful Guys