Why do most guys believe a virgin will get really attached/clingy?

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toulouse · Accepted Answer

1.Guys know how strong sexual urges are. so they don't want to think of women as sexual.' -just in love. he just has to marry a virgin'. no threat.

2. they think if other person is attached somehow they are not. like calling someone crazy makes you sane.

3. people love to feel like they are being rational when all they are doing is fantasizing through stereotypes. constructing the world through ther mind instead of actual experience.

4. guys like to think of feelings / emotions as weak because they are afraid of their own.

5. its just a story told to them that they eat up. there's no thinking or work involved. you just say hey.. everyone says Easter bunny is real. so OK. works for me.

6. BECAUSE it feels good to them and THEY CAN. You have never had sex, they are the 'authority' they can not pull that with an experienced woman.

Think about it, why would anyone need to put a person they have never met into a narrow box-a derogatory one at that. unless they had issues feeling in control of their environment.

a sane person doesn't think' these people or a person who has or has not done x, is 'this' way or will become this way. or will feel this way.

a sane person when embarking upon something like sex with a person. discusses what they want? don't want. decisions are made based on everyone having similar goals. not an assumption.

if youl notice. these guys who say virgins are clingy. do not not have sex with them.

they do things out of convenience. they do it to but prematurely decide you are in control of something you're not in control of. by using a label.

this is no different then an 8 year old saying girls have coodies. its immature and ignorant and not based on any actual experience. its a cowards way of dealing with their own shame.

emotins are where or strength comes from. not or weakness. calling anyone clingy because they have feelings that are powerful, is just a cowards way of trying to feel strong. when they lack courage to feel at al.

anywasy not everyone who has sex cares about the person they have sex with.

a virgin f***ing some guy won't fall in love. if you are in love sex enhances it. but you don't fall in love from sex, people just think that to feel more important. or pathetic-for masochists. its all bullsh*t.

anyways who cares?the same person would like to think anyone he has sex with will be 'clingy'. so if you want a relationship, don't have sex with someone who does not. WHY doesn't really matte. you won't be able to respect each other. disrespect kind of kills the mood imo. I mean having sex with someone thinking he/ she might get attached. why would anyone do that. what are you trying to prove.

a persin worried about the other person bein clingy' is someone who wants a ons. does not respect the sacredness of feeling. So don't f*** them- unless a ons is all you want.

if they can't respect that you are saying you don't want a relationship. I e a virgin doesn't know... then don't have sex with him. only with respect.

iAmAWESOME18 · Accepted Answer

Because a lot of females PERIOD don't know how to separate love from sex. A lot of guys used to play lovey dovey to be the ones to pop the cherry (take the girl's virginity). They've taken the reaction of the virgins from these scenarios and made it seem as if all virgins are clingy crazy people. Now I've seen a lot of virgin guys become clingy. However when I was a virgin I didn't seem like a virgin because by the age of 5 I'd separated the idea of love from the act of sex.

A lot of virgin females get clingy because they belie love has to do with sex (wrong)

A lot of virgin males get clingy because the sex is so good. (correct)

Lara90 · Accepted Answer

Because girl want to lose virginity with someone who means a lot to them, who they love. And after that they'll think that the guy with whom they have lost their virginity, has the same intense feelings for them and they think that they have a strong relationship that will last really long. And some guys are either not into that or they're just not ready to commit to a girl.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on the girl. If a girl is still a virgin in her 20s, it is assumed that she is saving herself for a certain guy, so if a guy comes around and only wants sex, some of them might get away from that because they aren't going to be that guy. I don't know if virgin girls actually get attached like that, but like the guy below me, I am completely okay with it if they are.

Ryosanada · Accepted Answer

It's a stereotype. Not all guys think this way, and yet there are guys who do think that way. It doesn't matter if your a virgin or not, clingy people are clingy, and those whom aren't that way, aren't.

Lommelun · Answer

They dont. What on earth gave you that idea?

princess4u · Answer

Because mostly they do.A virgin girl can get really attached because sex on the first time is very meaningful for many girls.

goodboygonebad · Answer

Not true. You shouldn't generalize like that. You don't know 'most guys'

milkduds · Answer

NOT TRUE!

Anonymous · Answer

because they usually would, that's why I would only marry a virgin

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