How do I know if I am physically attractive to girls?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I know! Kind of a stupid question, but seriously, I'm not sure if girls find me attractive or not? There will be days that I look in the mirror and think I'm handsome and other days where I'll be like "bleh id look so much better if ______."

The thing is, I guess its just because I'm really oblivious to gauge how girls act around me. Like a girl would have to be blatantly flirting with me, for me to even recognize it :o I don't catch on those suitable ques like some other men. And I mean its not like we (as men) are targeted as often as women in the beauty or fashion industry that try's to portray what the opposite gender may find attractive, the average guy is sort of kept in the dark about it so to speak.

I was wondering if there a program or test you can download that will tell if on average girls will find you physically appealing? (I don't really wanna post pics online. Sort of considering it a last resort) Or any other methods that you may know of? Thanks :]

Urm stuff about me? (random pics)

-I'm 5'11

-blue eyes/short-medium length brown hair ( like this link )

-straight white teeth (I don't smile to often at strangers though) -usually keep a 5 o'clock shadow/little stubble but other times clean shaven (I never let it grow past stubble. this color/length at max link ) -small not so masculine/defined jawline (like this except a bit mor round at the sides link ) -love sports/ but have an average body (like this link but maybe very slightly more toned arms and pecs/bit bigger beer tummy but not much difference and I'm working on it :P)

[Anonymous]

I'm in the same boat as you bud. People once in a while tell me how "oooh she is into you!" but I can never tell. To make matters worse I can confuse girls hitting on me with them just wanting to play with my hair (I have a rather unique set of long curly hair). I dare say there probably isn't much of a "test" or "program" you can use to determine if you are attractive or not...but if you wander around the internets long enough and this website you will see a common mantra for attracting women. Confidence. That's it. For some reason women are really attracted to confidence, and it seems they care more about that then they do about appearances (I haven't determined if they really care that much about personality yet but that's my cynical side showing at the moment). What you need to do is bear yourself out there like you don't give a damn. You rock the world you live in and are the master of your future. I can't say how you can convey this in a bar since I never go and I am far detached from the active dating scene...but walk in there, bring that confidence, smile, and hopefully some nice young gal will show interest in you and you approach her.

[ArtistBboy]

Answer the following questions:

1) Has there ever been a lady that has taken interest in who you are, romantically?

2) Have you ever had a girlfriend

3) Have you ever had a girl flick you sh*t and smile afterwards

4) Have you ever had a girl go out of her way to get your attention

5) Have you had women sit next to you, or is it always across the room from you?

etc

The truth is that men are typically blind from any woman's advance. My advice is to role with how you feel about her. If you find a woman that is physically appealing, are you actually taking the time to talk with her and initiate a conversation so that you can discover if she is dating material? Step up a notch and live life by how you feel is right. Some people will not take to your advance, that's not failure - that's experience. All the experience you get from speaking in social situations will help you become a better mate and a better listener, both are traits that are highly attractive. Build who you are, not your fears!

~ ArtistBBoy

[TrailOfTears]

Dude... I think I look like utter crap. I can not see a redeeming factor in my life or my body. If you can wake up at least on some days and say "Ah not bad." Then you got a fair chance.

You are way over thinking this and it kind of creeps me out reading how much detail you put on showing your teeth or your standard of shaving.

Its honestly better if you just brush yourself up and instead focus on interacting with women instead. Your body won't do the talking for you.

[Anonymous]

If they come toward you with swanky walk, left eye wink, and in a sultry voice say, "YOU👉ARE A STUD!🤩" Then you know it must be true ☝️