Guys, what does it mean when it takes a guy longer to cum?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean when it takes a guy a long time to come during sex (foreplay, handies, oral, and intercourse - all of that)? Does it mean you are not as attracted to that woman or that you don't have chemistry with her/just want sex or what? I always thought it meant that the girl didn't turn you on enough or didn't feel as good and that's why it took a lot longer, is that right? If not, why?

[dnately]

It does not mean anything, or it can mean many things.

First of all, different guys take different amounts of time. I usually take a long time (at least 15 minutes, but sometimes an hour or more), and it has nothing to do with how attractive the girl is.

Second, one thing that does influence it, is how stressed I am about "preforming". When I'm with a girl that I really like, but I'm not so sure how she feels about me, it takes me longer.

[marshnewb]

Heh, most girls complain if it takes less than 20 minutes. No it doesn't mean he isn't into you, it just means that he takes a little longer. Don't worry about it, it just means he gets to be inside you longer ;)

[imonfire]

Experience and comfort. Also, he may just want to prolong the pleasure.

When you really get to know someone and you know what makes them feel incredible you focus more on that and rhythm than you do on lasting longer, but that takes time and experience.

[ImNotPerfect24]

He's been practicing kegel exercises maybe.

[onlyaguy]

He may just be nervous.

[mattiee]

not all guys are the same and come in under 10 minutes,

some need more time were not robots that you warm up and then we finish

[Anonymous]

I don't know if this is relevant any more but here goes. Guys taking a long time to cum when having sex has many awkward reasons. The most common reason for taking a long time is when the last time they had an orgasm. Young guys masturbate often, and many times they are not very confident about themselves so it just takes longer, and sometimes he may not cum at all. Also, he has to be sufficiently aroused and have plenty of foreplay. Young girls sometimes have a problem with stroking a guy or taking an equal role in the sex play. Some guys have certain hangups that must be overcome before they can let go. For couples that have been together before depends if you have had an argument, as this can be a recipe for orgasmic disaster. And lastly, some guys are wanting to please their woman and be sure she is satisfied before he lets himself cum, like stopping altogether to keep from cumming or other techniques to hold off.

[Anonymous]

it takes longer to fk an ugly

period

[Anonymous]

Some people just last longer or are less sensitive.

How long is a long time?