Why my boyfriend doesn't moan during sex?

He moans only when he finishes, but the rest time he is kinda silent. So for example when I make him blowjob I don't know if I'm doing it right or not, if he feels any pleasure or not, and I'm confused. That's also why I ask him often after sex if he liked it and he says "of course I loved! " . So I'm calm But then again when I make him bj or we have sex I always wonder if he likes it or not, maybe I'm doing something wrong, and sometimes I ask him while " does it feel good? should I continue like this?" why he won't make any sound?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • A lot of men are just used to being silent during sex. I had the same problem w my guy, but I talked to him about it and I guess he had some anxiety about being vocal. He's quite young and doesn't really have that much experience. I put his worries to rest and now his is quite vocal and it helps me out a lot cause then I know when something is feeling right etc. I would just talk to him about it:)

  • honestly, I wouldn't worry too much about it. of the handful of guys I've had sex with, only one of them could really be classified as "loud." just because they aren't constantly moaning and groaning doesn't mean that they're not enjoying it. really, it's hard to make sex unenjoyable for a guy! soo, just relax and keep doing what you're doing. I highly doubt that he will have a problem with it!

    • You stopped your "Hi There"?!?

    • Quiet guys are so boring

    • Hey... so I'm 15 I have no shit clue of experience but what are you u son of a glitch when u try to say its pretty hard to make sex unenjoyable for a guy... I masterbate and my hand sometimes makes mistakes you know

  • Sweety its very rare that a guy moans during pleasure it doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy it or anything like that its just kinda how men are I find it rare to find a guy who moans unless there moaning while having a orgasom.

    • Lame

  • Yeah it kinda bothers me too but I guess men don't like to make noise but I keep thinking in my head give me a moan breath some thing I"ll even settle for a sigh .

Most Helpful Guy

  • Because he's male.

    There's a theory that women evolved to make sound during sex to attract more potential partners. Guys are probably silent for the same reason.

    • That makes no sense.

    • @SetItStrait hey what is wrong with u

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