First off, you're not in love with him. Before you think I'm just another person telling you what love is, let me explain.
You love somebody when you know EVERYTHING about them. You love them when you know you look forward to every second you spend with them. You love them when you know you can deal with their weaknesses, and the things that bother you with a smile. You love them when you, nor he, is never embarrassed in front of the other. You love each other when you couldn't imagine life without them. I know this because I've been in love before over the span of 8 years, from age 15 to 23. When it was all said and done and our engagement fell apart, I locked myself in my room for months, so believe me when I talk about love lol. With all of that being the case, it is impossible to love someone who won't even talk to you in person.
This is your lucky day because I used to be, and still kinda am one of those shy guys. This guys however, is more awkward than shy. He's acting like 2 different people, one guy on the phone and another in real life. The problem is that you only really know the one over the phone, and you can't make a relationship work over the phone. Your story was also really awkawd, as far as moving and telling you personal details about his life...when he can't even talk to you in person.
My best guess is this guy is EXTREMELY shy, to the point that he's socially awkward around girls. When he contacts you and talks to you romantically over electronic devices, it gives him confidence...its always easier to talk like that through text than in person. It gives him self validation and confidence. What can you do? You're going to have to approach him. Its the way we shy guys work.
Look into the future and ask yourself what you see in this guy. What do you know about him in reality? Do you know his interests, what he does after school, etc? Do you know about his personality, other than the fact that he is an introvert? Do you know about his type of friends?
If you want a shot at this guy, stop talking to him over Facebokk, phone, etc and talk to him in person. If you don't do this, you might as well let him go. Good luck.1 0 0 0Walk up, lift his chin, and kiss him. Problem solved. :-) Well, there might be some talking to explain what just happened, but if he's that shy you're gonna have to take the bull by the horns to get what you want.
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I know exactly how you feel!! I was with a guy and he was super shy to talk to me! One day he took me to the movies and i got in his car and when i said hey, the first thing he said was like oh damn i dont know what to say.. And i was like what? Really? But then he started getting more comfortable with me and we soon kissed after that! So what I'm trying to say is be a confident ass woman and go up to him and break out his shell!!
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