If a guy doesn't have sex w you as much anymore is it dafe to say he's cheating?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been going out for about three weeks. Things were good at first. He claimed to be a total nympho when we got together. We were having sex all the time and going out and doing things. Now all he wants to do is stay home and play video games and not go out anywhere. He only wants sex In the morning when he used to want it all the time! I confronted him in it and he said that he's a guy and it takes him longer to recuperate. I get that but he used to want to do it all the time. And he claims to be a nympho then turns around and says he doesn't want it much or he's not horny or in the mood! He told me I was being clingy when I have been acting exactly the same as I always have been! Actually less clingy since I have been so busy with school! And he only wants to do doggy style. I told him it would be nice if he would go down on me. I would go down on him and everything if I didn't want sex and he said no or saw no point to it. He still cuddle me but all I'm asking for is sex. I've been with tons of guys and he's pretty inexperienced. When I suggest something kinky I like he just laughs or makes fun of me. He also calls me emotional and can't take a joke. He teases me a lot. Lately I feel like he's just trying to get rid of me. Nothing I do can turn him on. I ask him what turns him on and he says he doesn't know when the other day we were in Victoria secrets and he was all horny and wanted to buy me the whole store! Do you think he's cheating on me? I don't understand it. He used to want to be all over me and we still have sex but there's no feeling in it anymore. He gets off then goes back to playing his videogames. I hate it. Should I just dump him? This always seems to happen. A guy will seem totally into to me then just stop having sex w me as much. I'm not boring in bed either! I am aggressive and try to do new things and he won't do it! He even told me my kissing sucked the other day and I started crying! He said he hopes my crying isn't a common thing Because otherwise he won't be able to handle it! I told him if he wants to be w someone else to go ahead and be with then but he didn't say anything. I'm not happy right now. He can be sweet and always cooks for me and takes care of me when I'm sick or cuddles with me but I just want him to have sex w me more often and make out with me for once! I've thought about cheating on him, but other then the occasional remarks and not wanting sex as much as me he is a good guy. I really don't want to be alone and I do like him. I just don't know why he doesn't want sex with me that much anymore. Its like he judges me when I am open about my sexuality and tells me I think about sex too much. He wants to do more then just sex. I thought That guys always wanted sex though! I'm used to guys only wanting sex.

[WindowsUser]

i read enough. Hi's not the one just dump hime. It makes me already sad to hear that he mad you cry so many times and he clearly doesn't care about you dump him.

But if you want to stay and fix it just stop the morning sex just don't have sex in a while or move it to doing it in the evening or shomthing.
don't let hime think that having sex with you is for granted. caus i think he does think that.
make hime feel like you mad hime feel before let hime chase you after the sex and don't let hime know if he will get that pussy or not.
Ever time he wants sex teas hime.
Girl like the pursuit and some guy too.

[Dionysos]

Sex isn't everything in a relationship, but if it stops suddenly there's some reason for it. Lots of potential reasons, so it's not automatic that he's cheating. It sounds like the relationship isn't working for either of you.

Tell him you're confused and it feels like he doesn't want you anymore because of the no sex thing. Do not cry while telling him. See what he says.

[Asker]

Ya I think I will. All he wants to do is play videogames. :/ I like to go Or and dance and get drunk.

[Texasgal95]

Not always but usually they’re settled hits that might be hard to pick up on if you’re in a blinded by love so to speak you don’t spotted a friend or family member well sometimes their sex drive might be low at the moment I wouldn’t go jumping to conclusions unless you have proof that leads to him cheating why he’s not wanting to have sex

[justincider]

Not sure why you think he is cheating, but it doesn't sound like you have anything solid to suspect that. Try talking to him. Just been 3 weeks, still figuring each other out...

[JamieLoves]

No!
You’ve Only been together for 3 weeks !
That’s Nothing in the scheme of life.
My last girlfriend was for 3 years and she didn’t change into her true self until now !
You may have changed and don’t see it or maybe he didn’t bargain for what he was hot for in the beginning. Not all people can get along. He might find that he never really liked what you’re about and it took him this time to figure it out. You’ve talked about it. He isn’t giving you what you need. It won’t get any better. I’m not saying that you’re right and he’s wrong. I don’t know both of you, but I can see it’s not what you want. Move on and find someone that’s likes you. One more thing, I don’t know what you consider to be kinky, but to me it’s very extreme.

[sailormanfl]

I would be a little worried to be honest if i had a girlfriend that wanted it all the time i would do it all the time for him to just stop wanting it is super odd

[thedoctor880]

No just u need to do something else that is fun

[Unclewaltsoup]

He’s probably battling some depression. Is he on any meds? That can seriously curb the desire.

[karar313]

The problem is not in him, the problem is in you.
Wear something sexy, tease him with your body, sit in his lap, act hot, and he will run for you

[jinxedyou]

Cut off his dick

[Anonymous]

Guys don't only want sex. Once a day is pretty fair. Maybe he's overwhelmed by you, demoralized? What kinky things did you ask? Maybe took much for him?

[Anonymous]

Move on!!!

[Anonymous]

There go girls again, assuming the worst, every time something happens..

DO NOT ASSUME THE WORST

[Anonymous]

whana meet?

[Anonymous]

He's treating you like sh*t, who cares if he's cheating.