This is an interesting thing I read about lately. Any urge or physical pain you have you just focus on it. Rather that resist it you say yes in your mind give me more of that pain or in your case horniness or horny feeling and eventually it will run out and you will stop feeling it. its not a joke. I read it in an amazing book and it works...just do not resist any urge or pain but say to yourself give me more of it and paradoxically it goes away. you have to focus and concentrate on it tho...sounds silly but it works good luck.
ok thanks
That is not helping me. What do I do?
A real guy is the solution. A possible solution is a cold shower. The best solution is to learn tantra, then you'll know how to transform your sexual energy. And you'll also learn how to really enjoy in lovemaking when you had a boyfriend.
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interesting. nver heard of tantra before
Kegel exercises, G Spot, was discovered Ernst Grafenberg in fifties reading tantra. The only way for a man to have multiple orgasms is to learn tantra. Women have an irrepressible sexual energy, men temporarily lost sexual energy when ejaculate. They found a way to orgasm without ejaculation for long penetration and much more. Women have a sophisticated sexuality. In tantra all that is understood. Women easier learn their part, men much more difficult.
Honestly there aren't too many options. Just try going slow with yourself and seeing what feels good. There aren't any rules on how to masturbate, it's all about what feels good to you. That's pretty much the only option, unless you try to pick up a hobby or something. Haha.
I love masturbation at least i know where it all is instead of someone fumbling round down there lol
Masturbation will only strengthen it. If you're wanting to combat it, go for a walk or sing a song or something as soon as you feel it. Do not allow your mind to dwell on it
I'm in your shoes, but I masturbate to relieve those urges... I don't know what else to recommend if you're so against it.
im not against it. it just doesn't do anything for me
Doesn't do anything? Did you masturbate to orgasm yet it wasn't pleasurable?
Maybe you haven't done it the right way. If you've only used toys for penetration, that might be the problem. Not many girls get orgasms from penetration. You need to try to stimulate your clitoris.
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You need to get over your aversion to masturbating or you're screwed (forgive the pun).
Masturbation is amazing once you find your spots who needs a man when you know where it all is ha ha ha
thinking about gross stuff could help, there are quite a few "shock sites" (actual terminology if you want to google) that could likely help e.g. lemonparty.org
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Wow, thanks for that. I'm a guy and that actually had some good results. Should be helpful in the future.
Did you orgasm from your masturbation? If not, keep doing it until you do or figure out how to make yourself orgasm.
Hormones are a driving force for exersize of all kinds. If you you don't like being horny find a different exersize to channel your hormones (the higher intensity the more effective it will be)- running, weight lifting, swimming... sometimes you need to find different focous points for your brain such as Bible reading, strategy games, what does someone else need... also experiment with what you eat (is your food injected with hormones (meat products) adding to your issue), as well as other things. Hang out with people that don't encourage sex (talk, jokes, acts, media included)
Key 1 distract your mind
Key 2 find an alternative outlet for hormones/girls are different then boys can't help you there
Key 3 find something that won't make you feel empty-purpose behind your action will help when your faced with stupidity
Practice meditation. There are many forms to produce the mentle toughness you need :) This has helped me in the past. I only pass off what works for me.
Masturbation is a natural thing... Maybe expand your horizons, get a sex toy like some type of vibrator or whatever suits you... Since you're wanting to maintain your virginty I wouldn't suggest anything that penetrates you..
Pray to God and ask for self -control :) you'll be fine :)
how old are you? because I'm a guy who is almost 25 and still a virgin
Excuse me how anew you still virgin sorry don't mean to get in business just I have same problem and I'm younger than you and very hard for me to stay a virgin and I'm girl and I like to stay a virgin
Dont do masturbation it will only make you more horny. Fight with your thoughts. It's the only wait.
try masturbating again. learn what feels good, before you give up on it
If Masturbation is not working for you. That means your doing it wrong. You need to find out what you like and what you don't like. Otherwise like the other commenter said. Your screwed lol. not every girl is the same. Some like one type of stimulation others like others. some girls go right for the clit until they rub it raw and it becomes uncomfortable. luckily guys are not so fickle lol.
Make out with someone and get kind of touchy and if you make out for long enough you'll get bored and the feeling will be gone. At least for you it will. The guy will be crazy horny but that's his fault
haha true
Go on the pill it kills sex drive.. did for me :(
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I have the same problem, just try to distract yourself with other things.
Masterbate and let it out
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