Girls, my closest female friend had me give her boyfriend a blowjob. What now?

The two of us grew up together, and share everything about everything with each other. We were at a party the other night, and she was telling me about how hot it would be to watch a guy give her boyfriend a blowjob. The way she was talking about it was kind of turning me on. And then she asked if I would do it. I kind of laughed it off. Later that night, I was helping get her boyfriend back to her place. We were all quite tipsy. She pulled off his shoes and jeans, then pulled down his underwear, exposing his penis. She started giving him head, then motioned me to come over. I was pretty nervous, but they both guided me through the process. It took us a while to get him really hard, but we kept on going, taking turns, eventually he came in my mouth. It was pretty incredible. Today, I received a text from him, asking if I wanted to come by his place while his girlfriend was at work. I liked it when it was the three of us, but am a little concerned about hooking up with him 1:1. Would that be considered cheating, and should I tell her? I'd like to continue experimenting with the both of them.
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Turns out he asked her before texting me. She told him to text, because he enjoyed it, and wanted to try more things. I told her I like it better with all 3 of us, and that made her very happy. The three of us are hooking up tonight.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If you aren't comfortable without having your friend's explicit approval don't do it. Tell the guy you won't do it until you hear the words from her mouth saying it is okay for the two of you to do stuff without her around. Then wait for the permission. Either he will be trying to cheat and therefore you won't hear from her, or they have an open relationship and you will. You could bring it up to her if you want, but I'm not sure its necessary. But definitely let them know you want to keep up with the threesomes.

  • First off. I am horny after reading that. I wish I could find two guys willing to do that for me.

    Second it is cheating if you don't have her approval. Try to ask her if you can all do that again I am sure she would say yes and then no one is doing anything wrong.

    • Tell me about it. I can't stop thinking about the experience. I so want to do it again! Have you tried asking guys if they'd be into it?

    • A couple times and the responses were not good. I know my current boyfriend would kick me to the curb if I even suggested it.

    • I am horny as hell reading it too! I think that would be hot and I would if my girl asked me to fool around.. the romans and egyptians did it hundreds of years ago and we let society take away our pleasures of the world. Live free YOLO!

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  • If you are not gay don't do it stick to what you like.

    • I don't consider myself gay, but I did like giving him a blowjob.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Even if you are not gay you certainly are bi or you don't mind being bi :)

    Your going there without letting her know that he'd called is not cheating since you are not in a relationship with her (he is so it's cheating for him), for you the term will be back stabbing.

    No sweat if people enjoy their sexual acts mutually, but in this case she must know that he called you over BEFORE you go there :D

  • I got horny reading your post and fantasized about it... Hot. I would have done it too! I would not have chilled with her man without her knowlege since you two are such good friends.. It could effect mor then their relationship... It can hurt yours too.. friend me I have a few questions...

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  • Wow. Very interesting. Post an update when you decide what to do.

  • Yeah don't do anything until you have the OK from her

  • I dunno... I would do just about anything to make my girlfriend happy, but just a friend? No.

  • I am just curious. Are you gay? Have you ever been with a woman?

    • I've been straight all my life. This is the first time I've ever done anything with a guy. I was curious, and decided to give it a try. I liked it, and would want to try it again. Just Blowjobs right now.

  • I am into this stuff myself man. Nothing wrong with it, plus it's a huge rush. It has a shelf life and one or both will get bored with it, so enjoy it now!

  • Go for it. She doesn't care.