Can't stop thinking about sex after losing virginity

[Anonymous]

I lost my virginity about 2 months ago to my then girlfriend. I was a pretty late bloomer, I am 23. I have always been someone who thought about sex often, and I would masturbate usually 1-2 times a day. But now that I have somewhat been to the top of the mountain, I feel even more horny all the time. I can't stop thinking about sex now, I am wanting to masturbate at least 3-4 times a day. I really want to have sex again. I feel like I only did it just enough to whet my appetite with her, and she broke up with me before I really felt like I experienced everything. Is this normal, will this feeling go away? I still find myself thinking about my ex often, not so much because I miss her, but more because I want to have sex with her again.

[kholland65]

Welcome to the dark side my friend.

This is half the reason people tell you to weight until you are in a committed relationship (not saying you didn't), and its the half that usually goes unspoken.

Sex is like a potent drug. Once you try it, there is no turning back. You just want more more more.

Don't worry, what you are feeling is completely normal. I went through it myself after I lost my Virginity and then broke up with my Girlfriend 6 months later. Now my world revolves more around sex that it did before losing my virginity. Not to the point of it being an obsession or that I go out and use people for sex. But the idea of getting a Girlfriend and getting laid has moved up on my list of priorities where before, I could almost care less.

[madhatters4]

C'est la vie. 'Such is life' and welcome to it.

It's like a delicious food, sure up until you eat it you may wonder about it but once you've tasted it you want some more. That's natural. Even when you're in a sexual relationship you are still going to think about sex a ton, we are afterall men.

I don't think there is anything you can do about the feeling aside from masturbating. If you're OK with casual sex you should get out there and see if you can find a friend with benefits or no strings attached otherwise you should just work on finding someone else to love (not just for sex) and hope the relationship progresses to one of a sexual nature

[NoOneListens21]

Lol. Aw. Well imo its normal. Once you have sex you will want it more (usually)

Only choices you have are probably masturbation, sex with someone else/fwb, or get into another relationship and wait til it's meaningful. Your feeling of wanting this might be a little less intense once you have had sex a lot more but once you've gone without it may feel about the same as now. lol. Guess it depends on who you are and how your sex drive is. Hope it helps. ^_^

[xxjetaime]

It's totally normal! Once you start having sex, you crave for it, you want it so much that at times you can't help yourself!