Women, is it sexy to see a guy with an erection on the beach or a turn off?

[cardioman65]

Have any women seen one on a nude beach before?

[jestorman]

OK, so here's a guys perspective on it. First of all, it's a nude beach. There are all kinds of women's bodies out there, and because of that, they ALL are sexy. I went to a nude beach once and I got a hard on immediately because my wife took off her clothes in front of several others. Yea, I was super turned on. there was a couple about 10 feet in front of us that was watching her and he got a hard on too. It's uncontrollable. After awhile, the sensation did go away.

Now, for you women, I might add, my wife leaned over and told me that she was the lucky one there, because she too was incredibly turned on that a) she got naked in front of others, and b) she noticed me and the guy in front of us both with hard ons. She also told me that she got extremely wet herself and it really didn't show, which wasn't fair.

After we accepted the fact that it happens, no one minded, and there were others there too, we went on about our tanning. No one was there for a wild orgy, or gawking. Funny how cold water is supposed to relieve you of this symptom, but many guys came out of the water with their wives/girlfriends with hard ons too. Do women worry about erect nipples? I think not.

Relax everyone. Like anonymous said, be flattered, and move on.

We are in our mid 40's, the couple in front of us? maybe late 20's. It was flattering! Period!

[cardioman65]

I do agree with you! Someone please tell me how a guy can not get turned on seeing naked woman? The nudist concept is strange to me. How can you look at a hot woman and say, I am looking at her in a non sexual way? please! And some woman here, you know that if a guy is turned on, some women have to be and it isn't fair! Why are women bothered by a hard on? I understand if we flaunt it or masturbate or have sex on the beach, but it is a harmless reaction!

[softy]

It can be funny if the guy seems to be embarrassed by it, or if its obvious its happened when his partner took her clothes off. An erect guy by himself ...maybe only if he's hot. If he's hard because his partner is there and they are being affectionate then its really nice. My partner at a nudie beach we go to got erect because we were touching each in the water. He didn't want to go back onto the beach with an erection so I stroked him off out in the waves (under water !). But then it was obvious when he started cumming ! lol :)

No there's no big orgy at the beach but just about every couple has sex when they get home afterwards :):)

[Anonymous]

It's not sexy, this to me says "I'm only on this beach to get off because I can't get it any where else" not hot. I haven't been on a nude beach before but I'm sure it's for the purpose of being comfortable with your sexuality and feeling free, one with nature etc, but not one big orgy. I'm not saying you won't get aroused by naked bodies but, if your going to go to one you need to have control over your member.

[ditzytiggsie]

I agree!

[cardioman6519]

It might be easier to say since you do not have the anatomy a guy has.

[Kain6th]

Lol, like we can control when we get boners. NEWS FLASH! We cannot hun.

[Julius1933]

You go to a nude beach to be comfortable with your sexuality and feeling free, one with nature, but when a perfectly natural physical response occurs you kinda freak out.. you're contradicting yourself. When there are some creepers out there who go to the beach to get off, that's not the rule. Lots of stimuli can lead to an erection, some of which have nothing to do with sex. If he doesn't do anything with the erection, just leave him be, or if you're comfortable with your sexuality, you might even enjoy the scenery

[Anonymous]

I have been to nude beaches before and I ahve seen pleanty of erections at those beaches and sometimes it is sexy but most of the time it's really not. The one time it was sexy was because it was just my fiance and me ;)

[ditzytiggsie]

It's not really sexy to be honest.

[Alexz0]

It doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

I went to a nude beach once. I was sitting near a guy who was lying on his back. He was watching me take off my bathing suit and he got an erection. I couldn't believe how hard he got. It stood straight up. I didn't find it offensive. It was actually flattering. He even came over to talk to me. The entire time his penis was standing straight out. I enjoyed seeing him excited.

[dsuarez41]

Wow.. this is odd.. I would think you would have felt scared or uncomfortable having a guy next to you with an erection. Isn't it a sign of rape? I mean the guy wants you... confusing...