He says I'm not a "booty call", what do you think?

He comes over we have sex, chat laugh and he leaves after a few hours. He talks about family, work and personal issues. He does not spend money on me or take me out. I asked him I'm a booty call and he said no. That he also wants a serious relationship, and one day to get married and have kids. Is he trying to fool me that I am more than a booty call? Guys, is this just about sex for him?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • He says I'm not a "booty call", what do you think?

    I think you're a booty call which in my opinion is not much different from being some guy's girlfriend, wife, friends with benefits as it's different titles but it all boils down to him being there to f*ck her. If you desire to have a title perhaps try marriage-minded guys that are 10-20 years older than you.

    Is he trying to fool me that I am more than a booty call?

    Likely as guys tend to use deception to get sex and telling a gal what she wants to hear is often the easiest and best way as quite a lot of gals are naive enough to trust what a guy says rather than have him earn it.

    If you were more than a booty call rather than coming over and f*cking you he'd probably 'invest' which to guys tends to mean treat a gal as if she's a person not holes and commit to her.

  • guys like that are trying to trick you into thinking that he wants a family and he is a good nice caring guy. does any mutual friends know that you guys are seeing each other? did he ever try to tell you that you are a girl friend?

    a guy who truly wants you would try to make you a girlfriend. and he talks about personal stuff is could be because that you may not have a lot of connection to his personal life like friends work and stuff, so his secret is safe.

  • Sounds like a booty call. Why don't you try telling him how uncomfortable this makes you? If he cares about you, he'll try to make you comfortable and should have no problem committing to you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you guys never do anything other than have sex, yes, you are a booty call. By the way, dating where the man takes you out and spoils you is dead in this modern age. If you don't want to be a booty call, you have to pay half of the bills and show that you're not using a man for money, any more than he's using you for sex. It may or may not work out to date this guy, but you can suggest it. Just be prepared to pay your own way and invest in him as much as he invests in you. If he doesn't, then find a guy who will, just don't expect to be pampered. You have to bring something else to the table. Being a sex provider to a man alone while mooching off his money isn't cool. Be his equal and split the tab, and don't rush into having sex with him.

  • I'm going with booty call. If a man makes no effort to see you outside of the bedroom, then you're just good for sex. That being said, have you ever made an effort to invite him (or any other man?) out on a date to show that you're good for more than sex? Girls that are generous and don't think that men owe them everything are also more likely to be considered as girlfriends. What the other guy said about not being pampered is totally true. Us guys that want girlfriends, don't want to be thought of as an open wallet any more than you don't want to be thought of as just a wet hole. It works both ways.

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  • Booty call! He just wants to give you falls hope and make sure you keep giving him ass.

  • Have to say booty call.

  • You're a booty call, even if he doesn't call you that.