Men what would your reaction be? Sorry if its a TMI!

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Call me a B**** but I want to get back at my ex so bad!. he's going to come back, he always does and he's told me so a million times. he's broke my heart and cheated on me so many times its crazy. Before the hate starts I am 22, I am just using my sisters account because I don't have an account at the moment. This guy and I gave our virginity to each other This is my plan:When he asks me out again I am not going to answer. Instead I am going to go down on my feet and put my face against his jeans and as I go up put my hands on his chest but keep it where my face will like touch his chest too. (My face will touch his whole body through his clothes) Then come up kiss his neck and slide down his body and come back up so my butt will touch his (you know). Then grab his hand tell him you have my heart always will (while putting his hand on my chest) Then guide his hand down my body. Let him grab my (you know what) get him out of my panties and lay him on the ground and grind against him and say I wish I could start over and share my sexual fantasys with you. Get up say but then you left me. I am sick of being hurt and I know you can't be faithful. I am sorry baby, kiss him passionately one more time. Kiss his neck and say I am sorry but the answer is No and then leave. I really want to hurt him and show him I am not always going to be the back up girl. That I am done but I want to go out in a Bang like he won't know what hit him and he messed up and he can't fix it. What would your reaction be?

worzt · Accepted Answer

honestly I did not even finish reading, but going to answer anyway, and not to judge you or "atack" you, I answer only to try to help.

as stated by other guys, your plan would make frustrated maybe, and only a little, like they say, he gets to be a little frisky with you again, yes being stoped after arousal is frustrating, but hey, he will get at least that phsysically, and no strings attached? even better for him.

IF he is intelligent, he would either feel a little "joy" or find the way to get more of it, here's is why, again, I'm not here to atack you nor judge you but even if this is not true it LOOKS true, simply put, a woman who goes to any lenght to get a reaction (any) from her ex is a woman who STILL CARES, you know it, you just KNOW it, nothing would hurt him more than you moving on and forgetting all about him, that would be a revenge even if you do not mean it, but no, you chose to make the break up extra special, I mean, you are probably planning this more than you planned the last time you had sex happily, he, again, if he is smart, will see it as you being so taken aback by him that you have to invest in the payback, and even then you did not hurt him or ridiculize him, you choose to be frisky with him, a cynic or a cocky guy would be like "she had to have her hands on me once more, she just could not help it, poor thing"

a smart guy would at least feel flattered by your "revenge", acomplished even, but a REALLY smart guy would see it as "yet another chance to sex her again, because she still CARES" and he won't be so crazy to believe it, your reaction makes it clear that you are latting your anger, which is one of the strongest emotions, to get the best of you, and anger is better than nothing, MUCH better, he has got you back before, perhaps pitty, perhaps decieving, perhaps guilt, many strategies, but those have worked, and sorry, but very likely they'll work again as long as you still care, perhaps he'll now use anger as a passion maker (yes, it idoes work) and the more you let your feelings blind you, you'll be an easy target.

want to come out of the relationship as the triunfant one? forget him and live happily ever after, tere's really no other way.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Living well is the best revenge.

Move on, find a guy to be with that makes you happy, and forget about this guy. When he sees/hears about you having moved on, THAT will probably bother him far more than anything else you could ever do, AND you don't lose the moral high ground either.

Racez · Answer

Just reading turned me on.

Happy-Plum-Pants · Answer

Answer this for me, then I'll answer your question... See for yourself how you sound in this question

tswayd · Answer

it's kind of going to be very unexpected and awkward I think. Sorry it sounds nice but also like it would get awkward if you tried to enact this in reality

maiez · Answer

you're forcing him to rape you? that would be bad, but that's the closest relation to what you want to do. But just not all the way, its pretty risky and I would go home and be depressed. but if he's done this plenty of times and you know how he reacts, you know he won't hurt you, or force you, then do what you want. Id say that's a little too much work for getting back at him.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd laugh. Because at the end of the day if you're that determined to tease me and are THAT dedicated to getting a reaction? Clearly you're lying when you say it's a no. That;s obvious.

If I were you, if he asked you out, laugh, walk away. Don't even dignify it with a response. If he keeps trying and gets angry, take a leaf out of a friend of mines book and hit him in the solar plexus. It works.

Anonymous · Answer

You cheated on yourself. He was along for the ride

Anonymous · Answer

so what's the point.  he gets to feel you up and never has to talk to you again...im sure he will be crushed lol

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