How can I get my boyfriend to take his boxers off during sex?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this guy for a few months, and he just never ever takes his boxers off when we have sex. At first I thought he was being lazy. But the whole thing persisted. So one time while getting it on, I told him to take them off and he said no because of too many hairs. Today somehow the subject came up and he said he never does (and never took them off with his exes too) because he has a complex about it. So I told him, fine well I'm not taking my underwear off either from now on. We were joking about it, no hard feelings whatsoever from either of us. But still, how do I get him to take them off? I feel we are losing some intimacy with this piece of cloth between us. And since I like having sex with him, then of course I like his body and want to explore it, but he won't let me.. :(

[Stacyzee]

If he's not confident enough to take them off, then wait until he is (if that ever does happen). Bringing it up constantly is not going to make him do it and its going to make him think you don't take into heart what he says. If someone feels uncomfortable removing all clothing, if you keep asking them to they are only going to feel more uncomfortable. If you respect this man, then you will not make this an issue and leave it alone. In due time, he may tell you the truth of why he wants to keep it on. He may even remove it when he feels more confident.

Has of now, just let it be and enjoy what you have.

[Stacyzee]

Ty for ba

[teasegirl]

Tell him tht you want them off. That you want to feel all of him. The only dude I know that won't take his boxers off is cause he has a tiny one. I wouldn't push it tho. Not yet at least. Give him a few weeks to see if he decides to change. What do you do when you blow him?

[Asker]

Well there is a button on his boxers where the penis is, so it is pointing out, therefore I can still blow him and have intercourse. But still, it's annoying

[teasegirl]

But when you're blowing him just pull them down. If its too much at first let him keep it down around his ankles.

[Anonymous]

Tell him exactly what you said here about the losing intimacy with his piece of clothing between you guys part. Also, tell him to give himself a trim or shave in that area, that may give him a little more confidence.

[Craig69]

Start out by a heavy kissing session and work your way down his body licking and kissing his body as you go. When you get to the top of his boxers take the elastic band in your teeth and pull it down while rubbing your face on his body as you get the boxers lower. Put your face in his groin area and make moaning sounds that show how much you are enjoying yourself. If this doesn't work then he needs to see a psychiatrist for some very deep therapy..

[StephP85]

Haha, this is awesome!

[Premonition]

tell him what you just wrote, and take it off yourself.

[teasegirl]

What this gentleman said

[KingsOfleon88]

just tear them off, in a sexy way :)

[Anonymous]

How does he have sex with boxers on? I don't get that. And hair? You mean pubes? Can't he trim them?u can help it?

[Anonymous]

Tell him to take them off and to get over himself, everything is worth a try! And if he says no then Tell him no sex for you mr.!