Guy with a chewing gum motives, is it similar to woman with lollipop?

Hi, there's this guy I'm into, all of my friends seems to think that we're both actually flirting with each other. This guy is the kind that he likes to be in control of his emotions, but there are times that he loses it, and at that moment, he will pour his feelings towards me without him realizing it, and when he finally realized that he's losing control of his own emotions, he will start to be slightly cold again towards me. Last time during discussion, I sucked a lollipop, he got a boner at the end of that discussion (I caught him red handed, he didn't know I knew btw). Last discussion, he came in and was chewing a gum during talking! He never did that before, he never chewed any gum (in past few months, nvr saw him chewing any gum, especially not when he's in discussion!) And the weirdest part of his gum chewing? It almost seems like he chewed it in a way to look sexy or attractive (u can know if a person chewed a gum because they want to chew or just try to appear like a bad boy). There was even this moment he flipped the gum at the tip of his tongue (it was damn obvious!) as he spoke to the other group member (we are total of 6 ppl, I'm the only girl). So, my question is, when a guy chewed a gum in front of you (especially when he never did it at all before) does it carries the same idea like when a girl suck on a lollipop in front of their target?
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  • I kind of doubt it. The whole lollipop being symbolic is the long proposed phalic object thing. Gum as far as I know has never been proposed to have the same sort of sexual basis. Even still...

    The phalic theory to me is all in the eye of the beholder. Should a guy get boned up because I eat a hot dog (that subsequently looks like a p*nis)? Should a girl get turned on when they see a girl washing a cucumber in the sink? It's all in the eye of the beholder we assume a sexual relationship towards objects and thus some sexual act towards a person using those objects.

    If they gum chewing turned you on it's because you read something into it just as he read something into you lollipop sucking. I wouldn't assume that his chewing gum was to turn you on, unless he's on to something I've never heard of

  • Lol nice you gave him a boner by sucking a lollipop? and no I don't think it has the same effect and have never chewed gum to look cool as a bad boy.But have heard of guys doing it lol I think its funny.

    • you said you had heard guys doing it, why they did it? for the purpose as I stated? or just they chew it because they want to chew something?

    • 1 Said it made him less nervous anther said it made him feel cool lol.

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  • Maybe he is trying to see if it arouse you. But I never really thought a guy that chew gum is sexy. Unless he is damn right HOT. That would be a totally different story. Hope that kinda help you :)

    • well honestly my friend refers him as being universally hot. So yeah he did managed to arouse me badly lol! Because he normally come off as a decent guy, never saw him like a bad boy, but when he chewed that gum in that way while talking I was really stunned, didn't expect it would arouse me of course, but sh*t happens hahaha

    • I know what you mean, it's just that instant spark you get. And then you just melt. :) it happened to me before, my crush.

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  • This is the first time I have ever heard this happen.

  • No. Hell no. There's nothing sexy about chewing gum.

    • i actually think that he looks sexy while he was chewing it lol!