Girls, don´t you hate it when guys don´t moan?

[Anonymous]

I hate it. Guys are always saying how they want girls to be vocal in bed, but they always keep their mouth shut. The same thing bothers me about p*rn. In most videos, the girl is literally screaming in a very fake way and the guy is mechanically f*****g her with no facial expression and without saying anything. Everyone has been talking about this male p*rnstar lately, James Deen. I checked out some of his videos and I really liked it. He has sexy facial expressions that show that he is clearly having a good time, he mantains eye contact with the girl, he touches her entire body (in most p*rn videos the guy only touches her boobs or they don´t touch her at all), he moans a lot and you can clearly realize when he is about to finish. I loved it, one single 5 minute video turned me on more than all the p*rn I´ve been watching this past few years, Anyway, guys, why do you do this? girls like to see you having a good time too...

[Sovereign1979]

I like it when a girl moans a little during sex to let me know she is enjoying it. I like a girl to moan a bit louder when I am eating her p**** only because when she moans, she gets my d*** hard and makes eating her p**** a lot more enjoyable for me. It turns me on that I am making her feel good. While eating her p****, if she is making some noise not fake noises, I can literally get fully rock hard and even come from it.

During sex, I don't like loud screaming, but I like passionate moaning and breathing. I do the same as I keep constant contact with her and looking into her eye unless I am ready to come inside her. Then I will look away until I am not close anymore to keep it going. Yes, looking at her enjoy me turns me on.

I have never heard of this James Deen. Plus, I don't watch professional p*rn due to it's fakeness. I love amature p*rn because usually it involves two people that at least care about each other and they are passionate and for the same reasons you stated. Plus, amature p*rn is free, and p*rn shouldn't cost money.

[Prof_Don]

I agree...the professional stuff sux. Amateur is 100x better. 8-)

[Prof_Don]

I concur...no need to be uber macho and composed in bed...let loose and show you enjoy her body! :)

[Anonymous]

I hate it too. Guys don't understand how sexy a little moaning can be! My best sexual experience was with a guy who wasn't even that experienced in bed, but because he made some noise and showed appreciation for my body it turned me on. I don't even really like giving blowjobs, but I would give them to him any time he wanted because of the enthusiasm he showed when I did. It turned me on so much

[desidoll]

Haha I know right.Sometimes It makes me think if I were doing a good job or not.I become self conscious when they don't moan at all but usually the one that don't moan will give some sexy facial expressions so its fine for me.Anyway James Dean is hot!

[Anonymous]

For the p*rn thing, its mostly because p*rn is a mostly male audience- and the majority of guys don't want to watch some guy grunting away loudly: they'd prefer just to watch a girl moan in pleasure.

[Dante19xx]

Girls i can help with the moaning i moan a lot i always have i thought it was normal so hmu if you wanna try it out you can record it for later if you know how just lmk

[iveth]

Yes I love when a guy moans or even just a hard breathing or something! Ihate guys who look like they are bored!

[Prof_Don]

Damn you phone screen...i meant to upvote you.

[Proxity]

Got it, bro. xD

[evenlift]

Surely a guy should moan if he feels the need to. But surely you don't want a guy to fake his need to moan! Maybe you need to try harder to make him moan, haha.

[the-man-who-knows]

I use to be like that when I was younger because I was new to sex and embarrassed. Now that I am more experienced I am more vocal. To add to that I also like talking dirty as long as she (whom ever I may be with is not offended).

I think another contributing factor may also be that we imitate what we see. Like you said in p*rn the guys tend to have little expression and not be vocal while women are the opposite. Typically guys see p*rn before they have sex so it may help in defining our role or expected behavior.

[dolfan13]

It depends on the girl, All girls want guys to sound like they are having the time of their life but they don't want the guy sounding like a freak. their is a happy medium just needs to be stated.

[Anonymous]

Instincts.

There's a theory that girls evolved to make noise to draw other male competitors. Seriously.

I know a lot of women like sounds. I moan having sex with my wife. She doesn't like dirty talk, but she likes moaning, I can tell.

But its fake.

It doesn't matter how good it is, or how hot it is, I have no inclination to moan.

I think its just how stimulation of the penis works.

In gay p*rn, the bottoms moan. I don't think its just 'what's expected', I think its what's natural.