Girls: How do you feel about circumcised guys...as far as ability..pleasure..masculinit..sexual worth?

[Anonymous]

So, I posted a question last night about my decision to keep wearing my “foreskin Restoration” device. If you’re curious check out my thoughts and breakdown of the situation here: link

I wanted to ask more generally about female perspectives on circumcised guys. I hear a lot of women say they prefer cut because of the look of it. But I wonder: do women believe that cut guys experience less pleasure? Do you think they won't appreciate sex as much with you? I’ve heard it stated that cut guys get less pleasure but the fact is that many men cut as adults who have experienced both say sex is the same or sometimes better after getting cut. So I don’t think it should be assumed that circumcision absolutely negatively impacts sex.

I was cut a birth so I don’t know..but I worry girls will view me as less or see me as emasculated? What I don’t get is how some girls believe this but prefer the look. How could a girl demand give up pleasure to please their aesthetic preference? Are there really women who believe that? What do you think about cut guys as lovers? Honestly I just feel inclined to feel insecure about missing part of my penis…am I over stressing about this? Is it something I should worry about? (and if you read my last question—something I should do something about through a physical process?)

[udolipixie]

Girls: How do you feel about circumcised guys...as far as ability..pleasure..masculinit..sexual worth?

That they're far more desirable to me than uncircumcised guys in pleasure, masculinity, and sexual worth.

Do women believe that cut guys experience less pleasure?

Some do not me as going by studies and statistics the pleasure received is the same/similar.

Do you think they won't appreciate sex as much with you?

Egh in my opinion guys don't 'appreciate' sex it's just something they want with as many gals as possible as to them it's just sticking their d*ck in a hole and busting a nut.

But I worry girls will view me as less or see me as emasculated?

Depending on your location it's an unlikely worry as in many places circumcised is the norm.

How could a girl demand give up pleasure to please their aesthetic preference?

I highly doubt gals are demanding guys get circumcised as having a preference for circumcised guys isn't telling guys to go get cut. Though in the cases that a gal is giving such a demand likely it's out of self-centerdness.

Are there really women who believe that?

Yes how many is a toss up.

What do you think about cut guys as lovers?

They're the only lovers I'd consider.

Honestly I just feel inclined to feel insecure about missing part of my penis…am I over stressing about this?

Not in my opinion as you didn't have a choice in the matter.

Is it something I should worry about?

In my opinion how gals view you due to missing foreskin isn't something to worry about as to me what others think about you means sh*t. However your insecurity about the missing foreskin is something to worry about as to me insecurity generally is unhealthy.

[Asker]

circ rates are dorrping though...and I mean even thoguhy my generation is largley circed...if women aren't doing it to their babies maybe they decided they don't like it...thats what I'm worried about and yes I'm sorry to say some guys are just animals but I would appreacite sex (im a virgin) and I would hate some girl to be with me and be thinking "O man if he wasn't cut he'd enjoy me so much more..too bad sucks to be with him"

[udolipixie]

Likely circumcision rates are dropping due to anti-circumcision propaganda. Though in my opinion the current rate is a wash for you unless you're intent on f*cking gals of the generation after yours. Highly unlikely when you're f*cking a gal of the same generation as you that she would be thinking "O man if he wasn't cut he'd enjoy me so much more..too bad sucks to be with him". More likely she'd be concerned about her body insecurity issues and wondering what you want her to do.

[Asker]

well I mean its not that id want to date younfer girls...what ims aying is that ..the attitude can change...as in girls might relaize "OO all the boys in oru gnereaiton were given a procedure that we now know is barbairc and de-masculating...well looks like all these guys have mutilated d***s...sucks to be them"----thats what I'm afraid of a girl thinking about me.

[udolipixie]

I doubt gals of this generation would 'realize' this as it seems to take quite some time for attitudes to change especially ones towards gender particularly in regards to guys. Likely a gal wouldn't be thinking that it's a mutilated d*ck anytime while you're capable of having sex.

[Asker]

But its scary...like...waht if after I'm with her..she does a google search..find the info and realizes "p hey I found out how mutialted and inferior your penis is...i wish I was with an intact guy.." or shed satay with me..but pity me and feel bad for me..and it hard to be confident and resourceful in the bedroom if you know you partner is feeling bad for you or feels like she's better off than you.

[udolipixie]

That is extremely unlikely to happen as circumcised d*cks aren't generally seen that way as circumcision for your generation is the norm and surveys and polls show gals prefer circumcised d*cks. More likely you're projecting this because you view your d*ck as mutilated and inferior and want it to be 'intact'.

[Asker]

i don't necessarily want it to be intact..i just don't want women to look down on me for feeling less pleasure..now..its entirely possible some girls care more about their visual preferences than my pleasure..i wouldn't wanna be with someone like that..but on the flipside I don't want to be with a girl who feels sorry for me in the bedroom...thatd kill ym self esteem...so I just want to be whatever will make girls view me as sexuall whole and capable.

[udolipixie]

Gals most likely won't look down on you as circumcision is a norm and few gals bother to consider if uncut guys get more pleasure than cut guys as it's so accepted and ingrained in society. The few that do bother have various sources telling them there is no pleasure difference. This seems more like a projection of your desires and your dislike of being cut.

[Asker]

I actually like beint cut..because its how I've been my whole life...and I think its easier to keep clean...but I just worry what girls will think...i guess your right that many sources say there no difference and all the medical authorities say there isn't evidence showing it reduces sexual pleasure..i just hope girls believe that.

[udolipixie]

Doubtful you like being cut considering how much insecurity you seem to have about it that you project onto gals.Most gals do believe that as it the general truth since the sources and medical authorities are taking data from cut and uncut guys.

[Anonymous]

uhhh is it really that much less pleasurable to have sex circumcised? I mean I'm sure you're still getting your orgasm...

I've only ever been with one guy sexually and he is circumcised but I really wouldn't have cared if he wasn't. And I wouldn't have thought him more masculine if he wasn't. we really don't care. If it's something that REALLY bothers YOU so much then go ahead with your foreskin restoration but if you are doing it because you think women will like you more, that's a really dumb reason

[Asker]

i honestly don't think it matters much...most polls show that guys who cut ut as adults (who can cmpare as those of us cut as babues cant) say that its the same, better...or that its different but isn't worse...And I guess you may be right...i persoanlyl feel oaky but I do worry what women will think and being a straight guy it does matter to me what women think..i don't want them to look down on me.

[Opinion Owner]

well you really don't need to worry. One, I think most girls expect to see an uncircumcised penis when they see a new penis and two, if it's not circumcised, I cannot imagine any girl being so totally utterly turned off and disgusted that she's not going to engage in further sexual activity with you/would break up with you.

[Asker]

did you mix up circumcise and Un circumcised? I'm kinda confused...lol

[Opinion Owner]

Haha yes I did. Sorry. I think most girls expect to see a circumcised penis*, and if it is (like yours), a girl who prefers it uncircumcised wouldn't be so turned off that it'd be a deal breaker by any means.

[Asker]

i jsut wodner thought...the circ rte has dropped big time..emaning ttitudes are achinging what if women realize "o wow all teh guys in our generation has their pensies mutilated...sorry boys" thatd feel awaful..also I hear women syinyg sex with uncut it bad or even painful because of the lack of glide and also theyve calimed their cut partners make them bleed...cuz theyre so desensitized down there that they have to jackhammer their partner so hard..im terrified of that.

[britannny]

Although I'm against circumcision, I prefer the cut look. Even though I think it's wrong to circumcise babies.. I can't help but be a little wierded out by foreskins.

Not to insult anyone's genitalia who maybe be reading this.

[Asker]

I get what you mean..which is fine by me...but I mean..do you think cut men are worse lovers and feel less pleasure? that's my issue. I don't want to be pitied or looked down on by a woman, or be viewed as less of a man. personally I like being cut and am happy with the pleasure I ahve but I wonder if women will think less of me.

[britannny]

No... The foreskin does nothing to increase the pleasure of the woman.

[Asker]

ive hard different takes...but yea plenty of girls think foreskin doesn't matter.

[Asker]

but also..what about teh guys pleasure? wouldn't you pity of feel bad for a guy missing out on a lot of the pelasure he's suppsed to have? Would it make me you feel above him?

[britannny]

...no

[Asker]

im not attacking you I'm just genuinely asking...do you not believe circ reduces pleasure in a mjort way..i kind of admit I'm not sure but I doubt it..i just wana know if girls find that idea legit or if it sounds crazy

[britannny]

It reduces pleasure. But I don't really think about that.

[Asker]

You really think it does? I've read testimonies and poll spf guys that have had it done as adults that say it isn't worse or that's its just different..not better or worse..or that its even better...but the thing is I would feelt very reluctant to get with a girl who thinks she could be giving more pleasure to an uncut guy and thinking of herself as above me sexually beacause she gets all her pleasure..that would really bother me..i don't think I could be with a girl that thinks that.

[britannny]

There's something wrong with you. Go to therapy.

[Asker]

i just don't get it...why would you want to sleep with aguy who feels way less pleasure than he ssupsoed to? do you ever think ud have kids? if you had a son would you do soemthign to him to reduce the pelasure he would feel as an adult?

[britannny]

oh my god...

[Asker]

I don't understand..how would you feel if soemone removed your cliotral hood (btw the clitoral hood is the equivalent of the foreksin..its the same organ before a fetus has its gerder say so don't tell me its different)...Would you feel okay with yourself if your parents had your clitoral hood removed and then all guys were like "yea I know you lose pleasure but I like how it looks" how woudl you feel about that?

[britannny]

you're seriously still talking.

[Asker]

u haven't gave me any reason to not think your a horrible selfish human being..u don't have any defense..the fact is you perfer than men be robbed of their pelasure for your visual preference and after I throw a hypotehtical at you...and ask you how you would feel in the same situatuion..u just sidestep the question...tell me how your not a selfish person who enjoys mutilation ?

[britannny]

I've answered all of your questions countless times. That's why I'm being a bitch. Because you keep asking me the same questions over and over and over. No one cares anymore.

[Asker]

no you didn't answer my question: would you feel okay if part of your clitoral hood was removed?

[britannny]

I didn't answer it this time. But I've answered all these questions before. You've asked me all of these same questions at least three different times.

[Asker]

no you really havent...ur sidestepping the question because it amke su realize how sexist you are...u think its fine that boys are stirpped of their body and pleasure but your horrified that the same thing would be done to you...u don't value men's sexuality as much as your own...only guys who don't value themselves or their bodies would be with you.

[britannny]

Yes. Believe me. We've had this exact conversation before, except I was nicer and answered your questions. You're annoying.

[Asker]

no you really didn't. I don't know if you think I'm someone else..but id like it if you answered my question...just answer it and ill shut up...but you havent...u have not and won't because your afraid the answer will show what a hypocrit you are...just answer it...you can't because you know your dead wrong and a despicable human being for enjoying something done to males you would never be okay with if it was done to

[britannny]

Rolling my eyes at you, right now.

[Asker]

You can't answer the question truthfully..ur a coward...keep palying it off because you don't want to admit what a hpyocrit and misandrist you are...if you just answer my question I won't type another word.

[justme20]

I only date and have sex with cut guys. uncut is unsightly and a turn off for me. I won't have sex with or go down on an uncut guy

[Asker]

yea I hioenstly agree its not are east to keep clean adn smelling good..but its not girls don't have to go to great lengths to keep themselves clean either...i figure I could do it...wash and use baby wipes during the day or before an encounter...but I mean...do you think it reduces mens pleasure? and if so than are us aying you don't care about that?

[justme20]

nope. my guy is cut and I find his extremely masuline and sex feels amazing! He is very sensitive still and doesn't have any issues or complaints from me or past partners

[Asker]

O that's good..yea I am sketpical about the claim..i mean if that were true would there be a stretype abot jewish guys not enjoying sex in addition to all the other stereotypes about jews..lol

[justme20]

men love sex period! lol

[Asker]

yes...but id feel AWFUL if I knew I was enjoying it way less than I'm supposed to...and that the girl I'm with might think she would be better "Appreciated" by a guy that could feel more.

[justme20]

girls don't think like that sorry

[Asker]

dont be sorry..i hope your right!

[AnonymousGlRL]

You can miss what you never had. If you are circumcised its all you know so how can you miss being uncircumcised unless of course you were circumcised later in life. I've been with mostly circumcised guys and I prefer the look of it and the sex was great with them so you have nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

I think I can...how would you feel if someone told you that all males feel all the pleasure they were suppsoed to but you had a prcoedure done agiasnt your will that took away most of the pleasure from your gnetials...would you feel bad about being sexually inferior to guys? See I do..i hate knwoing I'm not equal to women (if its true that cut guys get less pleasure..its very debateable) and I hate that women know I'm below them in that way

[Anonymous]

No big deal

[Asker]

u don't think it drastically reduces pleasure?

[Anonymous]

I don't really care either way.

[Asker]

u don't think cut guys get less sensation and are worse lovers because of it?

[Opinion Owner]

Worse lovers because they're cut? Haha! I doubt it.

[Asker]

ive heard the extra skin amkes a huge difference..some women it alked too even blame their guy hurting them on being cut..they say the guy is so desensitized that he has to jachmmer her hard to feel anything. and makes her bleed even

[Opinion Owner]

I personally never noticed a difference.

[Asker]

uve had both? did both the guys seem to enjoy it to the same degree?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. I noticed no difference.

[Asker]

thats good...i just hope girls don't change their mind as circ rates drop and that cut guys don't get a stigma around us.

[Anonymous]

...BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Sorry, but honestly, most Western women desire the cut look. And when it comes down to it, it doesn't matter if the man enjoys sex more or less being cut. When it's happening, all the woman is thinking is about whether or not he is satisfying her. Really.

You really need to stop your obsession with your d***. If a girl lets you stick it in her, then it's good enough.

[Asker]

dont you think is awful for a woman to epect a man to scrafice pelasure for her preference for looks..and by the way you mean AMERICAN women...circ is VERY rare in the rest of the western world...its almsot never done in Europe expect to jews/Muslims and for medical reasons...

[Asker]

also, I wouldn't say I'm obsssed with my penis..im bosessed with having a happy relationship one day...and that incldues an intimate sexual relationship..which can be imapcted by my penis and what a woman thinks of it...I don't want her looking down on me Or not caring at all about my pleasure...i care about her pelasure and id never epxect a girl to get her clitoral hood removed just because I thought it looked better. I just want a happy relationship..its not about my penis.

[Asker]

but tbh...i don't really believe that beign cut reduces pleasure..atleast not for every guy..there tons of men who have felt both sides and perfer being cut.