Waking up to your girlfriend giving head..Ok?

[oneday25]

So I love giving head to my boyfriend of four months. He tells me over and over again how good I am at it. We mess around sometimes in the afternoon, but mostly at night. I think it's a huge turn on to mess around in the morning after waking up to each other. We sleep together like every night and every morning he wakes up he will kiss me once and then brush his teeth and everything and then it takes him like 5-7 minutes to really wake up. So we haven't ever done anything in the morning. Plus we are always having to run off to class. I read an article today about waking your man up by giving him head. I LOVE the thought of this! I would do it in a heartbeat! But I am concerned because of how we haven't done anything in the mornings and we hardly kiss...Would he enjoy it? I think giving him head in the morning would be really hot and amazing for him to wake up too..But I am afraid he will turn me down or something. So.. Do you think waking up to a blow job is hot? Will he not be into it, even though he's not a morning person? Should I try it on a morning we don't have class? Or should I wake him up for class this way? Have you been woken up to like this? What was your reaction?

[HandsomeRaj]

1. Every man's dream (including mine :D )

2. First and foremost a word of caution:

2.1. You want to give head to wake him up, never do it from between his legs or anywhere near them cause if he is in deep slumber and doesn't realize it he may involuntarily move his legs with a jerk hurting / harming you

2.2. Know his state of mind, a relaxed state of mind gives a morning boner and a stressed out mind doesn't have one generally. Know him and his psyche before you indulge

3. Yes I've woken up my woman many times by eating her out while she's still asleep. But it's not eating her out always, there are times when she's woken up to her boobs or nipples being sucked, earlobes, neck and shoulders nibbled, whole body being sucked / licked from head to toe etc.

3.1. Anything that is done regularly w/o change and variation tends to become boring :)

4. YES I think it's hot both ways but mind point 2 :D

That was a lovely question, thank you :)

[oneday25]

Wow! Best Question award! lol Love how you broke it all down to points. Point 2.1 makes so much sense I would have never thought of that! If my man woke me up like #3 damn! lol that's hot! Do you think doing it without mentioning it a few night before is a bad idea? Or should I mention it first? I think he will be completely OK with it being a surprise but did you read the article I posted? What are your thoughts on that?

[HandsomeRaj]

1st things 1st - THANK YOU for the BA :) wholly appreciate the gesture and thank you again for describing what you noticed & liked :) Most or any guy will love you doing that so mentioning it is not required :) but discussing /displaying / visualizing etc it abstractly will put the fantasy in his subconscience ;) and he'll want it :D - always better to do that since one can't predict human reaction BUT when u've put it indirectly in their mind then they not only want it but will also appreciate it

[HandsomeRaj]

making a man long for something as in a tease too is a done thing. A general man's mentality is such that even the best and exotic available to him easily scarcely begets appreciation :D Yes I did read it & I don't agree with it :) a boner in the morning is nt necessarily cause of a full bladder in a grown up man - that's for kids. For a man it's a sign of being healthy, a relaxed mind & 'most' time translates into being horny too & yes there is certainly urine 2 but dat's not d ONLY reason

[HandsomeRaj]

whichever way young lady I think it's a great idea both ways :) Just keep the (1) subconsicously putting the idea in his head (2) the 'tease / longing' part (3) point 2 of my original answer if you are keen on avoiding a heart or headache :D Good luck to you :)

[oneday25]

Awesome! that's such a great response! Thank you for addressing the Article I posted. So either way (asking him or not asking) is fine. I'm pretty excited now, because I feel more confident hearing all this from you & others! I can't thank ya enough! I'll keep all this in mind and I bet it will be awesome! hah Thanks mister!

[HandsomeRaj]

Was, is and always will be my pleasure young lady. You and your guy have a great time (and be safe) :D Good luck & god speed to both of you

[Steven1331]

That is the hottest thing I've heard in a while, coming from a man who wakes up alone everyday. And hasn't gotten a blow job in close to four years in ready to run one out just reading this

[stubbsy]

He will be taken by surprise, but he will really enjoy it, your have a welcome reception every time you do something like this,x

[oneday25]

Thanks for the comment!

[Anonymous]

My husband loves it, he has kinda woken up half way through wondering what was going on, realized, then just enjoys it

[gonyr]

Dring a nap might be better but either one is great

[tzdc21]

I'm willing to bet he probably won't turn you down if you do it

[Anpu23]

It is RAPE! There is no prior consent therefore it is rape by legal definition. And yes, it can be prosecuted if he chooses to follow through. Never, never assume consent when it comes to sex, even guys have the right to say no.

[fluffycloudmunchkin]

i think its only rape if its p*ssy on d*ck. i dont think oral can be considered rape. im not sure

[Lrhop]

@fluffycloudmunchkin yes yes yes, any unwanted/ forced sexual contact is rape. Just because it doesn't involve penetration it is still very much rape. Coming from a rape victim myself, when I was forced into giving my rapist oral, that was sexual assault, in other words rape. Please please, don't ever think, nor anyone reading this, that you can't get prosecuted for forcing oral sex. Now, would your partner prosecute you for waking him up with head? Mine wouldn't even consider it. If you are in a mutually consenting relationship I don't see where he would want to prosecute you. However I would discuss it with him before giving it an attempt to see if he is okay with such things.

[motownplayer2000]

Technically that is rape. If a sleeping woman can call rape if she is sleeping and the guy is inside her. It’s rape that she is forcing him in her mouth as well without his awareness of consent. Thing is, men actually like to be touched and have that stuff done.. so they won’t say it’s rape. It’s very rare a woman would do something so thoughtful.

[Koldhearted]

Wake up 5-10 min before you normally would, gently pull the covers off (or go under with your phone as light) and see if he has morning wood. If not likely poked it a few times.

I'd think Its fun

[oneday25]

So morning wood is just waking up with a boner, right? I could get him to come that way?

[Koldhearted]

Are you wanting to get him totally off while he's asleep?

[oneday25]

No, I am assuming he would wake up after I started, right? Getting him totally off while still a sleep I think is odd. I want to go down on him while asleep, but then him wake up.

[mrchristian]

wish they wake me up like that lol

[crazybastard]

that would be my dream. I have a same dream tho but I wanna eat my girl out in the morning

[oneday25]

That would be so hot!

[oneday25]

How would you feel if she asked you first? Would you want it to be a complete surprise?

[crazybastard]

yea I don't want her to ask because then she'd be expecting it. besides I know she'll enjoy it so no harm no foul.

[oneday25]

How do you know she'd enjoy it? I feel like he would but ehh confused lol

[crazybastard]

I know because of the chemistry we got and she loves oral. I gave her oral in the morning once but she was awake. we didn't get out of bed yet so she loved it

[oneday25]

Oh ok..Thanks so much for all your responses!

[crazybastard]

no problem

[oneday25]

Soo if she asked and did it a few days later would it not be as big of a turn on for you? Would you be disappointed if it was brought up like Sunday night and didn't happen until Tuesday morning?

[crazybastard]

nah it'd still be fine. you worry about it too much. just do it :)

[pilotsteve]

If he don't like it he is gay... In fact if he don't like it, I'll be your boyfriend anytime. :)

[oneday25]

hahah well I don't think he is gay, but thank you!

[motownplayer2000]

Do it! Don’t over think it. It’s a blowjob. 98% of men love it. And he clearly sounds like he is in that percentages... so go for it!

[AimeeKyle]

Absolutely. That is the best way to be awakened!

[Anonymous]

Definitely. I can't think of any better way of being woken up. I'm not a morning person either, but I would still love it.

[Anonymous]

Morning sex is the best! But I don't care for bjs.

[oneday25]

Maybe you just haven't had a good ;)

[Opinion Owner]

I have been told that before...so you might be right...but I am probably never doing to know that at my age...and you migh faint if I told you what I DO like!

[oneday25]

what dooo you like? I wanna know! lol

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! I would pull her onto my face and give her oral while she peed in my mouth.

[Opinion Owner]

Heh! Radio silence?

[Wiki0947]

Sounds kinda hot ngl

[Anonymous]

I'd love it if my girlfriend did this to me.

But she's NOT a morning person at ALL. It'll never happen.

[oneday25]

aw maybe she will surprise you one day! Maybe you could mention it?

[Anonymous]

I would enjoy it, but I would definitely prefer her to ask at some point ahead of time, just like, "hey, are you open to this?" It's just respectful and ensures their comfort.

[oneday25]

Ok, that makes a lot of sense..I like how you worded your answer. :)

[Anonymous]

you should ask first.

[oneday25]

haha would that be weird to ask that? How would you want to be asked? Just straight to the point?

[Opinion Owner]

not really weird. just kinda bring it up sometime and ask if he's fine with it. if/when he says yes don't just do it the next day...make it an actual surprise. i mean id think you would want him to ask you if he was going to start doing things to you...