When my girlfriend touches my clit with her tounge it feels really good but once she makes me orgasam it hurts when it's touched so she has to come up.Whereas whenever she plays with it with her fingers it always hurts,I think it's because she is sometimes to hard with it but even when she rubs it softly it still hurts a bit.I guess mine is just very sensitive.Every girl's body is different as to how she responds to things,maybe try different levels of pressures when touching her clot or rubbing in a different way/direction and see how she responds,if she doesn't like it there isn't anything else you can really do.To answer the remainder of your questions I think it is fairly common since it has a lot of nerve endings so will naturally be a sensitive sometimes painful area to touch.Personally I have only ever orgasamed through oral sex where my clit is being licked or sucked,although clit stimulation isn't a must for every girl to orgasam.
I was meant to say clit not clot,haha I apologize.
Did you honestly down vote because I'm not straight ?!
Yeah a few people have been down voting girls that aren't straight I don't really think it's the question asker just some guys that can't handle that some girls are attracted to other women
There are a few reasons why it could hurt:
1. Her skin is too dry (some lubrication is necessary to make contact comfortable)
2. She is not aroused enough yet, so her nerves are responding differently (try more foreplay first)
3. You are pressing too hard or touching the wrong spot (ask her to help you and show you how to do it right)
My boyfriend is often too rough and I have to remind him to touch me more gently.
Well some girls might feel pain there because their sensitive clit there are ways around it I myself to have a sensitive clit .
details are needed to give any ideas.
1 is she wet & horny & turned on
2 how is your skin? dry rough torn up
3 your nails
4 your approach
5 her experience
6 do you ask her why/what hurts about it
1. yes she is really wet and horny 2. it happens even when I touch it softly with tongue, while oral I can touch everything near but not her clit. 3. she says even if she touches it , it hurts.
ax a doctor then
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Idk. Maybe she needs to see a doctor.
Maybe she's not done healing from her sex change operation.
What is her response to oral?
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