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Women and penises: why are they so clueless?

I thought women and girls were so well informed and knowledgeable when it came to penises and their size. But looking on this site it has been a recurring theme that they are quite clueless (although they think they know). Don't worry us guys are probably clueless about something too that girls roll their eyes when reading a question about it or a response on this site. Main examples: - females always talk about length instead of circumference in their preferences (I think society is part of the problem here) - females overestimate or buy the lies of their partners (or ex) about their size It's all just a big surprise to me..
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Most Helpful Girls

  • 1. I know its hard for you to understand that some of us simple little stupid girls, who are just so vulnerable to being led astray by big bad boys, can tell the difference between 5 and 9 inches, but trust me, some of us can

    2. most men don't complain about being too thick. they usually just focus on length and how big or little they are in that sense. because that seems to be the main point of the "does size matter?" convo. which ironically seems to indicate that most people who are not women, who obsess over size with an emphasis on length, don't understand female bodies that well either or at least don't get a full view of things. (many women get more pleasure from girth - I hate that word lol - than above average length, for example ) could one then assume those men to be clueless? so then is this a "woman issue" or just the tone of the conversation when it comes to penises? I know you indicated society but I'm making sure you really get it. I know I think a lot of men are quite clueless about female sexuality and anatomy in general. not that they can't estimate numbers of inches, but they don't always know what works, how it works, and where things are. this explains why many men are excessively insecure about singular aspects like penis size. they're essentially self centered - you're obsessed with your own penis, not finding out how to work with what you have to please a woman. its almost NEVER about women. its about male ego and being stuck on themselves, imo.

    not to say that some of us don't have strong penis preferences, I kind of do, but the number of women who focus on this or with such intensity as men do, is just nowhere as high as its made out to be online, on this website, by really insecure men.

    But some women are just as insecure about other things. I would argue that we actually have reason to be though, but anyway. why does it matter if someone prefers a bigger penis or not? or if she's "clueless" about it, because you can somehow tell what is in her mind and what she actually likes? why is this important?

    and you have no idea how surprised I've been about the male ignorance of the female body. actually, no, scratch that. it doesn't surprise me at all, but its always kind of amusing/sad/annoying, unless theyre gay, then it doesn't matter but they should still be informed

    • I believe you're wrong, I think males know much more about the female body than the other way around. Why? Because we are curious and much of the time more sexually driven. I don't know what you're basing your info on but unless you're talking about douche bags that only do one night stands (meaning they care solely about themselves) than I think you're wrong.

  • "- females always talk about length instead of circumference in their preferences (I think society is part of the problem here)"- So what? Men talk about their length too- in fact, they talk about it a whole lot MORE than women do. Does that make THEM clueless? Just because someone chooses to talk about length rather than circumference doesn't automatically make them clueless. It just means that is what they are talking about at that time. For the record, I've seen plenty of talk about circumference on this site as well.

    "- females overestimate or buy the lies of their partners (or ex) about their size"- How do you know? Of course it probably happens sometimes, but that doesn't mean the majority of comments are based on lies or overestimates. Plus, believing a lie about a guy's penis size doesn't necessarily make a girl clueless unless it is clearly way off. After all, what are we supposed to do, demand to measure it ourselves? Why should it even matter that much? We all have to base our beliefs off other people's statements sometimes.

    As a girl, I can't help but be a little bit offended by the accusation that women in general are clueless about penises. I don't consider myself clueless at all. I think the really clueless thing to do is to make generalizations about others this way.

  • I dunno, I think the whole thing is ridiculous either way. A lot of people care way too much about something that really isn't that important, lol. Size compatibility plays a part in sexual compatibility in general, sure, because you want to match up well with your partner. But size specifics are silly. I don't bother guessing how long OR thick a guy is because I don't care. Numbers are insignificant. If it feels like a good fit, it's a good fit, and I have no idea what the measurements are, nor do I care. =P

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah it's funny to watch them make claims like that. I think statistically one out of 1000 men are above 8 inches in length yet every girl has slept with that one man. Kind of ridiculous when you think about it. Every time I see that, I'm wounder how many dildos the girl has. Her pink one is Tim, he's her first ex, the blue one is John, he was her second boyfriend she had a two year relationship with him. Then she went with a black dildo just out of curiosity, that was Jamal and he was the biggest dildo she ever had at 10 inches. Now she's dating the gold dildo and his name is Julio and he's the best lover she's ever had. lol Realistically one in 2 men are around 5 1/2 inches in length.

    • I'm the guy with over 8 inches and I've slept with every girl on GirlsaskGuys.com. Just to clarify for you.

    • lol

    • Here's some numbers for above average: 6.7 inches: one in 6 7.5 inches: one in 44 8.3 inches: one in 741 9.1 inches: one in 31, 574 10 inches: one in 3.5 million

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  • It should not be a surprise. Allot of the people that ask and answer questions here are young just like me. I expect that my views on things will be shattered many many times before I even get close to having a realistic worldview.

    However this does not mean I am any less convinced that I am right. Arrogant aren't i?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • What does it matter that a woman gets the exact sizes right? She either prefers what you have or she doesn't. If she prefers a bigger guy, simply, pass her by and go onto the next woman. Problem solved and no need to worry about numbers.

    • Oh and another famous line you'll get from these women is that somehow you should waste your efforts in trying compensate for them. It never seems to occur to them that you can always find another woman. Oh well.

  • I cannot understand why the boys who do not like girls' answers about preferred penis size think that they are not informed, or lie, or have loose vaginas...

    :-/

  • girls who want big penises have big vaginas, its as simple as that, and once you tell them this, they will ALWAYS deny it. find a smart women, then the size of your penis and her vagina will not matter.

  • well it's pretty easy to understand why we're so relatively clueless about penises… we don't have them. all we know is what people told us or what we've seen for ourselves. doesn't mean we're gonna actually know the whole deal.

  • Women don't care about d*** size

  • We don't care

  • We don't care you guys are the ones that make a big deal out of it .

    • Perhaps you have not read many responses from females from this site or the women who posted before you in this message.

  • Ok here is the deal. I like larger guys 7+ and if a guy claims he is "large" yes I will ask to measure it. I have and did before. 2 women like bigger and thick

  • I think a thicker penis is better, it's not all about length. Young inexperienced girls always talk about length! LoL! My ex had a shorter and skinnier penis but we made the best of it lol and we had an freakin awesome sex life

  • I agree with the anonymous girl. You guys think too much of the female body and sometimes you know even more than us. We aren't clueless, we just don't care or think about it a lot. Guys are the ones who are concerned with length and size.

  • Every girl on here has been with a 12 inch guy, I've even had girls on here send me pics of these guys and I am really good at estimating sizes and these guys don't come anywhere near to the said length or girth. One girl said her friends with benefits was 9 inches, saw the pic... emmmm no probably 6.5 at best. Another said 11 inches... emmm nah not really probably 7 inches. The best one though was this idiot who said her ex was 10 inches and he even measured it for her in a pic, so I see it and its him with the measuring tape, but he starts measuring his d*** at the 2 inch mark and it goes to like 8.5... I'm just like wtf can't you see its bs? I think the girls are more pathetic than the guys, because they so desperately want to say they've had a big one, when realistically its all a lie. Every girl knows that in real life the size doesn't matter, its the guy that matters... PERIOD

  • I rarely hear women talking about penis size at all. In my experience, it's always men who are concerned with length while most women don't even care as long as it's not incredibly tiny or gigantic.

  • I don't think they care as much as we think which is why everybody talks of length not girth. The vagina is like elastic so you would have to have an extremely skinny penis for her not to feel it. Girls always say it's how a guy uses it, which really means they feel a connection to the guy, he's good at foreplay, and he knows her body signs during sex to do what feels good for her. Size is a small part of all that.

  • It's not a surprise. Guy with 5" d*** tells his girlfriend it's 8". She's not going to measure the damn thing.

    Also, unless you've got a small d*** on a really big guy, they just look bigger than they are.

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