Hello =)
It's kinda late XD SoooOoooOoo, I'll give you the best advice I can at this hour. lol.
I'm sure that you've heard this before but you should carry yourself with confidence. Stand tall but try not to look too stiff. Relax. The way you feel about yourself sometimes translate into the way you carry yourself or the expression that is on your face. Sometimes you have to fake it until you make it. Meaning, even if you don't have that much confidence in your ability to get women act like you can get the women you're after. I'm not saying act like a jerk or cocky but a woman likes a man who takes pride in himself in a sense.
I personally don't believe you have to be eloquent or sexy in order to get someone. Yes, it would help but not everyone is the same or has the same ability. Being your self with someone is a million times better than pretending to be someone you're not. Yes, you should know this but some people act like they don't. lol.
Finding someone who is compatible with you would make you a whole lot happier than finding someone to just have sex with. Unless that's your only goal. XD I hope this all comes together...Point is! Relax, don't think too much. Smile, sincerely! and have some fun. Girls aren't really that hard to talk. They will respond to confidence. Your opening line doesn't have to be brilliant. Making a girl laugh is a major plus but hey not everyone is funny. I'm sure if she is into you she'll laugh anyways even if it's not that funny.
Say hey, smile, introduce yourself, and I don't know where you'll be when you're picking her up but just try to pick up a convo with her. It just sounds like you're letting what happened to you before get in the way of your here and now.
Hope it helps...or at the very least...made some sense. XD lol.
<30 0 0 0Well honestly I think you are pretty attractive. And I don't know for myself I was sort ofthe same way but I just lut mywelf out there and actively searched people out. Online helped. But it will come!just don't e afraid to e confident in yourself!
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I think being afraid of rejection is what holds people back. It's the law of averages. Just approach a lot. See what works and what doesn't. You'll also grasp what type of girls positively respond and those who don't. Eventually I hope you find a great girlfriend. who'll like you for you.
0 0 0 0You need to work on the confidence and start spending more time with girls.
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1 2Let go of fear. Take a class on it.
0 0 0 0Why don't you try OKCupid? It takes away that face-to-face rejection that you're afraid of.
0 0 0 0Good news though. You don't have any STD's or illegitimate children.
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