Girls would you get mad if your boyfriend got a boner from looking at another girl while he is with you?

[Anonymous]

Nothing like this ever happened to me before but I was shopping with my girlfriend and an attractive young lady wearing those super tight black stretch pants that girls wear all the time now kept bending over in front of us to pick stuff off the bottom shelf and I got hard from it lol. I didn't try to but couldn't help it. I think my girlfriend could tell.

[ludorock]

Hm... This is a tough one... I don't think I'd be angry, I certainly wouldn't. But I'd feel bad I guess. I wouldn't be upset with him I'd just be bothered with myself that I wasn't sexy enough? I'd put it on me. But I would talk to him about it when we got back to the car. Just ask him why he got hard, ask for the truth. Then I'd ask him if he still thought I was sexy enough, or if he wished I looked differently, or something along those lines. and that would be about it. If he said yeah he was getting bored of me, or he thinks I could look better I might consider ending the relationship just because then neither of us are as happy as we could be. If he said no that I'm exactly what he wants then I'd just take a deep breath and remember the dozens (if not hundreds) of times I'd bent over in front of him, or done other inconsequential movements that made him get all on edge and sh*t. Sometimes guys can't control it so I wouldn't get mad, I'd just want to make sure I was still good enough, ya know?

[Asker]

Thanks for the insightful answer.

[ludorock]

Anything I can do to help. I was wicked insecure about this kind of thing for a while but I managed to kinda just... look into myself and get over it. it's tough but it can be done. And if you're worried try talking to her about it, if you think she's pissed.

[peace-love-couture]

No

He watches p*rn so I know he's getting turned on by other girls. But I know he also gets turned on by me when it comes to f***ing, so it's all good in the hood

He's going to find other girls attractive and to think otherwise is pure ignorance.

[Asker]

That's for real.

[Ubetiburn]

You only turn him when it comes to having sex? That is sad! My wife has me aroused all the time. Just looking at her, the thought of coming home after work and seeing her, she is my everything. I love her and it is that love that turns me on.

[peace-love-couture]

Um, it's great that you take things literally, but the point was he still gets turned on by me

[CorneliaisPretty]

I know you can't help it but Id be annoyed. or id find it funny

[mattygfromtheMD32]

If she got pissed because my body did a natural function caused by millenia of evolution, I would leave her. That kind of jealousy is too much. That is assuming, of course, that I didn't stand there looking at the girl.

[Asker]

The only way I could not look would be to turn around or look straight up. Since my girlfriend kept walking forward I felt like I had to also.

[mattygfromtheMD32]

There's really nothing that you did wrong. Your body reacted the way it was supposed to, and you didn't linger or try to flirt with her. You just kept walking. I don't think you did anything wrong.

[Anonymous]

Is this poll taking into account that a male can not control when he gets an erection or not!?

[KJT6989]

No I wouldn't give a rats ass! I'm not a child!

[eveline]

Would you get mad if your girlfriend couldn't keep her eyes off a hot guy no you wouldn't get mad you would feel insecure ; she felt insecure not attractive enough

[Asker]

You have a point...

[G_GTom]

Women already do this, you just can't see the effects.

[Cottoncandydreams]

MEN can't help if they get sexually aroused. I am not the only pretty girl in the world.

[cheflove69]

Great Spirit you are a good woman... We are visual creature us men and when we are stimulated to that place then anything can happen...

[Anonymous]

That would definitely make me upset. I know it sounds naive, but I want my boyfriend to only look at me.

[cheflove69]

not so much naive as is selfish...

[Opinion Owner]

If that is selfish, then monogamy is selfish.

[Anonymous]

It's not like he's purposely getting a boner. It's involuntary. I'd probably laugh about it if I noticed.

[Anonymous]

I would break up with my boyfriend if he did that.

[Asker]

OH no, don't say that. I didn't do it on purpose so I hope my girlfriend won't dump me. Would you break up with him right away or would you give him a chance to explain first?

[Opinion Owner]

She probably won't, but I would get really angry if that happened to me, Id leave him on the spot. There is just nothing to explain.

[antonlikesmlb]

Lmao I can't tell if you're serious or not

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I'm dead serious.

[Asker]

OMG you're scaring me. Thanks for answering though.

[justincider]

Boners are kind of an involuntary reflex. Would you get mad if he got morning wood when you are not there? Probably need to think this one through...

[Cottoncandydreams]

looooooool

[Opinion Owner]

A morning wood is so different from him getting one by looking at another girl WHILE I'm with him, I would seriously dump him.

[Asker]

What if your man seriously was not trying to get a boner though? This other girl just kept bending over in front of me and her pants were so tight they should be illegal. I don't even think they're meant to be pants. I think they are supposed to be worn under something. Anyways you could see all the lines and shapes of her private areas so it was hard for me not to get excited and I failed.

[Opinion Owner]

I would've dumped you if you were my boyfriend, I wouldn't care how you explained it, I'd just feel so low, self-confidence wise. I see here other girls are saying they'd laugh it off, I wouldn't, It'd make me burn with anger and hurt, But that's just me...I like things simple...If its me and you, then it should be me and u, not me, u, and you getting a boner from seeing another girl when you are with me...i hope you understand where I'm coming from here..

[Asker]

I understand. I imagine a lot of other girls feel like you do also. Those are really high standards to expect in my opinion though.

[Opinion Owner]

Actually, its not a case of having high standards, its just a matter of wanting to have your man to yourself, at all times. I know my boyfriend will see other girls as attractive, but he better not react to that, in any way (flirting, getting a boner from seeing them)...otherwise I'd get crushed and look for another man who won't do that...but with that said, I don't think your girlfriend should dump you if you really feel ashamed(not excited) by what happened, she shouldn't.

[Asker]

I hope she isn't going to dump me. Things seem weird between us right now though. I understand why you would feel the way you do. I would not like if my girlfriend was getting turned on by another guy in front of me. For girls nobody can tell if they ever get turned on though. I would never cheat on my girlfriend no matter how attractive another girl looked.