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What signs do girls use when they want their butthole to be... on the menu?

Lately I've been getting the feeling that my girlfriend wants me to... ya know... lick that other hole. Just little signals here and there, but I'm not sure if they're actual signals, and I'd be REALLY embarrassed if I did it and she didn't actually want me to. So. Girls. What kinds of signals do you use to let your guy know you want him to lick that area? or Have you ever broken up with a guy or judged him for eating your butt because you didn't want it? Guys. What signals has a girl given you that she wants analingus, or have you gone down there without any signals from her? or Have you ever had a bad/humiliating experience where the girl ended up not being okay with you giving her a rim job?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • bite her (gently) on an ass check, then kiss it. If she tenses up and shys away... not likely to meet with a lot of success. A second and more likely way to it is simply press the pad of your thumb against her a**hole while you're eating her. If you find the base of your thumb dipping into her, you can probably follow up with some analingus. Make sure you have recently showered her so she isn't wondering if she is completely clean.

  • me and my ex where doing doggy style and I pulled out and started to lick her ass, the next day she said she enjoyed it so much that she wanted to try geting f***ed in the ass and she loved that too

Most Helpful Girls

  • He had already been going down on me. He had made me orgasm once already and had me on the way to another when he included that area with his tongue. It surprised me a bit at first, but I was so into the moment that I just went with it and discovered that it felt pretty good. I moaned a little deeper to let him know I liked it. He does not do it all the time, but ever once in a while it makes me feel really hot and aroused.

  • Honestly, I didn't know I liked it until he just randomly did it. My boyfriend is my first in everything and the first time he went down on me, he just did it and it felt quite good though I was a little bit embarrassed about it. I doubt she'd break up with you because of it, I wouldn't.

  • The guy either does it or not. If a guy is going down on me I'm just laying there waiting to cum. Some guys do it some don't. If she doesn't like it, she will stop you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • The only way to be at all sure is to talk to her about it.

  • Just start slowly heading in that direction. She'll let you know if you go too far.

  • they would send you a letter

  • i never even considered it so there wasn't anything I would have done to let my boyfriend know. he just did it one day. and I LOVED it. so you could either just do it and hope that she likes it, or the only other way: ask!

  • I would think they would just tell you

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