Is it a bad thing that my boyfriend thinks I give mind blowing blow jobs and he likes it 2 percent more then

[Anonymous]

ok yay so I give great bjs but I don't know if I should feel some type of way about my boyfriend liking that 2 percent more then me so he says. Should I just take it as a compliment? Right now we are trying to move in with each other, and he lives with his aunt and I live with my mom and sometimes my mom can be bitch, and his aunt too. So we find ourselves in the car a lot. And we don't always get the right times to have sex I mean we make it work but anyways I find myself giving him blow jobs a lot. Cause they are easy, fun, and I want to please him. But I feel left out cause I give him a bj that means I don't get none. That's why I'm also mad that he loves my blow jobs. I just keeping thinking back to how when we first met I tried to give him a blow job and he told me no you mean more then that to me and he effed my brains out on numerous occasions. And now he doesn't try as hard he just wants my blow jobs. And if I don't give him one I feel bad and he gets upset like fine baby you can deprive me. Pokes out his lips but I'm like f*** what about me.

[ilovelegs]

It sounds to me that sex (your bj's) are the core of your relationship with your boyfriend and yes I think it's turning into a bad thing. Don't take what he said as a compliment because that's not the kind of complements you want in a good relationship. Too much of that and he won't want you anymore... except for that. I think you've let that kinda get out of hand to where he expects that from you over anything else so he's acting like a spoiled brat. So yeah, I think that's bad unless he's using that as excuse because he wants more from but you won't give it to him. Unless you want to get pregnant by alll means stop that having sex when you're not on BC unless he always wears a condom. Your getting pregnant will not hook him but could get you pregnant which might scare him away because of the commitment he'll have. Unless you're getting more out of giving him a bj than he is, you need to slow that down considerably and try to get back to the earlier stages of your relationship... if it's not too late already. A guy might really like getting bj's from their girlfriends but they NEVER fall in love or think more of them because of that no matter how good they are. It usually works the opposite. If you're serious about living with him on the long-term and forming a loving relationship that will last where he will respect youn and do his part, I hope you consider carefully the things I said. Good luck!

[hannibal214]

of course he's going to prefer blowjobs to vaginal if he can't come in your p****, but he can come in your mouth. why don't you go on birth control?

also, he sounds like a good guy, so you should be happy to give him blowjobs if he's a good boyfriend to you. I think you should be flattered when he praises your oral skills

[Asker]

so true : )

[Proxity]

Well, you say you give good blow jobs. It's a talent you have and he will want more of what you're good at. Of course, any good boyfriend will want to please their girl by returning the favor somehow. After giving him one, just say that you want some attention too. He can't be THAT selfish.

While you're at it, try making vaginal sex the best he's ever had. Try to build up a talent to make it as good as your blow jobs (if not better), this way you're both happy.

I, on the other hand, LOVE giving my wife oral. If she lets me, It could be our only form of sex. It's my personal favorite. I see expressions on her face and her body responding in such ways that I can never seem to get in any other way, and that's enough too keep me sexually satisfied.

[prophecy]

so you said to him "f***, what about me" out load? you voiced your displeasure how he's managing this whole sex thing, and he's still selfish?

[Asker]

well I didn't say it that's just how I feel and when I like try to tell him oh you want a blow job again he sometimes gets really calm and say its ok...that's fine don't worry about and I know he is upset but he makes me feel like if I don't do it I'm depriving him or maybe that's just how I feel. And I'm also not on birh control and he has came in me like 6 times already and he is trying not to do it again so when we do have sex he doesn't pound me as hard as I want him too.