My boyfriend has been taking advantage of me sexually is it time to move on

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together about a year now and things started out really great and at one point I was thinking that he could be the one. Recently in the past few months he has been what I would call taking advantage of me in some ways that he would not normally do. A few weeks ago we were having a party at our house with some friends over and I was wearing a cute tube top dress and later in the night it was just a couple of his friends and me left And when we were all standing in the kitchen he came up behind me and pulled my tube top down and flashed my boobs to his friends that were standing in front of me. I did not have a bra on because the dress kind of had a built-in piece that held my boobs up. I quickly pulled my top back up and gave him a dirty look later I talk to him about it and told him I did not appreciate that he just kind of laughed it off like it was no big deal. Another thing is he knows I do not like him to come in my mouth and just last week we had a few drinks I got a little too tipsy and was nearly passed out Laying on the bed well he walked up to me and put himself inside my mouth so I pretty much just laid there with my mouth opened why he did all the work giving him a blowjob. Well when he was about to finish he held my four head down and came in my mouth I was not at all expecting it and I nearly choked half to death on his stuff and I'm pretty sure I swallowed most of it "trust me not on purpose". Well shortly after I pretty much passed out in the bed and did not say much to him about it. Well just last night we were drinking again and this time I went to bed before anybody else and fell asleep (passed out- I'm not normally like this but it's my spring break) When I woke up in the morning my face was covered in what was obviously come And my boyfriend was laying next to me butt naked. I asked him why he did that and he said he was in the mood and I was asleep and he thought I would not mind. These are just some of the things he has done his also been kind of disrespecting me like coming up to me and squeezing my boobs together in front of his friends like he wants them to see my boobs or something. He is never been like this before and I don't know why he's acting like this you think it is time for me to break up with him and move on? Do you think talking to him would actually resolve any issues? I do love him but I don't want this to be an ongoing thing I just want him to be honest with me and respect me

[ilovelegs]

You should have slapped his face and called him an as* in front of his friends when he pulled your tube top down and then walked out... called a cab... whatever. Staying in your relationship after that was really foolish of you. You should never let your self-respect slip down to that level because that can become almost non-recoverable. Every incident you mentioned involved both of you being drunk. It would have seemed that certainly after the second incident you surely would have decided to dump him or at least not be drinking with him anymore. No talking will resolve your issues because you're dealing with a guy that has absolutely NO respect left for you plus you'd be talking with a complete idiot. In the meantime he'd probably pull another shenanigan on you. Move on and see if you can start over someplace with a completely different type of man.

[Anonymous]

Seriously? Their is guys like me that just want to get to know you and want to have feelings for you, and will definitely respect you. This guy not only disrespects you, he's a creep, he is very gross, immature, perverted, and in need of a good ass beating. He doesn't even sound at all intelligent.

[Anonymous]

Ew he sounds disgusting. My boyfriend has never done anything like that to me but if he did once, and did it again after I had a talk with him about how it wasn't right, we would not be together anymore. Have some self respect. If he's not going to respect your body then you need to!

[Anonymous]

Do you not have any f***ing self respect? I mean honestly I've been used but that's just f***ing idiocracy...he's holding you down he's taking advantage of you and your going online asking ppl? my god wKE UP!

[1ibiz]

Hey, I agree with you, but please stop taking the lords name in vain. What did he do to get his name mentioned in all this?

[Anonymous]

Uuuugh. Dump dump dump. You can't "resolve the issue" when the issue is that he's a douche bag with the mentality of a rapist. His true colors are coming out.

[why-makoto-kun]

DUMP HIM NOW. That is abuse.

[Racez]

He's definitely being disrespectful. You need to leave him. Fast.

No need for closure.

[bDizzie]

Dump him already! But since I fear you will continue to put up with him, next time he shoves his d*** in your mouth you should bite down on it.

[ming13]

Get out of there and move on, and if he does come in your mouth bite him hard, he will not like that. But simply put, just go.

[ferny313]

Yes absolutely leave him. Taking advantage while you are unconscious to me is disgusting. I personally remember drinking with my girl and we were having sex. Then passed out after I came inside of her. I still wanted to f*** but I just couldn't do it while she wasn't conscious, so I covered her with a blanket and waited until she woke up then we f***ed again.

[Inmyeyes]

Hey Gotta Go honey !

[lala-193]

that isn't at all acceptable, in fact having your way with someone who is passed out drunk is legally considered rape. you deserve much better, he clearly doesn't respect you, get out before things get worse.

[HungryJones]

Seriously? You need to dump him and never go back, should be common sense to someone who does things like this to you.

[Anonymous]

yes!