I think my roommate has been sneaking through my underwear drawer how do I address the situation to him?

[Anonymous]

I don't normally have a male roommate but I kind of made an exception because this guy is a really sexy guy and really sweet. Today is the second time in two months that I have found a pair of my thong underwear in his room. The first time I kind of gave him the benefit of doubt and thought maybe it got mixed up in the laundry or stuck in some of his clothes in the laundry Even though we do our laundry separately I just kind of brushed it off. Well this morning I went into his room to borrow his phone charger and I found a pair of my thongs again laying beside his bed. This time I know he had to go get this pair out of my underwear drawer because they are like a neon orange thong that I know I have not worn in several weeks. And I always see them in my underwear drawer because they are neon orange. I reached down to pick them up and when I grabbed them they were soaking wet In what was obviously cum. I was quite disgusted I drop them back on the ground and quickly went and washed my hands for like five minutes straight. I was kind of upset knowing that he had gone through my stuff to get those out and because I keep two of my sex toys in my underwear drawer That I know he saw. How do I confront him about this I don't really want to kick him out because for one I need the money and I do enjoy his company and enjoy flirting with each other. We have never fooled around before but with the way we have been flirting I do kind of see things going down that road. What should I do in this situation? Should I use this situation to take our flirting further down that road or should I tell him That I am mad at him for going through my stuff and using my underwear as his come rag Without my permission?

[RasmusAiken]

"Should I use this situation to take our flirting further down that road or should I tell him That I am mad at him for going through my stuff and using my underwear as his come rag Without my permission?"

Why not do both? The attraction seems mutual. See where the flirting goes. You may need to "punish" him for being bad. (fun) And he needs to hear that you have boundaries and certain things are personal and off limits.

Something tells me that you'll eventually have to get more comfortable with getting his come on your hands. lol

[armyguy176]

I love how at the end you say, without my permission. as in, if he had asked you it would have been perfectly fine lol.

Its not that big of deal except for the invasion of privacy. He's obviously attracted to you. I'm saying just get with him. why not? What he did isn't that out of the ordinary for a guy living with an attractive woman.

[Racez]

Simply confront him about it. This is an issue you can resolve simply by talking to each other.

Or simply, put a lock on your drawer.

[ming13]

If you would like to get with him well I say go for it, he will have a nicer time cumming as you will be there, but it is an invasion of privacy which I do understand.

[Anonymous]

Lock ur room

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure he knew you had sex toys before even invading your belongings the first time!

[Asker]

Yea? How do you figure that?

[Opinion Owner]

Because we men are not stupid!

[Asker]

That's probably the dumbest answer I've ever heard.

[Opinion Owner]

Really? Like I already didn't know that almost every girl keeps a dildo or 2 in her drawers.